Having trouble finding dates. Is look's really the big thing? or is it something else. Please take my poll, and it will let me know if Utah girls are just very shallow, or if it is really me. Thanks!
Max, you seem like a lovely guy... the thing is you´re marriage material and a lot of ladies your age aren´t looking for that just yet! From watching my daughter and her friends, your generation doesn´t seem to do a whole lot of actual dating...it seems to be more about guys and girls meeting up at a restaurant bar or music club and hanging out together and sometimes pairing off.
Don`t sell yourself short by trying too hard to have someone in your life just now... enjoy your friends both men and women... you´ve got great things ahead!
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
max880: yes, i think its romantic. especially on a colder evening where the gal and I could cuddle up under a blanket and look at the christmas lights go by.
max880: yes, i think its romantic. especially on a colder evening where the gal and I could cuddle up under a blanket and look at the christmas lights go by.
Max... you are such a romantic! You probably scare the hell out of a lot of women. To be honest with you, that type of date is for after you are in a relationship with someone...keep it light and playful in the beginning for those first dates, save the romance for when it really starts to heat up!
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
jbibiza: Max... you are such a romantic! You probably scare the hell out of a lot of women. To be honest with you, that type of date is for after you are in a relationship with someone...keep it light and playful in the beginning for those first dates, save the romance for when it really starts to heat up!
max880: Having trouble finding dates. Is look's really the big thing? or is it something else. Please take my poll, and it will let me know if Utah girls are just very shallow, or if it is really me. Thanks!
--Max
I'm sorry but I had to vote no...nothing personal against you, but I have a feeling a certain guy might not appreciate it much. Besides, Utah is a bit far away, so unless you're sending a Lear jet, it's a bit out of the question anyway.
Good luck to you in finding someone to share such a night with, though. You sound like a really nice guy.
I voted no. As someone else already mentioned, leave those more romantic moments for when you're further into the relationship. Not for a one-time date.
max880: Having trouble finding dates. Is look's really the big thing? or is it something else. Please take my poll, and it will let me know if Utah girls are just very shallow, or if it is really me. Thanks!
--Max
what I'm wondering is why you would go all out for one date. It seems a bit intense for someone you will never see again. Nothing romantic about it. Utah girls sound smart to resist such a charmer
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
max880: Having trouble finding dates. Is look's really the big thing? or is it something else. Please take my poll, and it will let me know if Utah girls are just very shallow, or if it is really me. Thanks!
--Max
Oh, and sounds lovely Max. If you were much older and Utah wasn't a 17 hour drive I'd take you up on it.
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--Max