Jan 19, 2014 1:39 PM CST Would you call/text your ex girlfriend/boyfriend in Christmas/new year?
goldenglossMalahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads389 Posts
goldenglossMalahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland389 posts
Gosh ! I am really beginning to feel stupid now !!! Yes, my X is my X for a very good reason and yes there was negativitiy but it is for that reason that I texted him to wish him a very happy New Year, and luck in 2014. I felt that it was healing for me, and maybe might be good for his Ego. Does it matter who has won or lost? who is right or who was wrong ? If he didnt treat me right or I didnt treat him nicely? I don't like playing God but abit of kindness is never wasted and the fact that he hadnt the manners or inclination to reply just serves to prove that he is in need of some postive good wishes. Surely when you are Loving and Vulnerable and don't seek to own anyone and dont let bitterness live rent free in your heart you have nothing to lose. Thank God I dont have a big Ego. xx
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If they have decided that they want to move on without me, that means they dont want to have anything to do with me. why start something?