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Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf? ( Archived) (15)

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#0
Sep 7, 2009 7:49 PM CSTDo you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
trailseeker
trailseekertrailseekerMedia, Pennsylvania, USA5 Threads 5 Polls 2 Posts
trailseekerOPMedia, Pennsylvania, USA2 posts

Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?(Vote Below)

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Yes
45
49%
No
47
51%
Total Votes
92
Is it possible to remain friends with an old love while with someone new?
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#1
Sep 7, 2009 7:50 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
MEDTECH662
MEDTECH662MEDTECH662Ity Bity, Tennessee USA12 Threads 641 Posts
MEDTECH662Ity Bity, Tennessee USA641 posts
trailseeker: Is it possible to remain friends with an old love while with someone new?


Ummmmm...NO!
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#2
Sep 7, 2009 7:55 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
trailseeker: Is it possible to remain friends with an old love while with someone new?


You, OP, are asking two different questions.

I can, and have, remained friends with old loves. I just don't eat with them anymore.
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#3
Sep 7, 2009 8:01 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
soulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA4,935 posts
trailseeker: Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?


Mmmmmmmm...No boxing



trailseeker: Is it possible to remain friends with an old love while with someone new?


Yes, but both parties have to understand and accept the circumstances...conversing conversing
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#4
Sep 7, 2009 8:11 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
trailseeker: Is it possible to remain friends with an old love while with someone new?



I don't see why not especially if there are kids involved.
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#5
Sep 20, 2009 12:20 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
SojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra472 posts
somechick: I don't see why not especially if there are kids involved.
thumbs up
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#6
Sep 20, 2009 12:35 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
wildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA1,308 posts
i talk to my ex all the time we share kids so yes i do think old loves can do lunch..thumbs up
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#7
Sep 20, 2009 12:42 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
jon1972
jon1972jon1972Telford, Shropshire, England UK9 Threads 4 Polls 45 Posts
jon1972Telford, Shropshire, England UK45 posts
trailseeker: Is it possible to remain friends with an old love while with someone new?


I would have no problem with this as it's all to do with trust, and without that you have nothing anyway
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#8
Sep 20, 2009 12:48 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
ladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA5,456 posts
I went too since we were married and it was very awkard, especially when she tried to kiss him when we took her home. Then she turned to me and said in a sugary sweet voice...it was so nice to meet you.
I replied "Go piss up a rope".
My husband broke roared with laughter.

Nope, I don't think so.
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#9
Sep 20, 2009 12:48 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
virgosign
virgosignvirgosignSt. Julians, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 205 Posts
virgosignSt. Julians, Majjistral Malta205 posts
but isn't there a saying which goes "don't play with fire, if you don't want to get burnt !"wine
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#10
Sep 20, 2009 2:53 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
Pierides
PieridesPieridesHolt, Michigan USA2 Threads 11 Posts
PieridesHolt, Michigan USA11 posts
I think it totally depends on the circumstances. My aunt is still in contact with her ex because of kids and they are friends...but they would never do lunch together. I speak with one of my ex's online and might consider lunch but would certainly discuss it with my current boyfriend first. I know I would never do anything but my boyfriends comfort with the idea is also important. Would I be comfortable with my boyfriend visiting an old love? Depends on how much I trust him and where they were going. Lunch in a public place could be fine, but dinner alone at her house? Forget it. tongue
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#11
Sep 20, 2009 3:10 PM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
vk3vms
vk3vmsvk3vmsYarra Junction, Victoria Australia2 Threads 2 Polls 17 Posts
vk3vmsYarra Junction, Victoria Australia17 posts
NO BLOODY WAY!!
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#12
Sep 21, 2009 2:53 AM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
mjamesnapa, California USA779 posts
to me cheating is doing something that you wouldn't do if your significant other is there. I would let them do lunch if I came too.
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#13
Sep 21, 2009 2:56 AM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
I'd have no problem with a man of mine having lunch with one of his exes.It's about trust in a relationship.
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#14
Sep 21, 2009 6:16 AM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Yes as long as they take me alongdunno
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#15
Sep 21, 2009 6:16 AM CST Do you feel it is ok for your mate to have lunch with an old bf / gf?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
mjames: to me cheating is doing something that you wouldn't do if your significant other is there. I would let them do lunch if I came too.
Exactly that is what i say toowave
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Created: Sep 2009
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