do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages? (73)
Dunno what to tell you, I get so little mail on here, or elsewhere, that it really isn't a problem to reply. Although, I am bad for replying in a timely manner, and still haven't replied to a mail I received a week ago already. Oh, and one from a month ago. 
My purpose for being here isn't to find a partner though. Actually, I don't know what my purpose is here.
My purpose for being here isn't to find a partner though. Actually, I don't know what my purpose is here.
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Rogerzoekt: to be honest i do not get that many messages, but when i do and things seem to go the right way, i begin to wonder if its all worth it continuing, for when thinking about it, what is the chance i actually move to Brasil, or my eskimowoman comes to France?
and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??
International dating site sounds like a great idea, but let’s be realistic for a short while.
How many would give up their job, friends and relatives, especially when they have turned 50 and move to a foreign country without a social network?
How many are able to learn or have the motivation to learn a new language when they’ve turned 50?
The biggest issue would be finding a job in the new country; I’m not talking about an unqualified job. There are quite a few obstacles to consider.
As I see it, the other one has to be quite wealthy to support the other one!!
I’m sorry Rogerzoekt, but I’ve no advice at all for you, I can only wish you good luck here.
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abcWOMAN: International dating site sounds like a great idea, but let’s be realistic for a short while.
How many would give up their job, friends and relatives, especially when they have turned 50 and move to a foreign country without a social network?
How many are able to learn or have the motivation to learn a new language when they’ve turned 50?
The biggest issue would be finding a job in the new country; I’m not talking about an unqualified job. There are quite a few obstacles to consider.
As I see it, the other one has to be quite wealthy to support the other one!!
I’m sorry Rogerzoekt, but I’ve no advice at all for you, I can only wish you good luck here.
How many would give up their job, friends and relatives, especially when they have turned 50 and move to a foreign country without a social network?
How many are able to learn or have the motivation to learn a new language when they’ve turned 50?
The biggest issue would be finding a job in the new country; I’m not talking about an unqualified job. There are quite a few obstacles to consider.
As I see it, the other one has to be quite wealthy to support the other one!!
I’m sorry Rogerzoekt, but I’ve no advice at all for you, I can only wish you good luck here.
I agree with you, the other thing is when your over fifty is if its worth the time and money to get them to your own country,
some would say yes, others like me the distance and problems get in the way,
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arapaho: I agree with you, the other thing is when your over fifty is if its worth the time and money to get them to your own country,
some would say yes, others like me the distance and problems get in the way,
some would say yes, others like me the distance and problems get in the way,
Distance can be an issue, and can also be overcome, but it isn't easy or cheap. The biggest problem with that is whether either can stay in the other country permanently.
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kidatheart: Distance can be an issue, and can also be overcome, but it isn't easy or cheap. The biggest problem with that is whether either can stay in the other country permanently.
No its not, and to stay you have to marry them,
here in Australia its easier for Asians to come here, or so I was told,
and you can talk for months but when you meet you might not like each other,
but your right problems can be overcome if the effort is put in,
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arapaho: No its not, and to stay you have to marry them,
here in Australia its easier for Asians to come here, or so I was told,
and you can talk for months but when you meet you might not like each other,
but your right problems can be overcome if the effort is put in,
here in Australia its easier for Asians to come here, or so I was told,
and you can talk for months but when you meet you might not like each other,
but your right problems can be overcome if the effort is put in,
Seems that the only ones they let into Canada are Asian millionaires.
Any way you slice it, it can be a crap's shoot.
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I don't lose anything whether I respond or not.
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I chose from the beginning to have my settings set in such a way so as not to receive mail from far-flung countries.
For totally practical reasons.
I do not intend to move to another country, and I wouldn't expect anybody else to give up their life to move here on the tiny chance of a potential relationship working out.
So i avoided it from the beginning.
As for more local messages, I always answer them if they seem anyway decent, out of politeness.
But they would need to grab my attention, to stand out, to warrant continuing the conversation.
Few do
For totally practical reasons.
I do not intend to move to another country, and I wouldn't expect anybody else to give up their life to move here on the tiny chance of a potential relationship working out.
So i avoided it from the beginning.
As for more local messages, I always answer them if they seem anyway decent, out of politeness.
But they would need to grab my attention, to stand out, to warrant continuing the conversation.
Few do
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online today!....I just send meesages of comfort.....
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truheart1941: ....I just send meesages of comfort.....
Good morning, my little custard cream
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Truheart.
Have you tried messaging women?
Have you tried messaging women?
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online today!mollybaby: Good morning, my little custard cream
hello my little fairy cake,,,god bless you my child......
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online today!allthegoodnamest: Truheart.
Have you tried messaging women?
....WHY....??????Have you tried messaging women?
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Truheart.
I was hoping you could enlighten me with your wisdom.
I was hoping you could enlighten me with your wisdom.
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allthegoodnamest: Truheart.
I was hoping you could enlighten me with your wisdom.
I was hoping you could enlighten me with your wisdom.
This should be interesting
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allthegoodnamest: Truheart.
I was hoping you could enlighten me with your wisdom.
I was hoping you could enlighten me with your wisdom.
Oops, sorry Pete.
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Hi Molly , I took your advice last night , although I'm feeling a bit sore this morning !!
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allthegoodnamest: Hi Molly , I took your advice last night , although I'm feeling a bit sore this morning !!
But was it worth it?
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online today!kidatheart: Oops, sorry Pete.
no problem....kidatheart....alas i cannot offer you any advice....because your the only sane one on here......------ This poll is Archived ------
truheart1941: no problem....kidatheart....alas i cannot offer you any advice....because your the only sane one on here......
FFS, I've never been excluded from anything for the reason of sanity before.
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Molly .
Yes it helped but I'm walking on crutches at the mo.
Yes it helped but I'm walking on crutches at the mo.
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allthegoodnamest: Molly .
Yes it helped but I'm walking on crutches at the mo.
Yes it helped but I'm walking on crutches at the mo.
2 or 3 crutches?
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Truheart.
No. Molly told me how to pleasure myself using "muffs"!!
No. Molly told me how to pleasure myself using "muffs"!!
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Molly.
Yes 3 , although I'm having problems adjusting two of them to size!!!!
Yes 3 , although I'm having problems adjusting two of them to size!!!!
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allthegoodnamest: Molly.
Yes 3 , although I'm having problems adjusting two of them to size!!!!
Yes 3 , although I'm having problems adjusting two of them to size!!!!
Just shorten them....a lot
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online today!allthegoodnamest: Molly.
Yes 3 , although I'm having problems adjusting two of them to size!!!!
let mother nature ,take its course....otherwise,,,trying to adjust.them you could end up a dwaft.....Yes 3 , although I'm having problems adjusting two of them to size!!!!
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mollybaby: I can never remember the difference between nails and screws
Maybe it has something to do with position?
After all, you nail something down, and screw others up.
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Molly Truheart .
Your advise is crippling me !!
Your advise is crippling me !!
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online today!kidatheart: Maybe it has something to do with position?
After all, you nail something down, and screw others up.
yes...i concur.....After all, you nail something down, and screw others up.
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allthegoodnamest: Molly Truheart .
Your advise is crippling me !!
Your advise is crippling me !!
Are you taking a stand on the issue?
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do you loose motivation sometimes to reply to messages?(Vote Below)
and if your purpose here is finding a partner, not a pen pal, well,.......... what to do??