LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France? and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
Tell them we have excellent wines and champagnes ,, and you !! the'll be coming maybe,, good luck ,,
What to do??????? You state clearly in your profile,if you are prepared to RELOCATE or NOT.
Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France? and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
but it sucks that just for having a coffee together to see eye to eye at least once, you need a second mortage on your house cause the costs involving are enormeous.
so you have to be very very sure or very very rich.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
chris27292729: What to do??????? You state clearly in your profile,if you are prepared to RELOCATE or NOT.
Hi Cris, that's the point of truth there ,,old hens or old c*ck, that's not the problem, because both old and young is obviously in dating sites,, what for ??? if they are not interested by the search,, they just don't want to accept it by pride,,but the moment they may find what fits to each and everyone's situation, with lesser "inconvenience" then i'm sure they will decide, who will negate this ??? but then the game is too opaque to give up everything in each side,, and the question is,, who is willing to relocate,,, honestly my case NO,, i have a house and have what i need to survive,, then why should I give it up and start all over again thousand miles away ? i think that holds too for men. And there are those too that clearly specify on their search for women who are financially independent ,, meaning the women relocate with their means,, nobody want to assume !!! that's it ,, there are lots,, and most young women are without financial resources ,,nobody want them ,, that's it, let's be clear enough, no need hiding behind false reasons ,,,
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Rogerzoekt: yes indeed.
but it sucks that just for having a coffee together to see eye to eye at least once, you need a second mortage on your house cause the costs involving are enormeous.
so you have to be very very sure or very very rich.
Roger hi ,, i think we're approaching to a more & more coherent analysis,, yes, distance is a big hindrance, if you're from the south and the young woman is from the west, would you go down for just a cup of coffee and an eye to eye? ,, and for a plane ticket ? ,, maybe some old hens will do that,, but me NO,(though i don't pay much on plane tickets) i think it's the rule of the man to arrange for a first encounter,, INTERNET is worldwide,, just so many overlook this point ,,
Well.my profile states ""Permanent relocation is out"" which means,spending few months in my partner's country of origin,and vise versa,is not a bad idea. Having your own homes in one country,and shared the homes of your partner in another,sounds very privileged.
Lolette: Hi Cris, that's the point of truth there ,,old hens or old c*ck, that's not the problem, because both old and young is obviously in dating sites,, what for ??? if they are not interested by the search,, they just don't want to accept it by pride,,but the moment they may find what fits to each and everyone's situation, with lesser "inconvenience" then i'm sure they will decide, who will negate this ??? but then the game is too opaque to give up everything in each side,, and the question is,, who is willing to relocate,,, honestly my case NO,, i have a house and have what i need to survive,, then why should I give it up and start all over again thousand miles away ? i think that holds too for men. And there are those too that clearly specify on their search for women who are financially independent ,, meaning the women relocate with their means,, nobody want to assume !!! that's it ,, there are lots,, and most young women are without financial resources ,,nobody want them ,, that's it, let's be clear enough, no need hiding behind false reasons ,,,
Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France? and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
I used to be pretty active here but these days there is about one person that sends me mail and though I can not always reply as fast as I normally would I do it when I back online. As for the ones that are pretty obvious scam or fake I don't reply. I have done the long distance dating more than a few times but unfortunately the people I met were not as serious as they appeared. I know for some it is good but I think that is a lot the same even right close to home. D
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and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
Tell them we have excellent wines and champagnes ,, and you !! the'll be coming maybe,, good luck ,,