do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country ( Archived) (8)

Jun 2, 2013 2:19 AM CSTdo u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
kunal011988
kunal011988kunal011988mumbai, Maharashtra, India9 Threads 9 Polls 15 Posts

do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country(Vote Below)

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yes
27
39%
no
28
41%
may be
11
16%
wanna try it
3
4%
Total Votes
69
this is regarding long distance relationship
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Jun 2, 2013 2:31 AM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I think its up to the people involved to decide how they're going to conduct their relationships and what's best for them.

I imagine there are ups and downs, negative and positive sides to all types of relationships and that all types of relationships require negotiations and compromise.
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Jun 2, 2013 2:33 AM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
kunal011988
kunal011988kunal011988mumbai, Maharashtra India9 Threads 9 Polls 15 Posts
jac379: I think its up to the people involved to decide how they're going to conduct their relationships and what's best for them.

I imagine there are ups and downs, negative and positive sides to all types of relationships and that all types of relationships require negotiations and compromise.


yes u r right...
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Jun 2, 2013 9:23 AM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
kunal011988: this is regarding long distance relationship


No, it's nothing for me. I'm not prepared to break up from everything and start all over again in a new country/culture; it's like learning ABC from scratch again. I don't believe it'll work to see each other couple of times a year either.

I wish all people good luck, who are prepared to take that step.
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Jun 2, 2013 9:27 AM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
kunal011988: this is regarding long distance relationship

No. Need to get balls deep sooner or later. Rather sooner.
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Jun 3, 2013 11:48 PM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
sagap0
sagap0sagap0Davenport, Florida USA4 Threads 4 Polls 32 Posts
The most awesome woman I know lives in a different country. If she and I were to have a relationship, it would be worth the move. Not everyone is awesome enough to relocate to another country for, but it can happen.
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Jun 3, 2013 11:55 PM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
For me, the sooner I'm with my honey the better. I could tolerate being in different countries only until we could figure out how to be together.
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Jun 4, 2013 12:13 AM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
International dating definitely tests ones "metal" so to speak. Being in an international relationship, I speak from experience.

It can be very rewarding and amazing, it has its lonely times, and its together times (hhmmmm, my previous marriage was just like this as well, and we were in the same household).

The biggest factor is faithfulness, red tape, travel, and accommodation.

Fortunately, we both have homes in each country, so it is not a problem for accommodation.

We are getting married as soon as the "Prospective Marriage Visa" comes through which will allow us to live together and marry in my country. But with my fiance being a nurse and it being so close to when she can get a life pension paid anywhere in the world, we have decided to live here and also in her country.

Some think that this is a lot of bother. It is and it isn't. If one is not addicted to possessions, it can be very liberating, as one sheds the weight and worry of "stuff". Most of us only use a little of our "stuff" often, and a lot of our "stuff" infrequently.

So it certainly helps me to keep my "stuff" under control and it is very liberating.

As for the relationship.... I have never met a more dedicated partner, or a more compatible partner. She is fantastic.

So for me it is a no-brainer. Yes, of course. But one must count the cost and weigh up the benefits. For me, the benefits far outweigh the costs.

Each to their own, I suppose.....
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Jun 4, 2013 8:02 AM CST do u believe in inter-country dating? i e lovers staying in diff country
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
I think its the same as a local relationship, I am involved in a long distance relationship now, Im going to see him in December, it either works or it doesntdunno
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