PrettyPrescious: I've never been married (so far), but I believe it is a personal choice--no one should be forced into it. The two people involved choose how, when, and where to do it. They choose how to behave in it, and how to treat their partner. They choose whether to stay in it or to get back out of it. Simple as that, but apparently not easy. I don't know how people manage it.
it's a kind of art form when it's healthy...ironically (or not) my daughter has been with her partner now for 19 years ...i told them they could make a ceremony of their own when and how they wished the ceremony is in the everyday action of being. No promises no set ups no vows to be tested... or i wouldn't make her dress LOL
Didier15: I hope you don't feel bad, i enjoy your comments, but they are more philosophical,i only try to share by believe without asking you to change. No, don't feel bad, i do not criticise your comments,your comments looks more philosophical in nature, so i share my believe without asking you to change.In my world there is GOD and JESUS CHRIST THE SON OF GOD.Nobody threatens me, so i don't think i feel threatened by you and your beautiful face.
ok we're cool ...
just keep in mind ,according to you this God you believe in is the only one who can judge me, and if there is such a thing I will meet it in my time with proud conviction.
just keep in mind ,according to you this God you believe in is the only one who can judge me, and if there is such a thing I will meet it in my time with proud conviction.
Marriage is something very great if we honor it to the deep of it, its not a contract, its a relation of two souls... which is meant to be forever, otherwise never....
MohammedSami: Marriage is something very great if we honor it to the deep of it, its not a contract, its a relation of two souls... which is meant to be forever, otherwise never....
Paddy brought his pal home for dinner, unannounced.
His wife shouted at him: "Me hair an’ makeup aren’t done; de house is in a mess; de dishes is still in de sink; Oi’m still in me pyjamas; an’ Oi can't be boddered wid cookin’ tonoight! Why did ya bring him home?"
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Didier15: What are your views concerning the oldest form of organisation? Some people call it a contract.
Marriage is business,, (formality ),,i don't critic those who wanted to , i precise. Banks, when you apply for a housing loan, they don't grant you if you are not, so you're forced to marry to have a home for happy people living together outiside marriage, then few years later , divorce and share the proceeds of the house with the legal fees that goes with it,, What's left after? ,,, Marriage was once a dream , but now in our modern era, it's meaning evolve with the time. They even grant marriage to gays and lesbians,,(i don't condemn) studies shows that 49% of marriage fail? it's not a gurantee of LOVE , , ,
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Didier15: What are your views concerning the oldest form of organisation? Some people call it a contract.
i see a lot of singles smiling and a lot of married quarelling ,, two people together around the clock ,, 24hrs/24hrs ,,, it will crack if you're not a good fighter,, i was married for 29 years ,, it lasted ,,
So you're ready to take this big loan?" I asked the bloke.
"Yes," he replied.
"You've to pay for this entire life. Are you sure?" I asked again.
"Yes," he said.
"Even if you choose to cancel it in the future, you still have to surrender half of your belongings because of it. Do you still agree?" I queried yet again.
"Yes for goodness sake!" He screamed. "No more questions please!"
"Well then," I answered, "I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride."
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
RDM59: good wasn't it ..... but what about this ?So you're ready to take this big loan?" I asked the bloke.
"Yes," he replied.
"You've to pay for this entire life. Are you sure?" I asked again.
"Yes," he said.
"Even if you choose to cancel it in the future, you still have to surrender half of your belongings because of it. Do you still agree?" I queried yet ag
"Yes for goodness sake!" He screamed. "No more questions please!"
"Well then," I answered, "I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride."
Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
Didier15: What are your views concerning the oldest form of organisation? Some people call it a contract.
Marriage is an institution binding u with heavy chains. To get out u loose half of ur possesions and money. Happiness is a non happening then.
It is better to live together where it is just a relationship with no ties binding either party and u can leave at any time with no consequences except what both agreed on.
i just wonder if all your children, once grown up see the point you represent. I think somewhere the institution of a marriage is perhaps a little outdated but in principal the system works. Else man will go back seeing woman as someone to hunt again, having it and moving on. Not such a bad idea after all. I am sure man would like it too.
Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
Bernhardiner: i just wonder if all your children, once grown up see the point you represent. I think somewhere the institution of a marriage is perhaps a little outdated but in principal the system works. Else man will go back seeing woman as someone to hunt again, having it and moving on. Not such a bad idea after all. I am sure man would like it too.
Or women see men as just there to make babies else they have no use and u r not bound to have a child only with one man as u can see from the previous one how good genes he has.
RDM59: Paddy brought his pal home for dinner, unannounced.
His wife shouted at him: "Me hair an’ makeup aren’t done; de house is in a mess; de dishes is still in de sink; Oi’m still in me pyjamas; an’ Oi can't be boddered wid cookin’ tonoight! Why did ya bring him home?"
RDM59: good wasn't it ..... but what about this ?So you're ready to take this big loan?" I asked the bloke.
"Yes," he replied.
"You've to pay for this entire life. Are you sure?" I asked again.
"Yes," he said.
"Even if you choose to cancel it in the future, you still have to surrender half of your belongings because of it. Do you still agree?" I queried yet again.
"Yes for goodness sake!" He screamed. "No more questions please!"
"Well then," I answered, "I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride."
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it's a kind of art form when it's healthy...ironically (or not) my daughter has been with her partner now for 19 years ...i told them they could make a ceremony of their own when and how they wished the ceremony is in the everyday action of being. No promises no set ups no vows to be tested... or i wouldn't make her dress LOL