Why do some men from dating sites get crazy when they meet an attractive lady or start acting as the (57)
This is my personal opinion
You`re terrible in judging of characters
You`re terrible in judging of characters
------ This poll is Archived ------
How well did you know him before you invited him to your home?
------ This poll is Archived ------
You let a stranger into your house? 
Always meet in a public place and use precaution.
Always meet in a public place and use precaution.
------ This poll is Archived ------
You let him into your home without getting to know him first? I wouldn't had been all that trusting.
I would've met him at a public not alone with him.
I would've met him at a public not alone with him.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Candy you have at least 5 threads of the same topic.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Candy97: I met a man on here few days ago but the worst thing is that most people on here describe what they are not on their profile and this in general pisses me off. His description was Tall, 33 years old, calm, caring, loving, understanding, reasonable & accommodating . He drove 4 hours from his city and we met in my town but before his arrival he asked me to cook and so I did.
If I was a girl; I wouldn't fix first date at my home and then specially with someone I have spoken only few days on internet. dunno
Now from boys side; If I chat only few days to a girl...I wouldn't drive 4 hours to her house or ask her to cook for me; unless I have holy intentions angel And may be when he realized you aren't giving him what he was looking for; he got confused and annoying! mumbling
------ This poll is Archived ------
Ccincy: Candy you have at least 5 threads of the same topic.
Looks like she is still stressed out
------ This poll is Archived ------
with online dateing...you should never bring a man to your house on the first date
------ This poll is Archived ------
Sounds like some guy went wacko after he meet an "average" looking lady. lol
------ This poll is Archived ------
CPU1959: Sounds like some guy went wacko after he meet an "average" looking lady. lol
Meow.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Did it ever cross your mind that maybe he felt like he had "won" because you invited him to your home; lead him on probably?? 
------ This poll is Archived ------
jac379: Meow.
Woof?------ This poll is Archived ------
you obviously don't know anything about men, you lost control of the situation and want to put the blame on him. Stay in control next time don't be a victim.
------ This poll is Archived ------
MrMetalPA: with online dateing...you should never bring a man to your house on the first date
With any first date, really, whether or not you meet each other online or in RL. And even after the first date, you should consider whether you trust the person enough to place yourself in such a vulnerable position.------ This poll is Archived ------
tomcatwarne: you obviously don't know anything about men, you lost control of the situation and want to put the blame on him. Stay in control next time don't be a victim.
So your answer is to blame her?
------ This poll is Archived ------
tomcatwarne: you obviously don't know anything about men, you lost control of the situation and want to put the blame on him. Stay in control next time don't be a victim.
After all we've only heard one side of the situation.
------ This poll is Archived ------
jac379: So your answer is to blame her?
Yes she should have had the upper hand and maintained control of the situation. Men will respond to a managed situation if it is done properly and without weakness.
------ This poll is Archived ------
tomcatwarne: Yes she should have had the upper hand and maintained control of the situation. Men will respond to a managed situation if it is done properly and without weakness.
You don't get the irony of complaining that she's blaming someone else and accusing her of being a victim and you do that by blaming her?
------ This poll is Archived ------
jac379: You don't get the irony of complaining that she's blaming someone else and accusing her of being a victim and you do that by blaming her?
I do understand your argument but I must stick to my take of the situation.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Perhaps an error of judgement on both side.
She was taking a risk inviting him to the house,and really he should have declined and arranged to meet her in a public place.
People make mistakes.
She was taking a risk inviting him to the house,and really he should have declined and arranged to meet her in a public place.
People make mistakes.
------ This poll is Archived ------
rebel2: Perhaps an error of judgement on both side.
She was taking a risk inviting him to the house,and really he should have declined and arranged to meet her in a public place.
People make mistakes.
She was taking a risk inviting him to the house,and really he should have declined and arranged to meet her in a public place.
People make mistakes.
She's lucky to be alive to post about it.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Ccincy: Here's some info
Thanks Ccincy.------ This poll is Archived ------
Ccincy: She's lucky to be alive to post about it.
Lets hope she has learnt from it.Hello CC
------ This poll is Archived ------
rebel2: Lets hope she has learnt from it.
Hello CC
Hello CC
Hi Rebel,
------ This poll is Archived ------
tomcatwarne: I do understand your argument but I must stick to my take of the situation.
Blaming her is counter productive.
As Dizzy said, whatever mistake she made in trusting this man, she did well to manage that situation and get him out of her house.
It's not unreasonable to have expectations about others behaving with some level of decorum. It's just people can't afford to have those expectations.
Candy can't afford to expect people to behave well.
------ This poll is Archived ------
jac379: Blaming her is counter productive.
As Dizzy said, whatever mistake she made in trusting this man, she did well to manage that situation and get him out of her house.
It's not unreasonable to have expectations about others behaving with some level of decorum. It's just people can't afford to have those expectations.
Candy can't afford to expect people to behave well.
As Dizzy said, whatever mistake she made in trusting this man, she did well to manage that situation and get him out of her house.
It's not unreasonable to have expectations about others behaving with some level of decorum. It's just people can't afford to have those expectations.
Candy can't afford to expect people to behave well.
She set herself up in so many ways, all I am saying is women beware, keep yourself safe, don't let him in the house because he has a nice smile and manner. Take some time to get to know him before you trust him in your home. But maybe I'm old fashioned.
------ This poll is Archived ------
CPU1959: lol Great profile you have. I like when people are totally honest. he he
Who are you talking to????
------ This poll is Archived ------
CPU1959: lol Great profile you have. I like when people are totally honest. he he
Ah well, another troll!!!!
------ This poll is Archived ------
SO anyway... was he a good ride or not? 
------ This poll is Archived ------
This Poll is Archived
This Poll is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Poll get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
More Threads
More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
Kultur-multur
The weird and the random facts around the world
s*xual skills
men's perspective towards women
wanting beyond need
Unions support Democrats!
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
Ladies
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
Stats for this Poll
31 Votes
2,456 Views
57 Comments
Created: Dec 2013
Last Viewed: Apr 24
Last Commented: Feb 2014
Last Voted: Jul 2017
0 Likes
Related Forums
- More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- Kultur-multur
- The weird and the random facts around the world
- s*xual skills
- men's perspective towards women
- wanting beyond need
- Unions support Democrats!
- Would you hire this guy - for any job?
- Ladies
Why do some men from dating sites get crazy when they meet an attractive lady or start acting as the(Vote Below)
He arrived and we had dinner and he swore he enjoyed the dinner then was time for questions what he’s looking for blah blah. He said he was looking for an attractive, good cook, sexy, accommodating who doesn’t drinking go out if I was to be with with. Then was my time to explain some of the qualities I was looking for e.g, Hardworking, accommodating , loving, kind, loves family, understanding, caring, free from extra pounds, enjoys travelling & outdoor sports.
He had few extra pounds, he smokes and said he can only stop smoking if he wished but not if he was asked to. Later was time to leave the guy said he was not leaving and started calling me names, madam, my sister, honey hahahaa.. I got tongue tied didn’t know what to do but on the other hand pissed off took the key and while I was out of the door he came out drove off but rang my phone later till the charge went off while sending more than 50 text messages. I wondered do attractive ladies drive men crazy or some men on dating site have some sort of stupidity whereby they wanna act as the boss thinking they’ve won on a 1st date or think dating/ meeting is a one way?????
Why do some men from dating sites get crazy when they meet an attractive lady and start thinking they’ve won and start acting as the boss on the 1st meeting?