chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated? Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs. What do u think?
Yes and No depends on the individuals...once they are "WILLING" to make it work, why not?
They say things get better with time....well have hope
Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK755 posts
ebony4you: Yes and No depends on the individuals...once they are "WILLING" to make it work, why not?They say things get better with time....well have hope It is just the "OCEAN" seperating "US"..
Pixels1: Not sure........Maybe. Has worked for some but it is funny to think when someone is sleeping the other person is moving around with the time difference
As I see it, there is a huge risk, more so for the one who is actually relocating, in leaving behind their previous life. If that person is gainfully employed, has friends, family or children, it can be very difficult, and often, sadly doomed to failure once the love bug goes into hibernation!
Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK755 posts
JAN_is: Hi Pixels.
As I see it, there is a huge risk, more so for the one who is actually relocating, in leaving behind their previous life. If that person is gainfully employed, has friends, family or children, it can be very difficult, and often, sadly doomed to failure once the love bug goes into hibernation!
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated? Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs. What do u think?
If the distance between the two is, and constantly remains, greater than the length of the male's member, then the only relationships possible are friendship and/or fantasy.
I've lived in the US, Japan, Taiwan, Indonesia, Korea, and France.
And one lesson I've learned is that no matter how sincere the relationship might be, as soon as someone moves permanently across an ocean it's all over.
There may be some sentimental residue that remains, but the relationship and any potential it may have for the future is over.
And the sooner one realizes that fact and moves on with his/her life the better.
Of course that's not true if the move is known to be temporary like for a soldier or sailor.
RayfromUSA: If the distance between the two is, and constantly remains, greater than the length of the male's member, then the only relationships possible are friendship and/or fantasy.
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I don't know if it's really "especially guys". Guys are just less skillfull at keeping it a secret. They tend to brag about their exploits. I think that women are at least as prone to filandering as men. Especially when the man is not around.
Out of sight, out of mind.
In the Tex-Mex culture there is a mythical figure called "Sancho". Sancho is always waiting, and as soon as the man leaves the home Sancho is there hitting on his woman (with a lot of success).
It's a joke, but there's a lot of truth behind it.
There is also a difference between an established relationship that must endure separation vs. a LDR initiated on the internet. I would consider the first but, not the second. So-called internet only LDR is basically a pen pal or phone friend, a relationship but not one I would commit to as a Long distance relationship in the dating sense.
nytebyrdfun: There is also a difference between an established relationship that must endure separation vs. a LDR initiated on the internet. I would consider the first but, not the second. So-called internet only LDR is basically a pen pal or phone friend, a relationship but not one I would commit to as a Long distance relationship in the dating sense.
i think ltr can work,,my best freind married chinese lady 2 years ago and both seem sooo happy together,so yes it does happen
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I am like you J. I change from day-to-day on this subject. Some days I think they would be impossible, then I believe well maybe.