Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
search2014: If I was a girl; I wouldn't fix first date at my home and then specially with someone I have spoken only few days on internet. dunno
Now from boys side; If I chat only few days to a girl...I wouldn't drive 4 hours to her house or ask her to cook for me; unless I have holy intentions angel And may be when he realized you aren't giving him what he was looking for; he got confused and annoying! mumbling
agreed ...
desperation is not a strong foundation to build a relationship...
RobbieM: She almost certainly didn't consider him a threat, or a potential murderer, much like he didn't consider the possibility she could have been a black widow, who randomly poisons men she meets from the internet.
Dear Candy, You have written people are not exactly what they claim to be in in their profiles. Yes I agree to this. But hard truth is every human is hypocritic to certain extent and you are too though u may deny. Your profile may be among the same class of people and may be it needs to be reviewed by others who will comments the same as u have done.
Just another tale of online dating that I have heard, that makes me feel I'm on the out side looking in, yelling out, HELLO ! hello ! HELLO ! is there anybody out there !
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
arapaho: Just another tale of online dating that I have heard, that makes me feel I'm on the out side looking in, yelling out, HELLO ! hello ! HELLO ! is there anybody out there !
We only have one side of the story, It would be interesting to hear the other version, maybe things weren't quite as they appear!!!!!!!
tomcatwarne: We only have one side of the story, It would be interesting to hear the other version, maybe things weren't quite as they appear!!!!!!!
Bingo, The OP has not Posted since opening the thread, Sounded to me She was So Attractive, that she had to say that 3 times, and that Nothing he could say or do, would gain Him Anything! Lucky If He Finished dinner!Just My Opinion
tomcatwarne: We only have one side of the story, It would be interesting to hear the other version, maybe things weren't quite as they appear!!!!!!!
Bingo, The OP has not Posted since opening the thread, Sounded to me She was So Attractive, that she had to say that 3 times, and that Nothing he could say or do, would gain Him Anything! Lucky If He Finished dinner!Just My Opinion
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
HotrodLarrys: Bingo, The OP has not Posted since opening the thread, Sounded to me She was So Attractive, that she had to say that 3 times, and that Nothing he could say or do, would gain Him Anything! Lucky If He Finished dinner!Just My Opinion
His version would be nice!
No, he hasn't posted, maybe dinner was poisoned arrrrgg
Do not blame the victim. Any man who does not leave when he is asked and sends 50 texts when none are responded to has control issues. In other words, he is an abuser. Report him on the site or at least do what you can to warn other women.
BlueCoupe: Do not blame the victim. Any man who does not leave when he is asked and sends 50 texts when none are responded to has control issues. In other words, he is an abuser. Report him on the site or at least do what you can to warn other women.
I Think we only have one side of the Story Here,
But as we are, you are also entitled to your Opinion, Welcome to the forums!
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
BlueCoupe: Do not blame the victim. Any man who does not leave when he is asked and sends 50 texts when none are responded to has control issues. In other words, he is an abuser. Report him on the site or at least do what you can to warn other women.
You do realise that the only part of the story that maybe true is the date of posting?
Just think most of the sob stories you read on here are peoples poor idea of creative writing. I don't know a man who would even send 50 texts! If she said 3 texts, then he gave up, well that might have been more believable.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
RobbieM: You do realise that the only part of the story that maybe true is the date of posting?
Just think most of the sob stories you read on here are peoples poor idea of creative writing. I don't know a man who would even send 50 texts! If she said 3 texts, then he gave up, well that might have been more believable.
In my opinion, it's a load of old flanel.
Attention seeking on the theme of look how horrible men are to me I am so beautiful they are crushed when I won't spit on them.
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
tomcatwarne: Attention seeking on the theme of look how horrible men are to me I am so beautiful they are crushed when I won't spit on them.
Pound to a penny the pictures do not belong to the person typing the story. Not that it matters, because anyone believing everything they read on the internet, or the press, or on the tv, isn't the sharpest tool in the box.
Does it matter to me one way or the other? Obviously not!
I think its important to both stop generalizing, and to maybe have a look at the type of guys you give a chance to get to know...theres a reason why we keep coming across the same distasteful behavior with meeting new prospective partners - and it has just about everything to do with ourselves and repeating limiting patterns. If you don't like results, try modifying what you think you are looking for. Worked for me ;)
Crighton: I think its important to both stop generalizing, and to maybe have a look at the type of guys you give a chance to get to know...theres a reason why we keep coming across the same distasteful behavior with meeting new prospective partners - and it has just about everything to do with ourselves and repeating limiting patterns. If you don't like results, try modifying what you think you are looking for. Worked for me ;)
But of course, the guy in your example was clearly a needy fruitbat...
In response to: I met a man on here few days ago but the worst thing is that most people on here describe what they are not on their profile and this in general pisses me off. we met in my town but before his arrival he asked me to cook and so I did.
Why do some men from dating sites get crazy when they meet an attractive lady and start thinking they’ve won and start acting as the boss on the 1st meeting?
suggestion - do not invite someone to your home to cook on the first date..... and it is great luck that you found out now how unsuitable he is.
otherwise remember you can always get a restraining order.
lauraBCMaple Ridge, British Columbia Canada5 posts
MADDOG69: lol Wow. What did you cook for him?
First warning for me would have been , that he obviously Expected you to cook (Come on Guys , its not like that I hear now a days , and secondly him calling you like that shows signs of a mentally weak controlling stalker .... RUN AWAY Hun I am a pretty woman , I get heaps of men who drive me insane ...... I just want to meet someone great * sounds selfish I am sure ...... I know what works for me and been at that place has helped me to not have that type in my life ..However ....... I do tend to attract the guys that are 5 5 300 pounds and on welfare W.T.F ... Really ...........I work care for my own self and am not on here for a sugar momma position
lauraBC: First warning for me would have been , that he obviously Expected you to cook (Come on Guys , its not like that I hear now a days , and secondly him calling you like that shows signs of a mentally weak controlling stalker .... RUN AWAY Hun I am a pretty woman , I get heaps of men who drive me insane ...... I just want to meet someone great * sounds selfish I am sure ...... I know what works for me and been at that place has helped me to not have that type in my life ..However ....... I do tend to attract the guys that are 5 5 300 pounds and on welfare W.T.F ... Really ...........I work care for my own self and am not on here for a sugar momma position
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Now from boys side; If I chat only few days to a girl...I wouldn't drive 4 hours to her house or ask her to cook for me; unless I have holy intentions angel And may be when he realized you aren't giving him what he was looking for; he got confused and annoying! mumbling
agreed ...
desperation is not a strong foundation to build a relationship...