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Jun 10, 2009 1:04 AM CSTWhat percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
sjenner
sjennersjennerSan Diego, California, USA4 Threads 1 Polls 101 Posts

What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
Wait for the guy to contact you online
20
30%
Contact a guy you are interested or curious about
39
59%
Neither- not looking online for love
7
11%
Total Votes
66
Poll to find out what percentage of women online here take the initiative to message a guy first for a date or to get acquainted with.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:15 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sjenner: Poll to find out what percentage of women online here take the initiative to message a guy first for a date or to get acquainted with.


Don't be so scared to talk to women.

What can they say? No?
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Jun 10, 2009 1:25 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
I'm not good at doing it but I have. I have not had much luck with it but as they say try and try again. yay
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Jun 10, 2009 1:33 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
He starts a thread, and then a poll about the very same thing, and then leaves.



doh
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Jun 10, 2009 1:35 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
drivenbysound: He starts a thread, and then a poll about the very same thing, and then leaves.


Maybe he got cold feet. laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 1:36 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
He is solving all of the problems before he starts.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:40 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Nope, just something i wouldn't do
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Jun 10, 2009 10:53 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
sjenner
sjennersjennerSan Diego, California USA4 Threads 1 Polls 101 Posts
Bruce!

I crashed after a long day of work after creating the poll. So, when does your new action movie come out?
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Jun 10, 2009 11:09 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sjenner: Bruce!

I crashed after a long day of work after creating the poll. So, when does your new action movie come out?


You've already missed it, Ralph.



comfort
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Jun 10, 2009 11:21 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
sjenner
sjennersjennerSan Diego, California USA4 Threads 1 Polls 101 Posts
Bruce!

Its not out yet:



I know you Hollywood types have to keep publicity under wraps.
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Jun 10, 2009 11:44 PM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sjenner: Bruce!

Its not out yet:



I know you Hollywood types have to keep publicity under wraps.


Hey, that actually looks like a cool movie.



thumbs up
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Jun 11, 2009 2:36 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sjenner: Bruce!

I crashed after a long day of work after creating the poll. So, when does your new action movie come out?


Have some respect, kid.

I've got about 50 movies out.



laugh
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Jun 11, 2009 12:51 PM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
sjenner
sjennersjennerSan Diego, California USA4 Threads 1 Polls 101 Posts
Hey Bruce,

All respect given, So why is a movie star guy like you online looking for love? One would think that with your status you could easily date supermodel quality women!
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Jun 11, 2009 9:25 PM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
Gather your facts, then come correct. professor


laugh
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Jun 11, 2009 9:42 PM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Some women do contact men first. I know I get about 5 to 10 messages a week from ladies I haven't contacted first.
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Jun 12, 2009 1:33 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
demystifychoices
demystifychoicesdemystifychoicesLombard, Illinois USA57 Posts
I've contacted some here and there, and only a few responded, but none of them more than once. Beginning to think it's best to have the men contact me, that way I already know they are interested.
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Jun 12, 2009 3:37 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
I really believe it's the men who should show the most active interest (whilst we ladies should accept it gracefully, LOL), but I realize that the worst would be NOT getting noticed by someone who perhaps just never thought of doing a "search" in your country or by your hair colour. So I do send messages first. Like someone on here said - what's the worst that can happen - we just wouldn't communicate. I see greater harm in lack of any action and possibly missing out on the person who might be your true soulmate. Once communication is established though, I really prefer for the man to be a man and lead the way. :)
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Jun 12, 2009 3:56 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
If the man is interested he should make the first step.wine
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Jun 12, 2009 4:01 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
sjenner: Poll to find out what percentage of women online here take the initiative to message a guy first for a date or to get acquainted with.


Women hate me..........i dont know why???

am rude, poor, ugly, i threat wimmin like .....(not a nice word)


and they still dont like me........ grin
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Jun 12, 2009 4:13 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
sjenner: Poll to find out what percentage of women online here take the initiative to message a guy first for a date or to get acquainted with.


In the past I would have had no problem messaging a guy or even flower him......now I could'nt be Ar**d.......but I welcome incoming.....can't promise I'l get back to you though......help
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Jun 12, 2009 4:14 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
claudya: If the man is interested he should make the first step.



Men dont know what they want most of the time.....laugh
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Jun 12, 2009 4:34 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
come on ladies, thí is 2009. are we not all equal? make the 1st move if you feel like it
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Jun 12, 2009 4:48 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Have no problem sending a flower or emails to guys on here and have received many back in return.

Have made many new friendships and its great to learn and get to know people in different countries and cultures.

In this day and age, guys shouldnt have to always be the first one to contact, either way i think is fine and it does boost guys egos when a women does take the initiative and contact them.


cheers banana
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Jun 12, 2009 4:50 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
stefonline: Men dont know what they want most of the time.....
rolling on the floor laughing wine
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Jun 12, 2009 9:28 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
scon1916: come on ladies, thí is 2009. are we not all equal? make the 1st move if you feel like it


Thanks, I prefer the classical approach. I'm not planning on courting a man, buying him flowers etc, either. laugh
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Jun 12, 2009 9:35 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
AudrysSis: Thanks, I prefer the classical approach. I'm not planning on courting a man, buying him flowers etc, either.


I would rather have choclate instead...laugh wave
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Jun 12, 2009 9:36 AM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
mbcasey: I would rather have choclate instead...


or a spell checker

choclate?doh
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Jun 14, 2009 11:48 PM CST What percentage of ladies message a guy online first?
raphael118
raphael118raphael118arlington, Virginia USA8 Threads 2 Polls 1,074 Posts
AudrysSis: I really believe it's the men who should show the most active interest (whilst we ladies should accept it gracefully, LOL), but I realize that the worst would be NOT getting noticed by someone who perhaps just never thought of doing a "search" in your country or by your hair colour. So I do send messages first. Like someone on here said - what's the worst that can happen - we just wouldn't communicate. I see greater harm in lack of any action and possibly missing out on the person who might be your true soulmate. Once communication is established though, I really prefer for the man to be a man and lead the way. :)


True but women dont like it when the guy decides to run away!
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Created: Jun 2009
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