There are no offences only offended people.. believing in arbeit macht frei or the sainthood of George Floyd could save you from the gas chambers. Buy into the gaslighting and you could be better off although it would preferable for humanity if the interpretation was to be stopped.
And yet a gentlemen allows a woman to maintain her fiction. Believing in arbeit macht frei and not getting gassed is a lot like making love to a beautiful woman. Everything may be working against you but the trick is to behave like it isn't. It's not fair, it's not right and yet the beautiful is the overcoming of an unfair situation. It's a triumph of the will thing not a matter of right and wrong.
rohaan: Simplify, simplify: let’s get real—I am at the casino. I win a sizable jackpot. My emotions are ECSTATIC!! (event dictates emotion). But, if I LOSE—I’m bummed. (event dictates emotion)
Abstract and Figures. Cognition and emotion have long been thought of as independent systems. However, recent research in the cognitive and neurobiological sciences has shown that the relationship between cognition and emotion is more interdependent than separate.
robplum: mediation your driving along and someone cuts you off
The way we react to any given event is conditioned what we impute good/bad/or indifference. I think motivation has direct a impact upon outcomes. Engaging in road rage is hardly likely to produce positive outcomes. Our motivation shapes outcomes a bit like tomato seed grows a tomato plant not an apple tree, positive thoughts have positive outcomes. I shared a link on my facebook timeline this morning e.g. "True peace cannot be achieved by force or by merely envoking the world „peace“. It can only be attained by training the mind and learning to cultivate inner peace. Peace is a a calm and gentle state of mind." (the 17th Karmapa)
Yeah and we can initiate that road to peace when we throw out all those self help books which The self-help industry wants us to believe we should not care at all what other folk think…
You have an understanding of winning, or losing, right? That's to do with your thoughts (cognition). You know if you win you get something, if you lose you forfeit something.
You start with perceiving your win, or loss: your eyes see the number on the dice, the picture and number on a card.
You then cognitively process the information you perceive: those shapes and colours your eyes perceives are translated into meaning, such as a rolled die falling so six dots face up, or a card reading the Jack of Diamonds.
You then process that information in it's context: You needed to throw a six to win, or a Jack means too many points and you've lost. This again is all to do with what you see and what you think.
The context of winning, or losing is also to do with your thoughts: if you win you can go on holiday, if you lose you can't pay your bills.
All those thoughts might be unconscious, sub-conscious, or conscious, but it doesn't matter. Whether you are aware of them, or not, you have to process the information - I've thrown the die, I need a six to win, the die has landed with six dots facing up, I have won, I get a lot more money back than I put in, I can go on holiday...
Yippy!
The emotion you feel is not as a direct result of winning, it's a result of your thought processes about winning. Your cognitions mediate between the event and the way you feel.
Now say you are a billionaire, life is one long holiday and you win $500k. The money is a drop in the ocean, you don't need it, but the act of winning is a pleasure in itself. Compare that with having six hungry kids, no job, no money, an eviction order and then winning $500k. While both scenarios involve winning $500k, the resulting emotions (mediated by cognitions) will likely be different. The billionaire is unlikely to whoop, cheer and break down in tears, the family man/woman is unlikely to only feel the pleasure of winning.
It's not the winning of $500K which produces the emotion, it's what you think about about winning the $500K that produces the emotion.
i knew there was a reason I like you. Anyways, probably my biggest problem today is I generalize a mistake in behavior to a flaw in character. If iI didn’t have this problem I might stop taking things personally.
tomcatty: Abstract and Figures. Cognition and emotion have long been thought of as independent systems. However, recent research in the cognitive and neurobiological sciences has shown that the relationship between cognition and emotion is more interdependent than separate.
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Cognition and emotion have long been thought of as independent systems. However, recent research in the cognitive and neurobiological sciences has shown that the relationship between cognition and emotion is more interdependent than separate.
tomcatty: Zajonc argued that affect and cognition are processed independently and that affect has temporal priority over even basic cognitive processes. ... We agree with Bower's conception, and we extend it to suggest that cognitive processes are necessary for the processing, elicitation, and experience of emotions.
In response to: Zajonc argued that affect and cognition are processed independently and that affect has temporal priority over even basic cognitive processes. In contrast, Bower argued that cognitive processing could be used to understand emotional phenomena. We agree with Bower’s conception, and we extend it to suggest that cognitive processes are necessary for the processing, elicitation, and experience of emotions.
galrads: i knew there was a reason I like you. Anyways, probably my biggest problem today is I generalize a mistake in behavior to a flaw in character. If iI didn’t have this problem I might stop taking things personally.
Is that a mistake in your own behaviour, or someone else's?
Sort of reminds me of Kipling not to take your own personal circumstances and outcomes that seriously. If you meet with triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same... Bob's your uncle.
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