pinkdiamond3: Ladies would you date/marry a lazy man
To clarify one thing first, not every person who doesn't work is a lazy person. These are very difficult times and many people are unemployed, but that doesn't mean they are not looking and doing their best.
Having said that, I voted for no way, based on the lazy part, not on the doesn't work part.
BUT if I were in a healthy / happy relationship and my partner lost his job and I needed to support him, then yes, I would have remained in the relationship and do what needed to be done.
Krokox: To clarify one thing first, not every person who doesn't work is a lazy person. These are very difficult times and many people are unemployed, but that doesn't mean they are not looking and doing their best.
Having said that, I voted for no way, based on the lazy part, not on the doesn't work part.
BUT if I were in a healthy / happy relationship and my partner lost his job and I needed to support him, then yes, I would have remained in the relationship and do what needed to be done.
Yes, the last paragraph would be a totally different scenario. I wouldn't start dating someone who needed financial support though.
Dec 17, 2013 3:38 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
Krokox: To clarify one thing first, not every person who doesn't work is a lazy person. These are very difficult times and many people are unemployed, but that doesn't mean they are not looking and doing their best.
Having said that, I voted for no way, based on the lazy part, not on the doesn't work part.
BUT if I were in a healthy / happy relationship and my partner lost his job and I needed to support him, then yes, I would have remained in the relationship and do what needed to be done.
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
Krokox: To clarify one thing first, not every person who doesn't work is a lazy person. These are very difficult times and many people are unemployed, but that doesn't mean they are not looking and doing their best.
Having said that, I voted for no way, based on the lazy part, not on the doesn't work part.
BUT if I were in a healthy / happy relationship and my partner lost his job and I needed to support him, then yes, I would have remained in the relationship and do what needed to be done.
unlaoised: Yes, the last paragraph would be a totally different scenario. I wouldn't start dating someone who needed financial support though.
I'm not sure what I would do in such as case, but I think it will depend on the circumstances and the person. For instance a white-collar vs. a blue-collar.
My reasoning for this is that managerial jobs are difficult to find in good times and usually (emphasis on usually) white-collar persons cannot or just won't accept employment in other fields (especially if certain skills and hard labor is required). A blue-collar on the other hand, e.g. a builder, can "fish out" occasional small jobs or will be willing to accept a low paying seasonal jobs until he can find something better.
Krokox: I'm not sure what I would do in such as case, but I think it will depend on the circumstances and the person. For instance a white-collar vs. a blue-collar.
My reasoning for this is that managerial jobs are difficult to find in good times and usually (emphasis on usually) white-collar persons cannot or just won't accept employment in other fields (especially if certain skills and hard labor is required). A blue-collar on the other hand, e.g. a builder, can "fish out" occasional small jobs or will be willing to accept a low paying seasonal jobs until he can find something better.
Good point but even with an occasional small jobs, he'd be earning and hopefully self sufficient with that.
LadyDiz: Hiya beautiful lady Good to see you here again.
I agree completely with what you say here.
Hey LD. Good to see you too. I've missed been here, but... this is the end of the year. Too much work at the office and too many social obligations... (I don't know why we call them obligations when they are such happy events )
Dec 17, 2013 3:56 PM CST ladies would you date a man that doesnt work & asks u for money?
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
Krokox: Hey LD. Good to see you too. I've missed been here, but... this is the end of the year. Too much work at the office and too many social obligations... (I don't know why we call them obligations when they are such happy events )
Goodnight gorgeous, passed my bed time!
Goodnight, take care. And if I don't see you on here again, have a wonderful, happy Christmas.
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