Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high (85)

Jul 17, 2018 4:05 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
mollybaby: I don't feel the need to choose one over the other
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I do
Jul 17, 2018 4:14 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
The trick is to remove the versus between nature and nurture because it’s not an either/or concept. If you’re choosing one side over the other you’re liable to over or underestimate the things within your control and it will certainly distort what type of things you believe you can control.
Jul 17, 2018 5:08 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
Chesny Christ mollybaby thanks for your great thoughts.bouquet
Jul 17, 2018 5:08 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
Rachie14 thanks dear for your nice comments
Jul 17, 2018 5:12 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Well, I wouldn't compare anyone to a dog...
And yes, there are many vicious dog breeds...
Your fateful dog will eat your face up the moment it sniffs you are dead...
Jul 17, 2018 5:32 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
pKrema: Well, I wouldn't compare anyone to a dog...
And yes, there are many vicious dog breeds...
Your fateful dog will eat your face up the moment it sniffs you are dead...
Pkrema nice thoughts for humanity . you want to save human life. Impressive think.

What happened you back again old picture ' what is happened behind this logic . why you feel now need for a changed again teddybear
Jul 17, 2018 5:36 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
pKrema: Well, I wouldn't compare anyone to a dog...
And yes, there are many vicious dog breeds...
Your fateful dog will eat your face up the moment it sniffs you are dead...
Thanks for advice . I have a Russian small dog . full White hair . beautiful looking. Ifteddybear
Jul 17, 2018 8:02 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Gill695: Thanks for advice . I have a Russian small dog . full White hair . beautiful looking. If
I have a cat.
I'm a cat person , they are independent creatures...
Soon taking a kitten for my son's birthday...my old ginger cat George is 14 yo...could do with a company...
Jul 17, 2018 9:10 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
pKrema: I have a cat.
I'm a cat person , they are independent creatures...
Soon taking a kitten for my son's birthday...my old ginger cat George is 14 yo...could do with a company...
teddybear teddybear teddybear
Jul 17, 2018 10:36 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
You told me you was came Pakistan two time . Which kind work you did here ??? You just knew about Karachi or you visited all Pakistan. You understand my language speak or read.?????
Jul 17, 2018 10:36 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
You told me you was came Pakistan two time . Which kind work you did here ??? You just knew about Karachi or you visited all Pakistan. You understand my language speak or read.?????
Jul 17, 2018 10:36 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
You told me you was came Pakistan two time . Which kind work you did here ??? You just knew about Karachi or you visited all Pakistan. You understand my language speak or read.?????
Jul 17, 2018 10:36 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
You told me you was came Pakistan two time . Which kind work you did here ??? You just knew about Karachi or you visited all Pakistan. You understand my language speak or read.?????
Jul 18, 2018 9:21 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
seaworthy
seaworthyseaworthyOranjestad, Aruba43 Posts
Many reasons, but the one that jumped to my mind first was: Everyone is in search of perfection, but the reality is we will only find our spouse 80%/20%. The former being acceptable and the latter being unacceptable. So, in that quest to find that perfect package of a human the mind strays and then the body, only to find out that the 20% your were lacking was found in another person, but unfortunately the new person was lacking 20% of what you already had. So, in short.....it's the cat chasing it's tail, over and over and over..
Jul 18, 2018 11:22 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Gill695: You told me you was came Pakistan two time . Which kind work you did here ??? You just knew about Karachi or you visited all Pakistan. You understand my language speak or read.?????
Hey Gill, yes, been to Pakistan four times in total, travelled all over the place, but mainly and for longer stayed in Karachi and Lahore...
At that time I used to work for the council of the Arab economic unity, the Dubai's office...
No, I don't speak Urdu...
Jul 18, 2018 11:43 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
patapat
patapatpatapatbeattyville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 1 Polls 3 Posts
alot of couples rush to get married then a few months later their true personality and likes and dislikes come out and they are not what the other partner thought they were thats why there is so much infidelity
Jul 18, 2018 10:27 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Why is it so high in my opinion?

It isn't because people get married too soon. In fact marriage used to happen very quickly and there are people that stay married. For decades, for life.

I think personally people don't stay married because the commitment and what it entails is no longer there. People thinking they can do better never knowing the value for what they have. So they slowly destroy it rather than build on it. But to have a foundation and want to build is rare. Instead they're constantly remodelling..
Jul 18, 2018 10:43 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
Rachie14: Why is it so high in my opinion?

It isn't because people get married too soon. In fact marriage used to happen very quickly and there are people that stay married. For decades, for life.

I think personally people don't stay married because the commitment and what it entails is no longer there. People thinking they can do better never knowing the value for what they have. So they slowly destroy it rather than build on it. But to have a foundation and want to build is rare. Instead they're constantly remodelling..
Rachie 14 you are a genius girl . you are a greatest mind really I impressed your thoughts ( deep experience) great . no doubt you rightbouquet
Jul 18, 2018 10:56 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Noone wants to take the time to put some effort in their marriages.Least little thing and they generally seek a divorce.
Jul 18, 2018 10:58 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Bearwoman: Noone wants to take the time to put some effort in their marriages.Least little thing and they generally seek a divorce.
Fear contributes to that.
Jul 18, 2018 11:02 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Rachie14: Fear contributes to that.
But sometimes it doesn't always mean that it's fear.It could also be that some people don't want to work at it too or feel they have too.Maybe they just weren't really suited for marriage as much as they thought they were.
Jul 18, 2018 11:14 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Bearwoman: But sometimes it doesn't always mean that it's fear.It could also be that some people don't want to work at it too or feel they have too.Maybe they just weren't really suited for marriage as much as they thought they were.
Possibly Bear, but I really do think the qualities that were once so highly valued within society and intent was very different. Now people are disposable and possessions are valued.

I often look at attitudes. It is not easy to ignore people's thoughts, be it in written context or verbally.

Men like your husband are rare these days. Like you I often look back at the times where I used to smile at the simple things that a man would do. That bring a smile to my face, the sincerity of it and the heartbeats I used to get. The goosebumps on my arms and the hairs that used to stand on end... all because that one man was in my company.

I miss guys like that.
Jul 21, 2018 12:25 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Gill695
Gill695Gill695Karachi, Sindh Pakistan15 Threads 5 Polls 573 Posts
Rachie14: Possibly Bear, but I really do think the qualities that were once so highly valued within society and intent was very different. Now people are disposable and possessions are valued.

I often look at attitudes. It is not easy to ignore people's thoughts, be it in written context or verbally.

Men like your husband are rare these days. Like you I often look back at the times where I used to smile at the simple things that a man would do. That bring a smile to my face, the sincerity of it and the heartbeats I used to get. The goosebumps on my arms and the hairs that used to stand on end... all because that one man was in my company.

I miss guys like that.
O my God .

Your thoughts direct effected on sensitive people's mind .

I really impressed your point of view about your up comments.

You also have rare thoughts .



You know I learned from your comments . a lot of humanity and also 3 words meaning English to Urdu today

1= Fainted mean unknown sleeping through injection or due to any natural suddenly shocked problems .

2 = Rare meaning in my language .

Like your thought is very rare .

I mean you are good girl you are rare.

3= disposable meaning like me and you meeting eye to eye .

Am I right .

Rachie

heart beating heart beating heart beating
Jul 23, 2018 7:52 AM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
sajanvasava
sajanvasavasajanvasavaRajpipla dediapada, Gujarat India1 Posts
I like to stay with you
Jul 29, 2018 3:55 PM CST Now a days Why divorced ratio is very high
Also these days it is work which can split couples up as in the good old days the husband was the bread winner and the wife stayed at home or did a job which was fairly low down and if the husband had to move for work the wife could fairly easily find a new job. These days with the wife also having a good job she might think her job is more important than her husband as was the case for where one of the daughters decided her job was more important so they split up when he had to move. In the case of my eldest niece if she finds someone it could be her who has to move for her job and this could be to another country as well.
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