Its like the love between a man and a woman introduces you into its world and leaves you there all alone.Sometimes you win but most times you lose,it hardly gives people a second chance to touch it like the frist time. With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER. I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.
love74: Its like the love between a man and a woman introduces you into its world and leaves you there all alone.Sometimes you win but most times you lose,it hardly gives people a second chance to touch it like the frist time. With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER. I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.
lifeis2good77brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada549 posts
I would like to believe I still can and I hope find the perfect one this time around. But I question was it really love the first time around,we have all been told you will know when you have found love but have we do we really know or is the next one our first true love ?
LOVE is love but each person one loves is special. Never compare. I think that puts up a barrier to experiencing love. Be open to it all as best as you can. Even the hard parts have a way of being absorbed into that greater love that endures and evolves. From my experience it is beyond words to describe how profoundly beautiful that kind of love is--that never give up on love - love. I want to be able to experience that again (in a deeper and more committed way) with someone special and to offer the positive energy derived from that bond to loved ones and those whom I touch in the world. I am excited to even think it is a possibility. I welcome the challenge of living a deeply loving life. (can I use the word love some more ) I want to be able to give love to others so much I feel like running outside to find a way right now Can you hear my heart beating
I probably sound like a corny neo-hippie, but I really feel this way.
avecaim: LOVE is love but each person one loves is special. Never compare. I think that puts up a barrier to experiencing love. Be open to it all as best as you can. Even the hard parts have a way of being absorbed into that greater love that endures and evolves. From my experience it is beyond words to describe how profoundly beautiful that kind of love is--that never give up on love - love. I want to be able to experience that again (in a deeper and more committed way) with someone special and to offer the positive energy derived from that bond to loved ones and those whom I touch in the world. I am excited to even think it is a possibility. I welcome the challenge of living a deeply loving life. (can I use the word love some more ) I want to be able to give love to others so much I feel like running outside to find a way right now Can you hear my heart beating
I probably sound like a corny neo-hippie, but I really feel this way.
Great point and outlook. Must be that NorCal sun...
lifeis2good77: I would like to believe I still can and I hope find the perfect one this time around. But I question was it really love the first time around,we have all been told you will know when you have found love but have we do we really know or is the next one our first true love ?
love74: Its like the love between a man and a woman introduces you into its world and leaves you there all alone.Sometimes you win but most times you lose,it hardly gives people a second chance to touch it like the frist time. With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER. I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.
i think this time my love is more intense than any i have had before, maybe this is the first time i really fell in love, i know i never felt this way before and still trying to deal with the emotions, to you hon
love74: Its like the love between a man and a woman introduces you into its world and leaves you there all alone.Sometimes you win but most times you lose,it hardly gives people a second chance to touch it like the frist time. With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER. I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.
Very good question. My first love was when I was 16 and he was 28. I fell out of love about two years later because I wanted to date other guys. My father wouldn't let me because he saw the guy, who he knew personally, as being my security. I didn't fall in love again until 2005 and that was a mistake. I know for a fact that I won't fall in love again like I did in 2005.
StressFree: How did you fall in love in 05 Snuggs? Tell me more please.
The CSer's will get mad at me Stress cause I've posted about it before but here goes.
I knew him in grammar school and all through high school. Had a very hard crush on him that he didn't know about. He signed my yearbook "Always Mike". I never forgot him and through the years looked at his picture in my yearbook. Told people about him all the time.
In 2005 I came across classmates dot com and found him. We emailed, talked on the phone starting in Feb 2005. We met up when he asked me to go to his daughter's wedding in July 2005. I was shocked at how he had changed but I still had the crush.
He called me all the time and eventually I fell deeply in love with him. Months later he said the same. All this time I had been sending him money and things he needed to make his life better to the tune of $60,000. I saw him again Christmas 2005 and things weren't the way they were on the phone. I knew something was wrong but didn't bring it up.
He took me to the airport on Dec. 27, 2005 and that was the last time I saw him. He didn't give me any reason to believe that it would be the last time. I called him many times after I got home and rarely did he answer the phone.
I waited 45 years for him to break my heart....and my bank account. I'm back on my feet financially and my heart has pretty much mended but I know I will never love as deeply as that again.
love74: Its like the love between a man and a woman introduces you into its world and leaves you there all alone.Sometimes you win but most times you lose,it hardly gives people a second chance to touch it like the frist time. With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER. I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.
I will always give a woman I love every chance to get back with me... It is only when I messed up big time with the woman I love that I never go back to her... Or would I???
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
Yes you can fall in love again..and each time is better as you learn from any mistakes you might of made previous...life is about learning...and yes love can get better the more we kno people and ourselves
who ever you are love74's first love ......please forgive her and one day when the ball is in here field you will also get a second chance .......... but FYI love is like a bar of soap now a days it even runs out faster.when one is finished you get another one with better taste and shape and move one
sasseez: Yes you can fall in love again..and each time is better as you learn from any mistakes you might of made previous...life is about learning...and yes love can get better the more we kno people and ourselves
Yes,I believe so.You can never love the same as your first love,it's different every time.Not that I fall in and out of love easily.Love is a wonderful feeling.
love74: Its like the love between a man and a woman introduces you into its world and leaves you there all alone.Sometimes you win but most times you lose,it hardly gives people a second chance to touch it like the frist time. With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER. I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.
caspatch: i think this time my love is more intense than any i have had before, maybe this is the first time i really fell in love, i know i never felt this way before and still trying to deal with the emotions, to you hon
I know that feeling Cas, Just turning into butter, for the first time in my life, wondering what will a softer me be like. wrestling with the way he makes me feel, but moving ever so closer to him to get more of it.
sasseez: Yes you can fall in love again..and each time is better as you learn from any mistakes you might of made previous...life is about learning...and yes love can get better the more we kno people and ourselves
Snuggs09: The CSer's will get mad at me Stress cause I've posted about it before but here goes.
If the CSer's have a sense of understanding, they will not get mad at you Snuggs.
I'm terribly saddened that you experienced that. That was a deep one considering all the dynamics involved. I had no idea.
I can understand you stance that you think you will never love deeply as that again. It's your choice and you feel what you feel because of what you experienced.
I hope time is treating you well Snuggs and you seem at peace with it. Me being the positive nut I am, I have to say if you believe, the possibilities for it to happen again will be there.
StressFree: If the CSer's have a sense of understanding, they will not get mad at you Snuggs.
I'm terribly saddened that you experienced that. That was a deep one considering all the dynamics involved. I had no idea.
I can understand you stance that you think you will never love deeply as that again. It's your choice and you feel what you feel because of what you experienced.
I hope time is treating you well Snuggs and you seem at peace with it. Me being the positive nut I am, I have to say if you believe, the possibilities for it to happen again will be there.
Thank you Stress but I have a problem with trust and without trust, there can be no love.
It would take an exceptional man to understand all the trauma that has occurred in my life. This is just one little corner of my world.
Any man on CS, who sees how I post, knows that I would be trouble. Men don't want women with attitude. Men want women who believe in love even though they themself question it.
caspatch: i think this time my love is more intense than any i have had before, maybe this is the first time i really fell in love, i know i never felt this way before and still trying to deal with the emotions, to you hon
I want to feel this again... U are so sweet caspath... Good wishes to u....
First love is innocent and sweet, poignant, and something we remember forever. For some few and fortunate people, it's also their only love, and they are able to grow and change together. For most of us, it's a love we will always remember fondly, but will never be able to repeat, for the ending of it leaves its mark, and we are never that innocent again.
Can you love deeply again? Oh, yes, and often better later in life because you've learned lessons along the way and know more of what it takes to make and break relationships. You also know yourself better, for you have grown and/or changed through your trials in life. Hopefully both, for unless there has been growth within, you have nothing more to offer than you did before.
I have loved deeply several times in my life. Two of them I married, and one had a journey to make that isn't mine to join him on yet. I believe there is at least one more such love to happen in my life yet; the deepest, healthiest, and best ever.
No. I don't believe you can fall in love again like your first love. Because I'm not the same person I was then - I've grown, matured, experienced things. I do believe that I can love again and likely as deeply as that first love - but not exactly the same.
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Can poeple ever fall inlove again like their frist love?(Vote Below)
With your frist love your are ready to do anything for him or her even if it means dying but now when someone asks,would you die for the one you love,most people would say NEVER.
I think frist love should learn how to give people a second chance.We have made our mistakes,pls do give us a second chance.