Big_John: If I find the "right" lady I would want to be married to her. I guess I come from a generation where this is part of my mental process. It is also part of my moral makeup. Could it work without being married--yes. I just would want to provide and receive this committment.
SORRY EVERYONE to interrupt the flow of the thread. Big John welcomed me to the site so I view him as a kind of a father figure. I tried to mail him but I am blocked due to age gender and location. That is why I'm on your profile views Big John, in case you're wondering. I am trying to get to the bottom of your accident. what happened? Are you ok? Is it serious? Hope your ok.
zombie01: SORRY EVERYONE to interrupt the flow of the thread. Big John welcomed me to the site so I view him as a kind of a father figure. I tried to mail him but I am blocked due to age gender and location. That is why I'm on your profile views Big John, in case you're wondering. I am trying to get to the bottom of your accident. what happened? Are you ok? Is it serious? Hope your ok.
Apologies to all..please continue.
Thanks. I sent you an email explaining my situation.
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship, how important is it for you to get married???
I will probably never get married again. It's what's in the heart that matters, not a piece of paper. I would like to wear a wedding ring again someday though, just not the red tape that goes with it.
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship, how important is it for you to get married???
For me, not very important. I can honestly say that even as a little girl, I've never been one to fantasize about my wedding day, as some little girls are known to do. Even now, some that I work with would have you think they have everything all picked out (the dress, the flowers,etc.) and that it's just a matter of finding the groom.
I would rather find a person that I want to be with and who wants to be with me. If marriage is something he wants, we can talk about it. I've never been married and perhaps you can't miss what you've never had.
prairiewoman: For me, not very important. I can honestly say that even as a little girl, I've never been one to fantasize about my wedding day, as some little girls are known to do. Even now, some that I work with would have you think they have everything all picked out (the dress, the flowers,etc.) and that it's just a matter of finding the groom.
I would rather find a person that I want to be with and who wants to be with me. If marriage is something he wants, we can talk about it. I've never been married and perhaps you can't miss what you've never had.
I have been married, and it is just something that many use for wrong reasons.
A relationship is a relationship! It is what you make out of it , If, yes the key word, " IF" Both are sincere, and one isnt playing you for what they can get, But true love exists, you have endless Destiny's before you! Anything is possible! I feel if you dont have God, you will never experience true love. For God is Love, and it only comes from Him. If you dont believe, sorry , this is only my opinion
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship, how important is it for you to get married???
I'm self sufficient & have my own business so I don't need a man to take care of me financially.
Getting married is not all that important to me.I don't expect to ever marry someday anyway so why would I wish to make my life anymore complicated than it is now.
Mar 29, 2009 5:07 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 posts
i would love to be married , but only to the right man i wudnt marry someone just for the sake of being married or because i had been dating someone for a good while . i only want to be married when it truly means something to both of us someone i truly belive is the man for me .
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I am trying to get to the bottom of your accident. what happened?
Are you ok? Is it serious? Hope your ok.
Apologies to all..please continue.