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how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time) ( Archived) (33)

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#0
May 30, 2009 12:08 PM CSThow long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia, Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia, Canada1,086 posts

how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)(Vote Below)

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1 month
7
13%
3 months
3
6%
6 months
2
4%
9 months
1
2%
1 year
24
44%
2year
3
6%
3 year
14
26%
Total Votes
54
just a question..is a real one for me....i probably won't wait near long enough.....and we do not have the ability here to talk about what needs to happen so i will forum that one...thanks

kds
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#1
May 30, 2009 12:14 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK14,070 posts
2 days laugh

I would say 1 year minimum, but would advise to wait longer, to be sure, to be sure, to be sure irish beer
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#2
May 30, 2009 12:18 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
LillymSliema, Majjistral Malta3,391 posts
I would say it takes around a couple of years to get over a relationship and move on. JMO
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#3
May 30, 2009 12:21 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
Is there a time limit on warantee?laugh
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#4
May 30, 2009 12:26 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
goodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,573 posts
If it feels right for you then why wait, my ex got married today and we divorced just over a year ago..wave
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#5
May 30, 2009 12:46 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Thats like saying "How long is a piece of string", my friend!

Its a tuffie, but basically it all depends on how quickly you have moved on, emotionally, from the marriage and divorce.

In very rough terms, Id say a period of at least a year being single again, or just dating your girlfriend, would be a start, before thinking of legally committing again. For both your sakes..

JMO
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#6
May 30, 2009 12:49 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Galactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA9,196 posts
I waited 4 years after my canceled engagement. I would say do what feels right. wave
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#7
May 30, 2009 1:08 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
phoenixrising1: just a question..is a real one for me....i probably won't wait near long enough.....and we do not have the ability here to talk about what needs to happen so i will forum that one...thanks

kds


No ..........

a man shud always have a back up plane....so if one wife lives you ..the other one will be there fore you

grin
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#8
May 30, 2009 1:13 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
RayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France6,611 posts
BOBANBOBAN: No ..........

a man shud always have a back up plane....so if one wife lives you ..the other one will be there fore you


I'm with you Bobo.

Never be caught without a spare.
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#9
May 30, 2009 1:16 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
goodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,573 posts
RayfromUSA: I'm with you Bobo.

Never be caught without a spare.


A spare tyre oops the other wife has that..lol..
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#10
May 30, 2009 1:32 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Ashes
AshesAshesPunta del Este, Uruguay7 Threads 5 Polls 469 Posts
AshesPunta del Este, Uruguay469 posts
Sorry, can´t answer your question...it all depends on too many things, way too long to write on a Poll.
I´m not into writing letters on this.....
Good Luck, anyway!handshake
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#11
May 30, 2009 1:36 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
WOWERS THANKS FOR THE REPLYS
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#12
May 30, 2009 1:37 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
NOW I WILL FORUM THE ISSUES
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#13
Jun 11, 2009 6:12 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
misspeepee
misspeepeemisspeepeePerth, Western Australia Australia1 Posts
misspeepeePerth, Western Australia Australia1 posts
Depends how long and how hard you were married ! Dont it ?!
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#14
Jun 11, 2009 6:14 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta10,711 posts
How hard??....peeeeeee!!!!!!....my marriage was hard, but then it got all soft....doh laugh

misspeepee: Depends how long and how hard you were married ! Dont it ?!
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#15
Jun 11, 2009 6:34 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta8,344 posts
phoenixrising1: just a question..is a real one for me....i probably won't wait near long enough.....and we do not have the ability here to talk about what needs to happen so i will forum that one...thanks

kds


One should wait at least fifty (50) years, in my opinion - but probably even better to wait until another lifetime..........

You know what happens.

You get on an escalator and fall off which makes you feel rather foolish - so why make yourself appear even more foolish to both yourself and others by falling off repeatedly?

No; take the lift instead - or the stairway to Heaven!

Actually met a rather decent chap the other day who'd got divorced just the once many years ago (not three times like me) -
He's been together with his 'new' lady now for 17 years... but REFUSES to marry her!

wine
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#16
Jun 11, 2009 6:36 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Maybe when hell freezes over laugh
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#17
Jun 11, 2009 10:56 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta8,344 posts
RobbieM: Maybe when hell freezes over


HELL IS DAMNED COLD - DIDN'T YOU KNOW? moping
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#18
Jun 11, 2009 11:01 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Taterspringfield, Illinois USA3,326 posts
Wy too many variable to guess a time frame, but I would think someone would at least take a few months or so before they even started looking for a date...I think we all need a certian amount of "reflection time" to gather out thoughts and to look within ourself where things got off track in the last relationship, and figure out a set of standards when looking for the next....JMOcheers
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#19
Jun 18, 2009 12:09 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
ooby_dooby: Funniest post I've read in a week!!!


thanks to everyonewine
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#20
Jul 17, 2009 7:32 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
leilani
leilanileilaniDevonport, Tasmania Australia3 Posts
leilaniDevonport, Tasmania Australia3 posts
It can take years before you are ready to commit again.
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#21
Jul 17, 2009 8:27 AM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Get_2_know_me
Get_2_know_meGet_2_know_meSaint Paul, Minnesota USA87 Posts
Get_2_know_meSaint Paul, Minnesota USA87 posts
Wait (at least) one year after fully divorced to begin "dating". You need that time alone to be with yourself, and adjust. Being alone for a year is not that bad. Use it to get to know who you are and what you want.

How long to commit? Well after you begin dating...I guess that depends on who you are dating and what you're looking for. Not sure how to answer that question.
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#22
Jul 17, 2009 3:12 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
avecaimSan Jose, California USA4,084 posts
I think you should consult your family, especially your children if they are old enough. After a divorce dating should be more of a family decision.
hug
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#23
Jul 17, 2009 3:16 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Dawn7z
Dawn7zDawn7zArvada, Colorado USA47 Threads 2 Polls 4,416 Posts
Dawn7zArvada, Colorado USA4,416 posts
I believe in marriage for others but for me never again. Not cut out for it.
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#24
Jul 17, 2009 3:23 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
namcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA241 posts
Why do you need a piece of paper to make a commitment to someone?
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#25
Jul 17, 2009 3:25 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
Truth is, all women have committed to someone else already before they demand a divorce. They are cowards in that sense.

[runs for cover]
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#26
Jul 17, 2009 3:27 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
namcazam: Why do you need a piece of paper to make a commitment to someone?


That's what the king said when that bloke stepped up to him and tried to explain the concept of trading value in the form of bills.
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#27
Jul 17, 2009 3:27 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
avecaimSan Jose, California USA4,084 posts
namcazam: Why do you need a piece of paper to make a commitment to someone?


if it doesn't matter then why not laugh
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#28
Jul 17, 2009 3:29 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
Dawn7z
Dawn7zDawn7zArvada, Colorado USA47 Threads 2 Polls 4,416 Posts
Dawn7zArvada, Colorado USA4,416 posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Truth is, all women have committed to someone else already before they demand a divorce. They are cowards in that sense.

[runs for cover]


Really I always thought that you were a bright man who didn't make blanket statements lol. Oh well really we all have to have someone to be okay? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue tongue
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#29
Jul 17, 2009 3:40 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
namcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA241 posts
avecaim: if it doesn't matter then why not


You answered my question with another question, so you really didn't answer it.

How can I respond.
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#30
Jul 17, 2009 3:43 PM CST how long after divorse should you wait before you commit to another(try to guess a time)
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
Dawn7z: Really I always thought that you were a bright man who didn't make blanket statements lol. Oh well really we all have to have someone to be okay?


You're not the first one I've "fooled". I was bright in 1982, but something went wrong in the spring of 83.
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