The ONE completely IGNORED the FACT of you becoming OVERWEIGHT and told you to CONTINUE the way you are
The ONE told you that you Should be CONCERN about getting OVERWEIGHT , NOT BECAUSE of your LOOK but FOR your HEALTH
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Hello to you all !
Let's imagine a situation.. You have TWO Admirers who claim to do care about you.. Everything was fine... But then You noticed that you have started to gaining weight and have becoming overweight constantly..
Though it's still managable and nothing much serious issues yet but sometimes during your daily routine you feel uncomfortable.. Like when you try to walk little faster or carry some weight or take the stairs to reach to the next floor , you often feel uneasy to breath or sweat heavily.. Often have digestive issues or pain in the muscles or joints.. But You are MOST WORRIED about yourself LOOKING FAT...
So you asked the same question to your Two "Admirers" ..
You asked them : "Honey ! Am I getting FAT ! Do I need to do anything about it ?"
One of them replied : "Honey ! Are you kidding !! You getting Fat !! ABSOLUTELY NOT !!! You just look fine !!! You are the Most BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME person in my eyes among the whole world... You DON'T NEED TO DO ANYTHING .. Just be the way you are .."
The Other One replied : "Honey ! No matter what , you will be always the Most BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME person in my eyes.. But I am concern about your Wellbeing more than your look.. So the truth is , YES , YOU ARE GETTING FAT .. And though it's not much of problem now , but if you will continue like this , then most probably sooner or later it will start creating serious health issues.. So I think YOU BETTER take it as your PRIORITY OF CONCERN and immediately start to act accordingly.."
I feel like replying... with the honesty of your post and the intrigueness of your questions I would try not to worry too much but do be very careful of your good enough mate. Be like a choosy cat near potential feline lovers. Get the dog to sniff therm out first.
Neither. You're just saying what you think I want to hear... You don't fancy me because im fat. I'm not too weak to hear this, why are we even together if you have to lie constantly to protect what I think? Is this a lesbian relationship? Are all these lies and manipulation to mount up passively until it explodes in a moment of ultimate violence?
A real admirer, someone who LOVES you, will always tell you the truth no matter what. Whether it's a question of being overweight or an attitude that doesn't go well with other and hurts your relationship with the people around you at work or at home. The truth ( as much or as little as someone can discern ) is always the best policy. Discussion of how someone sees it is always the best course of action.
Imker: Their is NO NICE way to ask someone to loose weight...
Yes there is: "Honeybaby, I've finally decided to lose all that weight. I'm going to run 30min everyday and since I can't go a minute without your charming company I'm inviting you to join me. After that, we can take a shower together "
Cavalero: Yes there is: "Honeybaby, I've finally decided to lose all that weight. I'm going to run 30min everyday and since I can't go a minute without your charming company I'm inviting you to join me. After that, we can take a shower together "
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