Is it necessary to think twice before fall in love with some one ? (51)
RebeccaWYRShanghai, China7 Threads 4 Polls 92 Postsno matter how many times i think, it doesn't make any sense if my heart doesn't follow my judgement
Applying Logic to love?
RebeccaWYR: no matter how many times i think, it doesn't make any sense if my heart doesn't follow my judgement
Yeah,you got the right idea
pikengren: there is no correct answer. depends on you and your experiences,whether they were good or bad, if they were bad, how deeply did they affect you, how much more can you take.
the person you meet could be for real or pretending. if the person is for real, there are still the forces of life pulling on them( work,goals,kids, whatever)
who are you? are you the kind of person that wants to have blind faith, what will be will be?
or the kind of person that wants to feel like they have some sort of control over the outcome?
no matter how you look at it, it's a gamble.
do you want to buy a lottery ticket or play blackjack?
roll the dice, or figure the odds?
i don't think one way is necessarily better than the other, one way is better for some, the other is better for some others.
maybe you have tried one way several times without success, and decided you are not insane(doing the same thing over and over expecting different results),and are ready to give the other way a try.
you can get advice, and with these things, i would recommend getting some. but ultimately only you can answer what is right for you.
the person you meet could be for real or pretending. if the person is for real, there are still the forces of life pulling on them( work,goals,kids, whatever)
who are you? are you the kind of person that wants to have blind faith, what will be will be?
or the kind of person that wants to feel like they have some sort of control over the outcome?
no matter how you look at it, it's a gamble.
do you want to buy a lottery ticket or play blackjack?
roll the dice, or figure the odds?
i don't think one way is necessarily better than the other, one way is better for some, the other is better for some others.
maybe you have tried one way several times without success, and decided you are not insane(doing the same thing over and over expecting different results),and are ready to give the other way a try.
you can get advice, and with these things, i would recommend getting some. but ultimately only you can answer what is right for you.
you are one cool guy
i kinda think it through as i am getting to know someone. but i wouldnt start a relationship with a convict or criminal then question myself if i should be falling for the guy.
right now, im just diving right in. hee heee i heal easily, forgive, move on and like my profile says, i have so much love to give and want to give it all away! (to just one man ha ha ha)
we can think twice before jump into a relationship or not.
But how can we think twice before we fall in love with sb
But how can we think twice before we fall in love with sb
RebeccaWYR: we can think twice before jump into a relationship or not.
But how can we think twice before we fall in love with sb
But how can we think twice before we fall in love with sb
before, maybe. after? good luck.
jashcd: in life we need some one to take care love but if its not write person ...... u can see one more single parent here so better think and do .......... is it
"If it's love,a love that's true
and real than there's no need to
think about it,just go with it..".
Well yes, but more often then not, no
Thinking is not romantic but can be a good idea. My first “love” was much older than me and I realized after a few weeks it was not really love put an end to the relationship.
The other person broke into my parents’ house and moved in while we were on vacation to prove to me it was true love and we belonged together.
They got probation and my family got an alarm.
The other person broke into my parents’ house and moved in while we were on vacation to prove to me it was true love and we belonged together.
They got probation and my family got an alarm.
mmmh - methinks, thinking doenst come into it
Only if you care about the out come of your decision... 
yep just like the last few times --- alone (Not Lonely) again 
Good4U2: Only if you care about the out come of your decision...
Good one!
The person I ended up with was supposed to be a one night stand. All the rules set; "When the sun comes up, it is OVER."
A year later we started dating and have been together ever since. There was a lot of thinking, talking negotiating involved and there still is.
Passion fades and the type of love changes. More agape than eros as time passes. It can feel like a loss if you don't adapt to it. Maybe it's not thrilling but it can be very, very nice.
drivenbysound: If you have to think twice about it, then it's not love.
jashcd: in life we need some one to take care love but if its not write person ...... u can see one more single parent here so better think and do .......... is it
Well I have tried love 3 times and the third time was no charm either. I think I would approach that on a different level. It may just be easier to stay single though.
if we had to stop and think about every one we meet ,and try and figure out if they are mister or missus right,we would never have time to date. dating is also about having fun and getting to know people.and having the chance to fix your past mistakes.sorry to say many people wait till marriage to fix a relationship mistake(dont be so fast to rush in to things have fun and be happy,then you will make a better wife or husband)because you will be more fullfilled.
I got married till death u do part. I kept my vows for 28 1/2 yrs...... We had ups and downs like everyone We had a good marriage.
I was proposed to in January I turned him down. I couldn't ....I simply didn't love him as he wanted me to.
Whatever u do DON'T get into a Relationship just to have someone. If u have to be alone ...be alone. It's better than to settle on the wrong one.
Think and think again .... However many times you need...... A relationship can be HEAVEN or HELL. yOU REALLY HAVE TO BE CAREFUL...JMO life is to short to be unhappy.
I was proposed to in January I turned him down. I couldn't ....I simply didn't love him as he wanted me to.
Whatever u do DON'T get into a Relationship just to have someone. If u have to be alone ...be alone. It's better than to settle on the wrong one.
Think and think again .... However many times you need...... A relationship can be HEAVEN or HELL. yOU REALLY HAVE TO BE CAREFUL...JMO life is to short to be unhappy.
No, I don't think twice before loving.
It's not a jar of jellybeans,
it won't run out.
It's not a jar of jellybeans,
it won't run out.
Ocee35: No, I don't think twice before loving.
It's not a jar of jellybeans, it won't run out.
It's not a jar of jellybeans, it won't run out.
like the rooster and the hen........Falling in love just happens to you. I was in a relationship when I met Jim on this website. I did not plan to fall in love, but it just happened. It is just up to yourself what to do with it. I gave it a chance in may 2008 I "moved" from the Netherlands to Scotland .Not under the best circumstances with my situation back home, but I am very glad I have given it a chance!
what u say is just right and necessary jascd,thnks
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