May 6, 2009 8:37 PM CST Are you secretly interested in someone on this site?
BlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads229 Posts
BlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA229 posts
Ambrose2007: Yeah, that long-distance thing is a serious drag. At one point I had to end a relationship with an incredible girl because of the 10-minute drive - not many around here want to commit to such a commute, because of bad road conditions. So we were limited to emails and IM, and eventually the whole thing imploded like the travel-mess that it was.
Later, I started looking around in my small town, but tried to avoid the farther reaches of the town because I'd prefer her to be within walking distance... (also preferred to avoid areas where dogs barked a lot).
So anyhow, I do sympathize with your predicament, BJ.
I enjoyed your sarcastic parody of my predicament....though perhaps you didn't read my follow up post explaining the situation here in Southern California.....what you may fail to realize is that there are more people in So. Cal than you have in North & South Dakota combined......Women don't need to travel far & fighting commute & just normal traffic hardly makes it worthwhile....So yeah anything more than a 30 minute drive usually becomes a 'dead end'
I guess at this point in my time on CS I would honestly have to say I am only here now for the Forums Threads. I've given this 'dating site' thing a whirl for a while and it hasn't worked for me. Yes there are nice and beautiful ladies on CS, but none that are ringing my bell! The ones that like me are generally not my type. The ones that I find interesting are cool and distance. If some of the ladies were about 5,000 miles closer it might be different. I am not going to attempt a long distance relationship with that large distance to solve.
So the bottom line is I would love for someone to "float my boat". I don't see it happening.
sweetowen: Hey, if anyone is secretly interested in sweetowen, you can tell me... I promise I won't tell!!
Hey... How can you say that when your profile says that you have someone and are wanting to see where that leads, and just (PP/Fnds/Email)... ??? Just pointing out and asking...
Oh! I've had this huge crush on someone ever since I came into this site! He knows, and had let me down ever so gently. We have become the best of friends, and trust him with everything.
I still have a crush on him, is a shame we are so very far away, we have never met in person, but I have the feeling that I wouldn't feel different if we meet in person... he knows who he is
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Later, I started looking around in my small town, but tried to avoid the farther reaches of the town because I'd prefer her to be within walking distance... (also preferred to avoid areas where dogs barked a lot).
So anyhow, I do sympathize with your predicament, BJ.
I enjoyed your sarcastic parody of my predicament....though
perhaps you didn't read my follow up post explaining the situation here in Southern California.....what you may fail to realize is that there are more people in So. Cal than you have in North & South Dakota combined......Women don't need to travel far &
fighting commute & just normal traffic hardly makes it worthwhile....So yeah anything more than a 30 minute drive usually becomes a 'dead end'