ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money? (100)

Dec 17, 2013 4:53 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
chatonlyman2: And id he is only asking a quarter I don't see a problem

Well if he's very good, it might be worth a few beers and a order in dinner. laugh laugh
Dec 17, 2013 5:00 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
MADDOG69: Well if he's very good, it might be worth a few beers and a order in dinner.
Depending on the financial situation maybe a small carcheers laugh
Dec 17, 2013 5:01 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
My hackles have just gone up at the lazy jibe. There could be many reasons why someone doesn't have formal employment, or a consistent wage.

Women have traditionally worked their arses off for long enough as carers without getting a formal wage that we should be able to work some of this stuff out for ourselves.

Is a person's only value measured by a paper exchange system?

If I both need and have enough income for two people, then everything's fine as far as I'm concerned.
Dec 17, 2013 5:06 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
nano1963
nano1963nano1963galway, Galway Ireland1 Posts
wudnt give him money whatever bout working, wudnt want a lazy guy though
Dec 17, 2013 5:07 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
jac379: My hackles have just gone up at the lazy jibe. There could be many reasons why someone doesn't have formal employment, or a consistent wage.

Women have traditionally worked their arses off for long enough as carers without getting a formal wage that we should be able to work some of this stuff out for ourselves.

Is a person's only value measured by a paper exchange system?

If I both need and have enough income for two people, then everything's fine as far as I'm concerned.
Well income is one thing and how two people spend it is a good thing to look at as a couple. Its the way to go in the long run. Have fun when young and try to survive comfortably when old. The game planpeace
Dec 17, 2013 5:31 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
bodleing2: That's not love...it's dependence.



That's right, Graham!

How are you doing? I hope all is well with you.
Merry Christmas! 1 more week to go!

HLdancingsanta
Dec 17, 2013 5:33 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
[quote=Kaybee50 I could date a man that couldn't find his way out of a paper sack.

You Called?grin grin tongue wave



bouquet
Dec 17, 2013 5:34 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
HealthyLiving: That's right, Graham!

How are you doing? I hope all is well with you.
Merry Christmas! 1 more week to go!

HL
HL Merry Christmas and a prosperous new year.thumbs up reindeer
Dec 17, 2013 5:35 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
HealthyLiving: That's right, Graham!

How are you doing? I hope all is well with you.
Merry Christmas! 1 more week to go!

HL


Even less than that to the solstice...yay

wave teddybear
Dec 17, 2013 5:46 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
HealthyLiving: That's right, Graham!

How are you doing? I hope all is well with you.
Merry Christmas! 1 more week to go!

HL



Hello, HL...

Do you remember me?grin dunno
Dec 17, 2013 5:53 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
bodleing2: Even less than that to the solstice...



Happy Winter Solstice to you then, Graham!

HLhug
Dec 17, 2013 5:55 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Hello, HL...

Do you remember me?



Oh, you try to be the funny man?

rolling on the floor laughing

Hey, ya gotta call me again sometime.
Maybe later tonight after I get the kid to bed.

HLcheers
Dec 17, 2013 6:03 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
HealthyLiving: Oh, you try to be the funny man?



Hey, ya gotta call me again sometime.
Maybe later tonight after I get the kid to bed.

HL


Oh, You remember me?snooty


Just No Skillets involved!rolling on the floor laughing devil hug
Dec 17, 2013 6:09 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
chatonlyman2: HL Merry Christmas and a prosperous new year.



Well Howdy dear!cowboy

Merry Christmas to you also!

As for the prosperous New Year...
I live in the U.S. where we are robbed by our government so I do not foresee financial gain but if spirituality counts for anything, I am RICH! dancingsanta reindeer santa waving snowman2
Dec 17, 2013 6:14 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
pinkdiamond3: Ladies would you date/marry a lazy man


In some places, losers are not that popular... No girl will date them, emasculated modern men... giggle
Dec 17, 2013 6:23 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
HealthyLiving: Well Howdy dear!

Merry Christmas to you also!

As for the prosperous New Year...
I live in the U.S. where we are robbed by our government so I do not foresee financial gain but if spirituality counts for anything, I am RICH!
Always loved your health tips.cheering handshake thumbs up reindeer
Dec 17, 2013 6:54 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Cyn_Real: In some places, losers are not that popular... No girl will date them, emasculated modern men...

So, you're saying that men who are sick, maybe disabled, full-time fathers, carers, have been made redundant, or maybe have a zero hours contract amongst other things, aren't manly? They're losers?

Nice attitude, Cyn.
Dec 17, 2013 7:06 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
nano1963: wudnt give him money whatever bout working, wudnt want a lazy guy though



He may not be necessarily lazy just because he's not working.

Jobs are hard to find. If he was my spouse or significant other and temporarily out of work I would definitely keep the bills paid and give him money for gasoline and personal items but NOT cigarettes.

If he doesn't look for work then there would be hell to pay.professor
Dec 17, 2013 7:07 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
women mostly seem sasified round my area once they know the guy makes an effort.

if i have none then i will find a way to get some(legal of course) anyway just back from Columbia.
Dec 17, 2013 7:14 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
jac379: So, you're saying that men who are sick, maybe disabled, full-time fathers, carers, have been made redundant, or maybe have a zero hours contract amongst other things, aren't manly? They're losers?

Nice attitude, Cyn.


I only gave opinion to "lazy" men, not sick/disable men or fulltime fathers... I think it refers to some guys that are healthy and don't have other reason for not working... Correct me if I am wrong !!!
Dec 17, 2013 7:27 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
jac379: So, you're saying that men who are sick, maybe disabled, full-time fathers, carers, have been made redundant, or maybe have a zero hours contract amongst other things, aren't manly? They're losers?

Nice attitude, Cyn.


If there were no laziness mentioned in OP question, my answer would be different... There is no physical disability information about the guy she is talking about anyways...
Dec 17, 2013 7:27 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Cyn_Real: I only gave opinion to "lazy" men, not sick/disable men or fulltime fathers... I think it refers to some guys that are healthy and don't have other reason for not working... Correct me if I am wrong !!!

My apologies, Cyn. I was confused by the thread title.

How often do you think it happens that people don't work merely out of laziness?

How often do you think that people are mislabelled as lazy when actually they have something else going on, like they're out of work, or sick, or something?

Would we call a woman lazy if she was a home maker and her partner earned enough for both of them?
Dec 17, 2013 7:45 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
@jac
how often do u think people don't work merely out of laziness?

quite often Jac.many young healthy able lads round my place that would rather stand about selling grass/collecting benefits than do a day's work...that is fact.
Dec 17, 2013 7:50 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
Complex question.....I guess it all depends on the situation. If I am in a relationship and he loses his job of course I will support him until he gets back on his feet because I am sure if I was in that situation he would support me as well.
If it's someone who has no ambition and is lazy I don't believe I would get involved with him in the first place.
Dec 17, 2013 7:59 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Tormented: @jac
how often do u think people don't work merely out of laziness?

quite often Jac.many young healthy able lads round my place that would rather stand about selling grass/collecting benefits than do a day's work...that is fact.

Why do you think that might be?
Dec 17, 2013 8:09 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
ok Jac,wasn't with it just then.

kinda tired after the long hard day yawn or maybe i was just being lazy sleep
Dec 17, 2013 8:20 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
montemonte: He may not be necessarily lazy just because he's not working.

Jobs are hard to find. If he was my spouse or significant other and temporarily out of work I would definitely keep the bills paid and give him money for gasoline and personal items but NOT cigarettes.

If he doesn't look for work then there would be hell to pay.


Bolthouse Farms ??????????laugh
Dec 17, 2013 8:21 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
purr4mance: Bolthouse Farms ??????????



NOPE !!!

tongue
Dec 17, 2013 8:26 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
montemonte: NOPE !!!


i'll share !!!!wink
Dec 17, 2013 10:34 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
It would all depend on the circumstances.

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