How important is it for you to be married? ( Archived) (76)

Mar 16, 2009 5:04 AM CSTHow important is it for you to be married?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo, Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts

How important is it for you to be married?(Vote Below)

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Very important, essential
33
31%
Somewhat important
18
17%
In between, doesn't matter either way
20
19%
Not important, it's just a piece of paper
20
19%
Would never get married
8
8%
Other, please explain...
6
6%
Total Votes
105
Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship,
how important is it for you to get married???



conversing
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Mar 16, 2009 5:07 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship,
how important is it for you to get married???



I always say I would never get married again..BUT truth be told I would if I was asked by the right man...sooo to me it doesn't matter either wayyyyyyyy...It's what we would both want and decide....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 16, 2009 5:14 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
I dont need toasters and all the norm you get and I certainly dont need a signature on a piece of paper to guarantee me a partner for lifecheering

No guarantees in lifewave
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Mar 16, 2009 5:16 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
The piece of paper is too hard to wipe your butt with, worthless to me.laugh
I won't say never though, I've done all sorts of strange things in this lifetime already.roll eyes


G'nite Ladieswave
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Mar 16, 2009 5:17 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
Im too something something to get marryd
Oslojente what do you think of marryg ???
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Mar 16, 2009 5:19 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Nite Kidwave
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Mar 16, 2009 5:20 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: Im too something something to get marryd
Oslojente what do you think of marryg ???



I'm with mercedes on this one...
I wouldn't rule it out completely either, if asked by the right man, but again, not important at all to me...
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Mar 16, 2009 5:23 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
zombie01
zombie01zombie01Dublin, Ireland13 Threads 3 Polls 387 Posts
I would not consider marriage important, If i met someone who did then I may reconsider my obligation in the relationship.
Yes, I would walk away.

lol j/k

No, I would marry her!

cheers
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Mar 16, 2009 5:37 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
lol been there done that wudnt do it again cheering but a close relationship is gr8 marriage seems to wreck it
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Mar 16, 2009 5:38 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship,
how important is it for you to get married???


Well I am Married that should answer the questionwave
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Mar 16, 2009 5:39 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kidatheart: The piece of paper is too hard to wipe your butt with, worthless to me.
I won't say never though, I've done all sorts of strange things in this lifetime already. G'nite Ladies



Nighty Night Harry...wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 16, 2009 5:45 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well I am Married that should answer the question



laugh True...wave





Night, H!!! hug
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Mar 16, 2009 5:47 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Olsojente: True... Night, H!!!


Night love
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Mar 16, 2009 5:50 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well I am Married that should answer the question



Yesssssssss...BUT how important was it to ya...Answer the question Jo....roll eyes innocent grin
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Mar 16, 2009 6:01 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yesssssssss...BUT how important was it to ya...Answer the question Jo....


It was very important to be Married...at the momentroll eyes
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Mar 16, 2009 6:02 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: It was very important to be Married...at the moment


There now was that soooooo hard....roll eyes wave grin
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Mar 16, 2009 6:03 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: There now was that soooooo hard....


yes it was..now i need to go back to sleeproll eyes
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Mar 16, 2009 6:05 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: yes it was..now i need to go back to sleep



Took all your energy huh...Wellllllll I didn't mean to be sooooo pushy....roll eyes innocent batting grin
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Mar 16, 2009 6:05 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Hi Oslo.........wave

It would not be important to me, but if it was for my partner I would not object........

hug
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Mar 16, 2009 6:05 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
ive never been married and yes i want to get married with right person ofcourse its not garantee that life will be perfect but still its prove that someone thinks about u serios.....just a tough
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Mar 16, 2009 6:06 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Took all your energy huh...Wellllllll I didn't mean to be sooooo pushy....
laugh its just you shelleyroll eyes teddybear
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Mar 16, 2009 6:08 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: its just you shelley



Geeze I can't even be bossy right.....wink roll eyes laugh teddybear
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Mar 16, 2009 6:08 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Burley
BurleyBurleyDublin, Ireland27 Posts
I've been married and I'd do it again for one simple reason - it gives your partner rights that they wouldn't have outside of marriage. Say, in the event of an accident, you were unconscious and a doctor needed to know what to do. Well your partner, if not married to you, would not be in a position to give advice and your family, who you might not want involved, would then be consulted.

I guess marriage makes your partner 'family' and that's what a union based on love is all about. or have I got it wrong?
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Mar 16, 2009 6:09 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh, I love being the minority! smitten grin yay
I've always been different, that's for sure!laugh

Being "married" is very important to me. wine
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Mar 16, 2009 6:10 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Geeze I can't even be bossy right.....
teddybear heart beating applause
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Mar 16, 2009 6:33 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Burley: I've been married and I'd do it again for one simple reason - it gives your partner rights that they wouldn't have outside of marriage. Say, in the event of an accident, you were unconscious and a doctor needed to know what to do. Well your partner, if not married to you, would not be in a position to give advice and your family, who you might not want involved, would then be consulted.

I guess marriage makes your partner 'family' and that's what a union based on love is all about. or have I got it wrong?



I see what you're saying... I can only speak for here, you can have the same rights as a married couple have, not being married... so here it really is just a piece of paper I guess...laugh
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Mar 16, 2009 6:40 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
Nope not really into paper anymore, but firmly committed one on one for the mutual benefit of both would be lovely.... heart wings
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Mar 16, 2009 6:41 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Good thread Oslo

I loved being married, even though it did not work out, but I would have no problems in getting married again!

How important is it to me? Not very. It would become important if both found it that way.

I do not understand why so many people think that marriage wrecks a relationship.

My marriage lasted longer, because we were married.
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Mar 16, 2009 6:44 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Sommerauer71: Good thread Oslo

I loved being married, even though it did not work out, but I would have no problems in getting married again!

How important is it to me? Not very. It would become important if both found it that way.

I do not understand why so many people think that marriage wrecks a relationship.

My marriage lasted longer, because we were married.





Thats not always a good thing though. I stayed in a bad relationship for to long because we were married.

As for getting married again, not for me, living with someone again isnt something I want.
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Mar 16, 2009 6:52 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
ekatarini
ekatariniekatarinibelgrade, Central Serbia Serbia2 Threads 2 Polls 11 Posts
I think it`s very important. If you get married in Church infront of God then it`s not a piece of paper, it`s obligation to cherish God`s will which is to love eachother, but also fight together, put up with eachother difernces and stay strong no metter happens.
Then there is not mine or his will, which is selfish, but the will of God which two of them put first and which become their own will.
I know two of these 'orthodox christian' marriges and only those give me hope that marriage is 'very important'
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Mar 16, 2009 6:54 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Burley: I've been married and I'd do it again for one simple reason - it gives your partner rights that they wouldn't have outside of marriage. Say, in the event of an accident, you were unconscious and a doctor needed to know what to do. Well your partner, if not married to you, would not be in a position to give advice and your family, who you might not want involved, would then be consulted.

I guess marriage makes your partner 'family' and that's what a union based on love is all about. or have I got it wrong?
here in America this is a good reason to be married also. A doctor told once to get married for ins. reasons when I was in danger of another heart attack (everything is in normal ranges now thanks to diet excercise ect.)I had to laugh at his suggestion. But I would like to married agian I think. I used to say never no way ,but I feel differant now for some reason ,not sure why ,I think as Burley says it just makes all familyconversing
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