Do u believe in long distance relationship? ( Archived) (111)

Dec 18, 2009 11:22 PM CSTDo u believe in long distance relationship?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab, Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts

Do u believe in long distance relationship?(Vote Below)

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Yes
78
50%
No
62
40%
I have no experience
15
10%
Total Votes
155
Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think? thumbs up thumbs down
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Dec 18, 2009 11:38 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
AFriendlyone
AFriendlyoneAFriendlyoneNampa, Idaho USA1 Threads 56 Posts
I think writing letters (e-mails) can build a trust but there are times when you finally meet the person, and he/she hurts your feelings or nags you or tries to boss you, you realize the relationship is not going to be a good one. Still, I am willing to travel great distances to meet people and I enjoy visiting new places. I do hope to meet my match, best friend and mate but until then, I will still try to go to many new places wherever I can.
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Dec 18, 2009 11:43 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
I tried a LDR but it didn't work out.I guess it wasn't in the cards.But I figure life goes on.
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Dec 19, 2009 12:06 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Honestly, Not sure Yet!wink uh oh uh oh
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Dec 19, 2009 12:43 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?


THE BIG PROBLEM IS CROSBY STILLS AND NASH....(YOUNG) WOODSTOCK?

IF YOU CAN'T BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE HONEY ... LOVE THE ONE YOUR WITH .......AND MANY PEOPLE ...ESPECIALLY A LOT OF GUYS ...LIVE THIS WAYlaugh rolling on the floor laughing tongue wine
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Dec 19, 2009 12:47 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?


Everything is possible IMO.
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Dec 19, 2009 12:54 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
Amenda: Everything is possible IMO.


thumbs up



GO CELTICS! cheers
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Dec 19, 2009 12:55 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
AsleepInNJ: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyjOy7fRzs0

GO CELTICS!
crying crying

I can't open any youtube here....wowwwwwwoowwwwcrying

laugh grin that's true.
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Dec 19, 2009 7:18 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
It takes special people to pull off an LDR. The levels of trust and patience must be very high. Not everyone can pull it off. It's not a bad thing when a couple can't quite cope with an LDR. It doesn't make either of them untrusting or untrustworthy. It simply means that an LDR is not for them. Sometimes it works; sometimes it doesn't.

My parents maintained an LDR for about 50 years while he was a truck driver. Dad was home every weekend, so it wasn't so bad. My ex drove truck for many years and was home for 48 hours every 3 to 5 weeks. My girls and I survived. When he became a commercial electrician, he was gone the same amount of time. We were married 23 years.
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Dec 19, 2009 7:39 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
At best they are extremely hard. Most will not work. The two people must be really committed to make a LDR happen.
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Dec 20, 2009 10:14 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I believe becos it worked for me and many others on here
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Dec 20, 2009 10:21 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
chughtayejee:

CROSBY STILLS AND NASH....(sang)

IF YOU CAN'T BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE HONEY ... LOVE THE ONE YOUR WITH .......
AND MANY PEOPLE ...ESPECIALLY A LOT OF GUYS ...LIVE THIS WAY.



Women too.

Maybe even more than guys because they don't have to take the initiative, opportunity comes knocking.

But women are much better at keeping it secret.
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Dec 20, 2009 10:23 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
As for LDRs, in most cases you might as well be penpals.
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Dec 20, 2009 10:23 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Hedonist2010
Hedonist2010Hedonist2010London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 139 Posts
What constitutes LDR, I UK 50 miles would be considered LDR.
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Dec 20, 2009 10:25 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
LaVerdad
LaVerdadLaVerdadBaghdad, Iraq1 Threads 1,897 Posts
Hedonist2010: What constitutes LDR, I UK 50 miles would be considered LDR.


travelling to the outer limites of space, that is Long Distant Relationshiplaugh
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Dec 20, 2009 10:26 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Amenda: I can't open any youtube here..wowwwwwwoowwww
that's true.


Probably best not to talk about it too.
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Dec 20, 2009 10:30 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Hedonist2010: What constitutes LDR, I UK 50 miles would be considered LDR.



No, I used to drive farther than that to work every day.

LDR (in my opinion) is farther than one can reasonably travel, both ways in a single weekend.
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Dec 20, 2009 11:50 AM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
INDIADon
INDIADonINDIADonDHILLI, India15 Threads 7 Polls 151 Posts
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?


the matter of distance geographically can be overcome. but it may be bit difficult with cultural barriers and attitudes.wave
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Dec 20, 2009 12:05 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Hedonist2010
Hedonist2010Hedonist2010London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 139 Posts
RayfromUSA: No, I used to drive farther than that to work every day.

LDR (in my opinion) is farther than one can reasonably travel, both ways in a single weekend.


Very true, nowadays with budget airlines in Europe we have begun to broaden our horizens.thumbs up
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Dec 20, 2009 12:07 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Hedonist2010
Hedonist2010Hedonist2010London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 139 Posts
INDIADon: the matter of distance geographically can be overcome. but it may be bit difficult with cultural barriers and attitudes.


That is really truethumbs up I have first, second and third hand experience of that.cheers
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Dec 20, 2009 12:10 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
alexey8
alexey8alexey8Tel Aviv, Israel10 Threads 4 Polls 1,496 Posts
Hedonist2010: Very true, nowadays with budget airlines in Europe we have begun to broaden our horizens.


If only airline tickets in USA were cheaper... sigh help

laugh
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Dec 20, 2009 12:13 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Hedonist2010
Hedonist2010Hedonist2010London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 139 Posts
alexey8: If only airline tickets in USA were cheaper...


Oh you would not believe how cheap here Alexey.cheers Nice to see you, this day has been about happy threads.thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Dec 20, 2009 12:15 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
My limit to a long distance relationship would be from here to the other side of the barroom. cheers
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Dec 20, 2009 12:15 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
ceridwen
ceridwenceridwenanywhere, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1 Threads 1 Polls 217 Posts
yes I believe in
but you need to be strong and need to trust in each other
and it may not last forever
that wouldn't be working for me at least
there must be a sight of moving together, when you're sure about that your love will last forever
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Dec 20, 2009 12:18 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
ceridwen
ceridwenceridwenanywhere, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1 Threads 1 Polls 217 Posts
alexey8: If only airline tickets in USA were cheaper...


laugh right
and if only the flight wouldn't take that long laugh
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Dec 20, 2009 12:24 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
alexey8
alexey8alexey8Tel Aviv, Israel10 Threads 4 Polls 1,496 Posts
Hedonist2010: Oh you would not believe how cheap here Alexey. Nice to see you, this day has been about happy threads.


laugh I have seen price quotes... and then I have looked at price quotes in USA crying laugh

Good to see you too! handshake
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Dec 20, 2009 12:26 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
ogdensburgbabe
ogdensburgbabeogdensburgbabeogdensburg, New York USA18 Threads 801 Posts
Hedonist2010: Needs a hell of a lot of trust on both sides, I guess also??


Yes, it does..thumbs up

Thats why it can make a relationship stronger, I believe.

cool
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Dec 20, 2009 1:45 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?


I am presently giving one a try. He is about a 12 hour drive from me so not too bad. I think there are always risks even if you aren't long distance.
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Dec 20, 2009 1:56 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
Big_John: At best they are extremely hard. Most will not work. The two people must be really committed to make a LDR happen.
I THINK A LOCAL ONE IS HARD ENOUGH, NOT IN A BAD WAY, JUST THAT PEOPLE R SO BUSY, EVEN LIVING CLOSE,IT HAS TO BE WORKED ON AT MANY LEVELS,BUT ALOT BETTER IN MY OPINION THAN A LDR
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Dec 20, 2009 2:11 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
Yes, I have no doubt in my mind, that they can work if "both" are interested enough.
We do have Examples on cs, that this has happened!
I would´nt even be on the Site if I did´nt believe in this.
I also enjoy Reading and sometimes participating in Forums, in which I have made GREAT Friends!bouquet
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Dec 20, 2009 2:25 PM CST Do u believe in long distance relationship?
RLML48
RLML48RLML48Charleston, South Carolina USA2 Threads 288 Posts
Hedonist2010: Needs a hell of a lot of trust on both sides, I guess also??

More than trust, a lot of patience to be able to wait until the final meeting which everyone hopes to be an agreeable one.conversing
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