There are times when being bad is good, and being good is bad. So I havent a clue weather Im goodbad, bsdgood, just good or just bad. I guess you will have to meet me and form your own opinion.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
I've always been true to my own conscience..I've tried to do the right thing, although sometimes it backfires. But I've always tried my damndest to ATTEMPT to do the right thing.
Sometimes, however, you cant always please EVERYONE, so sometimes it ends in tears.
The only way to go is to do what YOU think is right..
starshinebrightRiverside, California USA6,305 posts
It really doesn't matter what any one thinks...( and no, I have not read all the threads) I know who and what I am.... and yes I am a good person, thats just me and who I wanna be!!!
starshinebright: It really doesn't matter what any one thinks...( and no, I have not read all the threads) I know who and what I am.... and yes I am a good person, thats just me and who I wanna be!!!
Honey, provided that the dog will not Bite!... Men... ... who can understand...
You are right, some people will say they are good, knowing good and well they are full of sh..t..lol...I have learned that I have a choice to pick up others bull....Becasue they may can change my mind, but not my spirit, and that's most important to me than trying to learn if others are good or bad people...smile.
starshinebright: It really doesn't matter what any one thinks...( and no, I have not read all the threads) I know who and what I am.... and yes I am a good person, thats just me and who I wanna be!!!
I think you are a really nice person from what I've seen you post - and my heart goes out to you for your recent loss.
The villain never thinks of himself as the villain, while the hero is always conflicted by the means that are required to hunt the villain and resolve the conflict. Collateral damage makes us all bad people at times, no matter what our intentions may be. So in answer to your question, I am a person, neither good nor bad by my own definitions, but others may perceive me at times to be either one or the other depending on how my actions affect them.
And that, as they say, sounds like a personal problem.
Galactic_bodhi: Good person, bad person...what's the difference?
The villain never thinks of himself as the villain, while the hero is always conflicted by the means that are required to hunt the villain and resolve the conflict. Collateral damage makes us all bad people at times, no matter what our intentions may be. So in answer to your question, I am a person, neither good nor bad by my own definitions, but others may perceive me at times to be either one or the other depending on how my actions affect them.
And that, as they say, sounds like a personal problem.
Good answer.
I feel I am TRYING to be a good person.... does that count?
The only reason I have felt suicidal is NOT that I feel sorry for myself in any way but the shock and horror of what happened on Monday 8th June 2009 when I realised that I could be a danger to those I love.......... and it is hard to live with that fact and I must never allow it to ever happen again (i.e. myself losing control of a situation).
Galactic_bodhi: I am a person, neither good nor bad by my own definitions, but others may perceive me at times to be either one or the other depending on how my actions affect them.
And that, as they say, sounds like a personal problem.
i guess,, everyone of us has goodness in our heart and badness too as we are not perfect...I have my shortcomings too as im not perfect. But, the good point is, im true to myself and to all the people im interacting with. I cant say im good becoz i let people who knows me to tell that and not myself lifting my own chair or blowing my own horn....Im not that sort but all i can say is, im doing my best in any kind of relationship i have whether it is friendship or my personal relationship with someone special...Im always doing my best so maybe thats the reason why they wants my company...I dont have to say im good as i dont lift up myself but i let others to judge me those who knows me in person....
How about if you are honest about your intentions and character even if possibly self serving and showing your imperfections then you fall under the good category while if you like get a little wild and naughty then you fall under the bad category as either way it's all good!
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