How important is it for you to be married? (76)

Mar 16, 2009 12:08 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
zombie01
zombie01zombie01Dublin, Ireland13 Threads 3 Polls 387 Posts
Big_John: If I find the "right" lady I would want to be married to her. I guess I come from a generation where this is part of my mental process. It is also part of my moral makeup. Could it work without being married--yes. I just would want to provide and receive this committment.
SORRY EVERYONE to interrupt the flow of the thread. Big John welcomed me to the site so I view him as a kind of a father figure. I tried to mail him but I am blocked due to age gender and location. That is why I'm on your profile views Big John, in case you're wondering.
I am trying to get to the bottom of your accident. what happened?
Are you ok? Is it serious? Hope your ok.cheers

Apologies to all..please continue.

cheers
Mar 16, 2009 12:13 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
zombie01: SORRY EVERYONE to interrupt the flow of the thread. Big John welcomed me to the site so I view him as a kind of a father figure. I tried to mail him but I am blocked due to age gender and location. That is why I'm on your profile views Big John, in case you're wondering.
I am trying to get to the bottom of your accident. what happened?
Are you ok? Is it serious? Hope your ok.

Apologies to all..please continue.


Thanks. I sent you an email explaining my situation.
Mar 16, 2009 12:23 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
HotRodLincoln
HotRodLincolnHotRodLincolnRoy, Washington USA72 Posts
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship,
how important is it for you to get married???


I will probably never get married again. It's what's in the heart that matters, not a piece of paper. I would like to wear a wedding ring again someday though, just not the red tape that goes with it.
Mar 16, 2009 12:28 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Not in the least.....important that is.....least of my priorities

cool
Mar 16, 2009 12:29 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
zombie01
zombie01zombie01Dublin, Ireland13 Threads 3 Polls 387 Posts
Big_John: Thanks. I sent you an email explaining my situation.
thumbs up
Mar 16, 2009 12:35 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship,
how important is it for you to get married???


For me, not very important. I can honestly say that even as a little girl, I've never been one to fantasize about my wedding day, as some little girls are known to do. Even now, some that I work with would have you think they have everything all picked out (the dress, the flowers,etc.) and that it's just a matter of finding the groom.

I would rather find a person that I want to be with and who wants to be with me. If marriage is something he wants, we can talk about it. I've never been married and perhaps you can't miss what you've never had.
Mar 19, 2009 2:28 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
curvychick
curvychickcurvychickToronto, Ontario Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 253 Posts
hollandgirl: I would marry again in a heartbeat if I could find someone like the one I lost 3 years ago.
I miss him still sooo very much.


Hey Hollandgirl:

I wish you find "him" too.....sorry for your loss...
sendin you teddybear hug and bouquet angel

Curvycheering
Mar 19, 2009 2:30 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Irockhearts
IrockheartsIrockheartsLivorno, Tuscany Italy2 Threads 2 Polls 229 Posts
Very important,that's why am not married laugh jk
Mar 19, 2009 2:34 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
hollandgirl: I would marry again in a heartbeat if I could find someone like the one I lost 3 years ago.
I miss him still sooo very much.


hug sad flower

Hi hollandgirlwave
Mar 19, 2009 2:43 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
prairiewoman: For me, not very important. I can honestly say that even as a little girl, I've never been one to fantasize about my wedding day, as some little girls are known to do. Even now, some that I work with would have you think they have everything all picked out (the dress, the flowers,etc.) and that it's just a matter of finding the groom.

I would rather find a person that I want to be with and who wants to be with me. If marriage is something he wants, we can talk about it. I've never been married and perhaps you can't miss what you've never had.



I have been married, and it is just something that many use for wrong reasons.

A relationship is a relationship! It is what you make out of it , If, yes the key word, " IF" Both are sincere, and one isnt playing you for what they can get, But true love exists, you have endless Destiny's before you! Anything is possible! I feel if you dont have God, you will never experience true love. For God is Love, and it only comes from Him. If you dont believe, sorry , this is only my opinionteddybear sad flower
Mar 19, 2009 2:59 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Olsojente: Ok, say you've been seeing someone for some time, and you're both equally serious about the relationship,
how important is it for you to get married???



I'm self sufficient & have my own business so I don't need a man to take care of me financially.

Getting married is not all that important to me.I don't expect to ever marry someday anyway so why would I wish to make my life anymore complicated than it is now.
Mar 29, 2009 3:13 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
curvychick: yep, it IS important to me....

Heck, I wouldn't even live with someone....had the chance many times but passed on it..

I dunno.... call me old fashioned...

that piece of paper DOES mean something...it's just a matter of how people view it and ACCEPT IT

Noticed LOADS of people have the same idea on marriage...
huh! Kinda makes me re-think why I am still single..



YEP - im with you there curvy!
Mar 29, 2009 3:16 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Piece of a certificate is much like toilet papergrin
Mar 29, 2009 3:35 AM CST How important is it for you to be married?
mrali
mralimralikarachi, Sindh Pakistan16 Threads 763 Posts
Hi All
Mar 29, 2009 5:07 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
i would love to be married , but only to the right man i wudnt marry someone just for the sake of being married or because i had been dating someone for a good while . i only want to be married when it truly means something to both of us someone i truly belive is the man for me . love
Mar 29, 2009 5:25 PM CST How important is it for you to be married?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
My 'married' status means nothing to me.

Never has, never will do!!!



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