How would you know if a guy likes you or not ? If he is sometimes nicer than usual, but not always ( Archived) (35)

I guess none of my past partners really liked me then...

Well, if you've had enough girls laugh in your face, you get a little "shy". Don't you hate the ole' "yeh, as if" guys?

.....You have got me on that one....!!!And really sorry to hear that ,if that's the case.....but look, there are still Good 'Guys' out there,just as there are Good 'Ladies' out there as well....don't lose hope....Okay...

I know there are...I was just teasin...

I disagree with you. I haven't had this problem...not normally, anyway. Most men don't have this problem, in my experience. The ones that do...well, they have other problems too, in my experience...which is all I can speak about.

Absolutely.

.....'Tease away'....!!!!Hey... I can Dish out....But I can take too...so if you 'Trip' me up...I will laugh the Loudest.....!!!!L.O.L

It's really not a problem. We act pretty much the same if we really have to pee.

You should consider no man is gonna be nice 24/7. The whole spectrum of human emotions would be blotted out. So if he seems too laid back or passive, let him be that way, don't take it to heart like everything is a planned move. Guys can't and wouldn't even want to try and make sure every move is understood correctly. That's where you can only be yourselves and not "read into" things so closely. Yeah, guys don't usually talk about feelings and things openly like girls. But if you guys have anything there'll be some line of communication. Whether it be friendship, serious, unncertain, doesn't matter, there'll be some kind of open line where you don't have to "read into" details. Enjoy your life. Relax. Hope i didn't sound too beligurent or ignorant. Josh

Or he's a pro at catchin girls on the rebound. Usually guys like that are a**hole, that's how they learn to do it. :-) (nice guy advice for the ladies on rebound)

i wonder why only few men answer this thread..its very interesting to know..maybe men are scared to reveal their style on how to get a woman..come on guys give us some input, we dont like guessing game..
although..josh here gave some answer (thanks) its also nice to hear from others point of view.
can i say that men dont show their feelings is simply because they dont like the girl and no other reason?

I know, neither women can be nice 24/7 ! But its so frustrating, that one day he's so nice and caring and phones and smses, the following day its as if there's nobody home You know what ! When I come close enough, he backs off, that's why i get angry ! When he sees me cool, then he's nicer than usual.

you'll know if he is really into you but how much time he spends trying to get "into you"

But that's only physical attraction !! I am talking about the WHOLE thing !!

Ok even tho most women think men are simple beings and only want to get in your pants , this really is not true , some like a lot of attention ,some don't,we are really the same as women only differant,no one want to feel trapped or crowded, we have good days and bad days ,we laugh , we cry ,but some only cry inside not on the outside,if he is nice most of the time and only non-nice some of the time but not mean he is pretty good I would think,It is hard to be the perfect man day in and day out ,we try but in the end we are only men ,most of us mean well but just dont know how to show it in a manly way is all

Its true ! I think that men find it hard to show their feelings, cause they fear that they would be hurt if they show their girl their love. Its hard to know what's on a person's mind, that drives me crazy

Dont ask me as I would'nt have a clue....I remain mystified as to the male behaviour....one minute they are showing me all their beautiful coulured feathers and the next minute they have vanished as if they never existed....


Is this a Peacock thing or what.....