Are You In Love , Attached , or Both (58)
javid1964: ... I think Love brings attachement and attachement ruins love , but I think attachement is beautiful , and I don't really know why ...
Do you?
Good.
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no I thought I was but I am still attached to her in my thoughts.
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I'm not in Love,attached to anyone.
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If you love someone, you are attached to them, connected in some ways...but this doesn't mean you have to be dependent on them in any way...dependency is not healthy. 
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"Both.I'm in love and attached.But,attached in a way
that makes us know that we have eachother to depend on."
that makes us know that we have eachother to depend on."
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I am not attached to any person at this moment, I leave that for when we are together.
As for being in love, I am. But I am not telling anybody with who.
As for being in love, I am. But I am not telling anybody with who.
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Polarbutterfly: "Both.I'm in love and attached.But,attached in a way
that makes us know that we have eachother to depend on."
that makes us know that we have eachother to depend on."
but it frightrns me...should anything happen and it ends, one will be ruined emotionally
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javid1964: but it frightrns me...should anything happen and it ends, one will be ruined emotionally
I agree
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javid1964: but it frightrns me...should anything happen and it ends, one will be ruined emotionally
"It frightens you.But,for us,we're more than sure that
it's the right time in our lives to TRULY love eachother."
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javid1964: but it frightrns me...should anything happen and it ends, one will be ruined emotionally
Okay, humour aside, javid, why do you think that it will end?
Maybe, try going in with a positive approach?
I think ruined is strong, but certainly there is alot of hurt, when a relationship ends.
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Sommerauer71: Okay, humour aside, javid, why do you think that it will end?
Maybe, try going in with a positive approach?
I think ruined is strong, but certainly there is alot of hurt, when a relationship ends.
Maybe, try going in with a positive approach?
I think ruined is strong, but certainly there is alot of hurt, when a relationship ends.
I don't know... really don't..it is like a child , fearing the dark room..
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javid1964: but it frightrns me...should anything happen and it ends, one will be ruined emotionally
No...it hurts, but you eventually heal. It doesn't ruin one emotionally, unless you let it.
Yes, it's risky to love. Yes, you risk being hurt. But if you don't take those risks, how empty your life is because you don't love. "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
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druidess6308: No...it hurts, but you eventually heal. It doesn't ruin one emotionally, unless you let it.
Yes, it's risky to love. Yes, you risk being hurt. But if you don't take those risks, how empty your life is because you don't love. "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
Yes, it's risky to love. Yes, you risk being hurt. But if you don't take those risks, how empty your life is because you don't love. "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
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javid1964: I don't know... really don't..it is like a child , fearing the dark room..
Turn the lights on, your a big boy. Fear is the evil in life and it will hold you back from living.
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javid1964: ... I think Love brings attachement and attachement ruins love , but I think attachement is beautiful , and I don't really know why ...
None of the above...Love shouldn't be attachment..it's two healthy separate individuals...coming together to share their lives and love of one another....Love to me says I want to...attachment says I need to...
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javid1964: ... I think Love brings attachement and attachement ruins love , but I think attachement is beautiful , and I don't really know why ...
None of the above...Love shouldn't be attachment..it's two healthy separate individuals...coming together to share their lives and love of one another....Love to me says I want to...attachment says I need to...
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javid1964: ... I think Love brings attachement and attachement ruins love , but I think attachement is beautiful , and I don't really know why ...
None of the above...Love shouldn't be attachment..it's two healthy separate individuals...coming together to share their lives and love of one another....Love to me says I want to...attachment says I need to...
I want someone to love me out of want because of who I am...NOT because they need to have someone in their lives....
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Opppppssssss...triple hiccup...and I wasn't even done for 2 of them...
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javid1964: I don't know... really don't..it is like a child , fearing the dark room..
javid, this is sad to read. That you are so frightened. Don't let fear stand in your way. It is something that will prevent you from enjoying what could be staring you in the face. It is scary, it is worrying, but what will that change?
WOuld you allow fear to stand in your way of having a solid, loving relationship with a beautiful woman? That would be criminal.
Don't be scared. But if you are, then share it with her, when you find each other, she may be too and then you can face that fear together head on, shoulder to shoulder.
Yes?
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javid1964: ... I think Love brings attachement and attachement ruins love , but I think attachement is beautiful , and I don't really know why ...
I am in love, but by myself. SO I guess that can fall under anything else you can think of?
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Hugz_n_Kissez: None of the above...Love shouldn't be attachment..it's two healthy separate individuals...coming together to share their lives and love of one another....Love to me says I want to...attachment says I need to... I want someone to love me out of want because of who I am...NOT because they need to have someone in their lives....
I guess it depends on one's perception of being "attached" to another. I think it can be either healthy or unhealthy, depending on the people involved. What you're describing is definitely the unhealthy kind.
But yes, I agree with you on what love should be.
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druidess6308: I guess it depends on one's perception of being "attached" to another. I think it can be either healthy or unhealthy, depending on the people involved. What you're describing is definitely the unhealthy kind.
But yes, I agree with you on what love should be.
But yes, I agree with you on what love should be.
True...and I want healthy I won't settle for unhealthy anymore...
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I'm not in love, attached or with someone.
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Hugz_n_Kissez: True...and I want healthy I won't settle for unhealthy anymore...
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Big_John: I'm not in love, attached or with someone.
And that should be against the law. Another lovely man, who the ladies cannot see the woods for the trees.
Shame that John, I would have you in a heartbeat.
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Sommerauer71: And that should be against the law. Another lovely man, who the ladies cannot see the woods for the trees.
Shame that John, I would have you in a heartbeat.
Shame that John, I would have you in a heartbeat.
Well when you kick "old what's his name" to the curb we can get together.
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javid1964: ... I think Love brings attachement and attachement ruins love , but I think attachement is beautiful , and I don't really know why ...
My last brain scan proved it wasn't diseased or defective.
Therefore i am not married.
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Sommerauer71: I
As for being in love, I am. But I am not telling anybody with who.
As for being in love, I am. But I am not telling anybody with who.
Are you and PPV doing okay?
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Sommerauer71: And that should be against the law. Another lovely man, who the ladies cannot see the woods for the trees.
Shame that John, I would have you in a heartbeat.
Well whoever can not see John is blind. He is a lovely man.Shame that John, I would have you in a heartbeat.
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pubwrite08: Well whoever can not see John is blind. He is a lovely man.
Here I am. Here I am..... It doesn't take a blind lady, but I will take a blonde lady or any lady for that matter.
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