Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ? ( Archived) (10)

Apr 7, 2021 7:19 PM CSTWhich ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal, India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts

Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?(Vote Below)

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The ONE completely IGNORED the FACT of you becoming OVERWEIGHT and told you to CONTINUE the way you are
13%
2 Votes
The ONE told you that you Should be CONCERN about getting OVERWEIGHT , NOT BECAUSE of your LOOK but FOR your HEALTH
87%
13 Votes
15 Total Votes
Hello to you all !

Let's imagine a situation..
You have TWO Admirers who claim to do care about you.. Everything was fine...
But then
You noticed that you have started to gaining weight and have becoming overweight constantly..

Though it's still managable and nothing much serious issues yet but sometimes during your daily routine you feel uncomfortable..
Like when you try to walk little faster or carry some weight or take the stairs to reach to the next floor , you often feel uneasy to breath or sweat heavily.. Often have digestive issues or pain in the muscles or joints..
But
You are MOST WORRIED about yourself LOOKING FAT...

So you asked the same question to your Two "Admirers" ..

You asked them : "Honey ! Am I getting FAT ! Do I need to do anything about it ?"

One of them replied : "Honey ! Are you kidding !! You getting Fat !! ABSOLUTELY NOT !!! You just look fine !!! You are the Most BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME person in my eyes among the whole world...
You DON'T NEED TO DO ANYTHING .. Just be the way you are .."

The Other One replied : "Honey ! No matter what , you will be always the Most BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME person in my eyes..
But I am concern about your Wellbeing more than your look..
So the truth is , YES , YOU ARE GETTING FAT ..
And though it's not much of problem now , but if you will continue like this , then most probably sooner or later it will start creating serious health issues..
So I think YOU BETTER take it as your PRIORITY OF CONCERN and immediately start to act accordingly.."

Now the question is ..

Which ONE of them is your REAL Admirer !?
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Apr 7, 2021 10:16 PM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
I feel like replying... with the honesty of your post and the intrigueness of your questions I would try not to worry too much but do be very careful of your good enough mate. Be like a choosy cat near potential feline lovers.
Get the dog to sniff therm out first.
conversing handshake
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Apr 8, 2021 1:48 AM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Neither. You're just saying what you think I want to hear... You don't fancy me because im fat. I'm not too weak to hear this, why are we even together if you have to lie constantly to protect what I think? Is this a lesbian relationship? Are all these lies and manipulation to mount up passively until it explodes in a moment of ultimate violence?
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Apr 15, 2021 4:24 AM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
A real admirer, someone who LOVES you, will always tell you the truth no matter what. Whether it's a question of being overweight or an attitude that doesn't go well with other and hurts your relationship with the people around you at work or at home.
The truth ( as much or as little as someone can discern ) is always the best policy. Discussion of how someone sees it is always the best course of action.
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Apr 15, 2021 5:10 AM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
confused The one who doesn't mention it all.
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Apr 15, 2021 10:43 AM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
RoseHipster
RoseHipsterRoseHipsterSpecial, Wisconsin USA20 Threads 3 Polls 354 Posts
Your own bias is in the scenario
2 admirers...rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 15, 2021 10:45 AM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Imker
ImkerImkerNW. Missouri, Missouri USA1 Threads 57 Posts
I think that more Women need to REALISE ON THEIR OWN when they are overweight, and FIX IT on their own, so the MAN does not have to say anything at all...snooty pointing

In my opinion, far to many women are overweight, (men too) and when trying to get someone to loose weight is like pouring out Gasoline, and lighting a match next to it...very mad devil

Their is NO NICE way to ask someone to loose weight...
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Apr 16, 2021 10:44 AM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
Imker:
Their is NO NICE way to ask someone to loose weight...
Yes there is:
"Honeybaby, I've finally decided to lose all that weight. I'm going to run 30min everyday and since I can't go a minute without your charming company I'm inviting you to join me. After that, we can take a shower together grin "
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Apr 16, 2021 12:43 PM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Imker
ImkerImkerNW. Missouri, Missouri USA1 Threads 57 Posts
Cavalero: Yes there is:
"Honeybaby, I've finally decided to lose all that weight. I'm going to run 30min everyday and since I can't go a minute without your charming company I'm inviting you to join me. After that, we can take a shower together "
and you being 10 Lbs. underweight?rolling on the floor laughing grin peace
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Apr 16, 2021 12:49 PM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
Imker: and you being 10 Lbs. underweight?
So what? Jogging isn't just for the overweight. It's good exercise for the whole family cheering
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Apr 16, 2021 2:10 PM CST Which ONE is the REAL Admirer ?
Imker
ImkerImkerNW. Missouri, Missouri USA1 Threads 57 Posts
Cavalero: So what? Jogging isn't just for the overweight. It's good exercise for the whole family
You are right, jogging is very healthy. I was just being silly...
devil
I did like your idea about inviting her to the shower afterward, Lol. very creative...peace thumbs up
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