do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages? (73)

Jun 1, 2015 11:52 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France?
and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??



Tell them we have excellent wines and champagnes ,, and you !! the'll be coming maybe,, good luck ,,
Jun 2, 2015 2:07 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
by the looks of the results we are not very motivated anymore to respond to messages.

:(.

ooooh nooooo, this site is doomed.

doh
Jun 2, 2015 2:12 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Rogerzoekt: by the looks of the results we are not very motivated anymore to respond to messages.

:(.

ooooh nooooo, this site is doomed.
hi R.....a good thred...its a shame that most woman on here...are old broilers...and not young hens.....grin hole hole hole giggle giggle giggle
Jun 2, 2015 2:16 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
laugh

handshake

most yes,
all no.


wine
Jun 2, 2015 2:21 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
What to do???????confused confused confused
You state clearly in your profile,if you are prepared
to RELOCATE or NOT.
Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France?
and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
Jun 2, 2015 2:26 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
yes indeed.

but it sucks that just for having a coffee together to see eye to eye at least once, you need a second mortage on your house cause the costs involving are enormeous.

so you have to be very very sure or very very rich.

head banger
Jun 2, 2015 2:43 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
chris27292729: What to do???????
You state clearly in your profile,if you are prepared
to RELOCATE or NOT.



Hi Cris, wave that's the point of truth there ,,old hens or old c*ck, that's not the problem, because both old and young is obviously in dating sites,, what for ??? if they are not interested by the search,, they just don't want to accept it by pride,,but the moment they may find what fits to each and everyone's situation, with lesser "inconvenience" then i'm sure they will decide, who will negate this ??? but then the game is too opaque to give up everything in each side,, and the question is,, who is willing to relocate,,, honestly my case NO,, i have a house and have what i need to survive,, then why should I give it up and start all over again thousand miles away ? i think that holds too for men.
And there are those too that clearly specify on their search for women who are financially independent confused confused confused ,, meaning the women relocate with their means,, nobody want to assume !!! that's it ,, there are lots,, and most young women are without financial resources ,,nobody want them ,, that's it, let's be clear enough, no need hiding behind false reasons ,,,
Jun 2, 2015 2:53 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
Rogerzoekt: yes indeed.

but it sucks that just for having a coffee together to see eye to eye at least once, you need a second mortage on your house cause the costs involving are enormeous.

so you have to be very very sure or very very rich.


Roger hiwave ,, i think we're approaching to a more & more coherent analysis,, yes, distance is a big hindrance, if you're from the south and the young woman is from the west, would you go down for just a cup of coffee and an eye to eye? ,, and for a plane ticket ? ,, maybe some old hens will do that,, but me NO,(though i don't pay much on plane tickets) i think it's the rule of the man to arrange for a first encounter,, INTERNET is worldwide,, just so many overlook this point ,, handshake
Jun 2, 2015 3:29 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Well.my profile states ""Permanent relocation is out"" which means,spending few months in my partner's country of origin,and vise versa,is not a bad idea.
Having your own homes in one country,and shared the homes of your partner in another,sounds very privileged.
Lolette: Hi Cris, that's the point of truth there ,,old hens or old c*ck, that's not the problem, because both old and young is obviously in dating sites,, what for ??? if they are not interested by the search,, they just don't want to accept it by pride,,but the moment they may find what fits to each and everyone's situation, with lesser "inconvenience" then i'm sure they will decide, who will negate this ??? but then the game is too opaque to give up everything in each side,, and the question is,, who is willing to relocate,,, honestly my case NO,, i have a house and have what i need to survive,, then why should I give it up and start all over again thousand miles away ? i think that holds too for men.
And there are those too that clearly specify on their search for women who are financially independent ,, meaning the women relocate with their means,, nobody want to assume !!! that's it ,, there are lots,, and most young women are without financial resources ,,nobody want them ,, that's it, let's be clear enough, no need hiding behind false reasons ,,,
Jun 2, 2015 3:50 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France?
and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??


I used to be pretty active here but these days there is about one person that sends me mail and though I can not always reply as fast as I normally would I do it when I back online. As for the ones that are pretty obvious scam or fake I don't reply. I have done the long distance dating more than a few times but unfortunately the people I met were not as serious as they appeared. I know for some it is good but I think that is a lot the same even right close to home.
D
Jun 2, 2015 2:22 PM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
cloer to home sure is preferable thats for sure.

but it seems we always want the one who lives far.

god knows why.

maybe cause its safer.
we have an excuse NOT to commit.

angel
Jun 2, 2015 2:45 PM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
Rogerzoekt: cloer to home sure is preferable thats for sure.

but it seems we always want the one who lives far.

god knows why.

maybe cause its safer.
we have an excuse NOT to commit.



ha ha,,, malin!!!laugh
Jun 4, 2015 1:35 AM CST do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
luckily there's still real women out there that are worth the effort.

go look for them guys!!
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