I ve heard people say something like, they married on contact bases or i married to help him or her. Do people actually carry out something like that. What is your stand on the issue.
fearlessmophism: I ve heard people say something like, they married on contact bases or i married to help him or her. Do people actually carry out something like that. What is your stand on the issue.
mind if i sit???
i saw a show on contraced relationships and it seemed to work for the people on the show. the chance of penalties kept them more in line.
Sep 10, 2009 6:19 PM CST WILL YOU MARRY ON CONTRACT (CONTRACT MARRIAGE)
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 posts
in the very doubt i will marry again ..i wouldnt need one ... i know what i have to start with and he knows what he has i would nOt want his things if we broke up and everythng we got together just gets sold or split .... If a marriage has to be contracted other than signing the marriage papers then it feels like a buisness deal to me not a joining of to people who love each other.. but thats jmo ....
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
Here in the Caribbean, I am always getting offered large amounts of money to marry the sister of a fellow worker so that they can get a citizenship in the US. It used to happen a lot, but they are not making it as easy as it once was. I am talking thousands of dollars here. Not for me but some people do it. Is this the type of contract marriage you are talking about ?
Heard that women from overseas marry men in the USA and they make a contract to get married so she can become a US citizens then annul the marriage instead of getting a divorce.
we married because of love,and there is a contract,a marriage license that certify us a legal wife and husband..but others they used that for their own priorities...
jeepers: Here in the Caribbean, I am always getting offered large amounts of money to marry the sister of a fellow worker so that they can get a citizenship in the US. It used to happen a lot, but they are not making it as easy as it once was. I am talking thousands of dollars here. Not for me but some people do it. Is this the type of contract marriage you are talking about ?
moodybluesCAPE TOWN, Western Cape South Africa210 posts
Sometimes loves comes slowly. All this frantic instant chemistry between two people is largely lust. Sometimes you have a single father who has to work and just can't cope with that and kids so someone helps him out and over time they become close. That might make for a more lasting relationship, based on actual daily life rather than just the "Wow" factor.
Even arranged marriages work, based on shared values, interests, respect, etc.
moodyblues: Sometimes loves comes slowly. All this frantic instant chemistry between two people is largely lust. Sometimes you have a single father who has to work and just can't cope with that and kids so someone helps him out and over time they become close. That might make for a more lasting relationship, based on actual daily life rather than just the "Wow" factor.
Even arranged marriages work, based on shared values, interests, respect, etc. Something to think about.
Good post....I've seen many arranged marriages that have succeeded; not that I'd want one - too old, too set in my ways, too cynical to believe in something I've failed in more than once to hope such a contract could work for me.
moodyblues: Sometimes loves comes slowly. All this frantic instant chemistry between two people is largely lust. Sometimes you have a single father who has to work and just can't cope with that and kids so someone helps him out and over time they become close. That might make for a more lasting relationship, based on actual daily life rather than just the "Wow" factor.
Even arranged marriages work, based on shared values, interests, respect, etc. Something to think about.
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