Is it ok for Men to Cry? (82)

Nov 28, 2009 6:18 PM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
bay163: what about funerals? or weddings


A man should only cry at his own wedding.............. or if he really fancies the bride and she's marrying some other dude.
Nov 28, 2009 6:23 PM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
ljeama
ljeamaljeamaNassau, New Providence Bahamas3 Threads 45 Posts
thirsty0002: dont trust any man who cries in front of a girl, and dont trust any girl who seems moved by a crying man


interestingprofessor
Nov 28, 2009 10:52 PM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
hahahahahaha: I Cried earlier on for no apparant reason
I cant remember the last time i cried but when i did earlier the floodgates opened


Sure it is. Most men I know will do everything they can to not cry in front of anyone else, but will admit that they have cried. Sad movies, the death of a family member or a pet, the birth of their own kids. I don't know a guy who hasn't cried.

I know that many men are brought up to be 'big boys' and not cry. The effort to pretend you are not upset and ignore those feelings - male or female - is exhausting IMO - and after a while, it catches up with you.
Nov 28, 2009 10:54 PM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
thirsty0002: dont trust any man who cries in front of a girl, and dont trust any girl who seems moved by a crying man


I don't think there any many women who aren't moved or affected in some way by a man crying. I'm not saying that it's less upsetting if a female cries, but if a guy is crying, well, generally, you know something is VERY wrong.
Nov 29, 2009 12:59 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
ydaisy
ydaisyydaisyHo Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam9 Posts
Yes, it is ok for men somtimes to cry but pls do not cry all the time.
As per my experience, the men only cry when their business collapse, or their relatives hv a serious sick, they are brave men, some men sometimes cry for seeing emotional movies,... then they are very weak in emotional feelings but they also hv a good heart, some men who can never cry, then they are too stubborn, u always fail to struggle with them.
I do not know how many percentage of men who will cry for their broken hearts because of their lovers' betray.
Nov 29, 2009 1:01 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
reelman90
reelman90reelman90Richmond, Kentucky USA3 Threads 387 Posts
Absolutely!
Nov 29, 2009 1:08 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
LaVerdad
LaVerdadLaVerdadBaghdad, Iraq1 Threads 1,897 Posts
Of course it is otherwise they would not have tear ducts!
Nov 29, 2009 1:22 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
I have seen some hard roads in Life, and I am not ashamed to say that I have shed Many Tears along the way, Now Most of My Family are Deceased, so i shed tears just for that alone! Yes Men Cry.... If They dont, Be Scared, Real Scared!uh oh uh oh
Nov 29, 2009 4:04 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
I recently made a man cry and the image of the tears welling up in his eyes and his attempts to contain them will haunt me forever. Yet, I saw so much in those wet eyes. I saw more of what he felt for me than I had heard come out of his mouth. Some men don't easily express themselves verbally. Those tears that he kept brushing away as quickly as possible...those tears spoke volumes about his feelings for me.
Is it ok for a man to cry?
Is it ok to breathe? OK to eat, sleep, walk, talk...ok to feel?
Nov 29, 2009 4:37 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
hahahahahaha: This is my first post/poll


Your SCREEN name is hahahahahaha and your first post is about crying??? laugh
Nov 29, 2009 5:20 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
I think I posted this here way back!
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Nope,don't let anyone tell you that is a sign of Weakness for a Man to cry.
I don't make it a Rule to bawl in public,but that does not mean I do not shed tears;and not all the reasons are the same.


Here are some Quotes I found:

“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness,"

“Tears are words the heart can't express” ...

“Tears are the safety valve of the heart when too much pressure is laid on it.”

“Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again.”

“Tears are the silent language of grief”

“Laughter and tears are meant to turn the wheels of the same machinery of sensibility; one is wind-power, and the other water-power; that is all”

“So hold her closer when she cries, hold her closer when she feels. She needs a hand to hold, someone who will never let her go again. And hold him closer when he tries to hold the tears back from his eyes. Don't say goodbye.”
Song: Hold Her Closer

“Things have different qualities, and the soul different inclinations; for nothing is simple which is presented to the soul, and the soul never presents itself simply to any object. Hence it comes that we weep and laugh at the same thing.”

conversing wave
Nov 29, 2009 7:38 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
hahahahahaha
hahahahahahahahahahahahaDundalk, Louth Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 24 Posts
calmheartseeks: Your SCREEN name is hahahahahaha and your first post is about crying???


Sometimes people who appear to be happy are behind it all depressed sigh
Nov 29, 2009 7:40 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
DrkRose
DrkRoseDrkRoseSioux Lookout, Ontario Canada16 Threads 466 Posts
SoldierByte: I cried reading this pathetic poll realizing
that THIS.....
is all you could think of..
---SoldierByte---
Love yeah SB you make me laugh!! laugh
Nov 29, 2009 7:43 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
DrkRose: Love yeah SB you make me laugh!!


Have you been up all night on this thing?????confused


help



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 29, 2009 7:47 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
DrkRose
DrkRoseDrkRoseSioux Lookout, Ontario Canada16 Threads 466 Posts
HJFinAZ: Have you been up all night on this thing?????
Hello darling, no, I just arrived here.And Good Morning!lips
Nov 29, 2009 7:47 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
yellow1
yellow1yellow1London, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 2 Polls 172 Posts
nah man gay just work it out unless its a family problem.
Nov 29, 2009 7:50 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
DrkRose
DrkRoseDrkRoseSioux Lookout, Ontario Canada16 Threads 466 Posts
HJFinAZ: Have you been up all night on this thing?????
Plus I run servers on another program, so I have to check them.heart wings
Nov 29, 2009 7:52 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
hahahahahaha
hahahahahahahahahahahahaDundalk, Louth Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 24 Posts
yellow1: nah man gay just work it out unless its a family problem.


Its gay?laugh
Nov 29, 2009 7:52 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
DrkRose: Hello darling, no, I just arrived here.And Good Morning!


Mornin........ Me too, not sure I can handle all the *&%&$%*%&(% with only one cup of coffee..uh oh
Nov 29, 2009 7:53 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
DrkRose
DrkRoseDrkRoseSioux Lookout, Ontario Canada16 Threads 466 Posts
HJFinAZ: Mornin........ Me too, not sure I can handle all the *&%&$%*%&(% with only one cup of coffee..
*gets you more coffee* grin
Nov 29, 2009 8:08 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Waking up and finding my coffee pot had broke and there was no coffee in the morning would make me cry..help
Nov 29, 2009 9:20 AM CST Is it ok for Men to Cry?
Lammycool
LammycoolLammycoolKöln, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany29 Threads 5 Polls 372 Posts
hahahahahaha: I Cried earlier on for no apparant reason
I cant remember the last time i cried but when i did earlier the floodgates opened


Of course, why not? Finally it shows, you be able to show your feelings. If somebody say a man should not cry, how sick is that? You also would not stop laughing, or? To have feelings and show it, can never be wrong. To cry makes you rather to a better human. My Granny said once, if a man can cry, it shows he can feel deep love. A cold heart can`t cry and it can`t love as well.
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