Do u believe in long distance relationship? (111)
ogdensburgbabe: Very true, Dru..(Im a poet, and I didnt know it!! )
I still think that in the long run, there is no real difference between deciding to move in with someone after a period of dating who only lives a short distance away (as you say, everyone is on their best behaviour when you are first dating), than with someone from a LDR. Not really. Especially with the wonders of webcam these days..
People can hide their faults and bad bed hair if they wish, even if they only stay over for weekends..
As has been said on here many, many times - you can live with someone for years and years and still not really know them. In my opinion, the distance between you to start with does not really alter that fact.
I still think that in the long run, there is no real difference between deciding to move in with someone after a period of dating who only lives a short distance away (as you say, everyone is on their best behaviour when you are first dating), than with someone from a LDR. Not really. Especially with the wonders of webcam these days..
People can hide their faults and bad bed hair if they wish, even if they only stay over for weekends..
As has been said on here many, many times - you can live with someone for years and years and still not really know them. In my opinion, the distance between you to start with does not really alter that fact.
I lived with a stranger for 20 years....
ogdensburgbabe: I have to say, the toilet seat in this house is always left very thoughtfully down..
Arn't you the lucky one......
stefonline: I lived with a stranger for 20 years....
Your strange enough as it is, honey!!
But I still love ya!!
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Think so 01%
stefonline: So happy for you Navy......couldn't happen to a nicer Lady....
Thank you. You are very kind.
itsallme112: I think it depends on the people concerned. I had a relationship with someone across the ocean We lived together before she moved back home and wanted a commitment to arrange for a marriage. I agreed but as time went by being alone, she met another guy in her community. Couldn't blame her, some folks have problems being alone for any length of time.
I am sorry to hear that. I am glad you don't hold a grudge and do hope you keep your options open to whatever comes your way.
oh Canada. sorry cant sing. hows Canada today.
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
it is too much of a gamble. it plays with your emotions and too easy to get hurt
For me, it seems hard enough to mantain a short distance relationship. ( not that I've had any in a while )
I would think a LDR would be impossible.
I would think a LDR would be impossible.
Big_John: At best they are extremely hard. Most will not work. The two people must be really committed to make a LDR happen.
I agree!!
yezo57: it is too much of a gamble. it plays with your emotions and too easy to get hurt
I agree again! But isn't life a gamble?!
I do believe because it worked for me 
Milanda: I do believe because it worked for me
Are you still in a LDR ? 
jeepers: Are you still in a LDR ?
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
it is possible but too difficult
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Not sure........Maybe. Has worked for some but it is funny to think when someone is sleeping the other person is moving around with the time difference
They *do* work but it takes much work and self restraint.
Bless your heart 
MeryChen: Yes, I believe it works if both side keep the trust and plan good to be together.. many of my friends do LDR and it works for them.. so, I also available for LDR..
Yes I agree MC. Trust is one of several factors. How's your current LDR?
chughtayejee: Whats ur belief about a relationship between two people who are geographically separated?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
Although, new advanced technology has transformed the world to Global Village but there maybe some risks or disbeliefs.
What do u think?
No, it doesn’t work in the long run: you either have to move together or cancel it after some while.
Not only it takes very strong feelings and trust, but even so much of emotional energy and... yes, money, that you’ll be drained very soon of the most of it. And perhaps the worst thing is that you’ll end up talking to a ghost you are imagining, not to the real person, as he is too far away to be real for you.
So no, if there is no chance that two people can move together within some reasonable time – then it’s better for both of them not to start anything. Then again: miracles happen, though I personally wouldn’t put too much faith in that.
Pixels1: Yes I agree MC. Trust is one of several factors. How's your current LDR?
Oh, that Nijmegen guy? That's fine, he just has a niece that very pretty and he send me her picture.. and he planned to give me a Visa to Holland to visit him at this June.. we have talked about that, pray for me.. How about you? Haven't found one even for LDR? Pray for you also, sweety..
Ooops, why we talk on forum? Hmmm.. it's OK, this a thread for LDR
Yes can work and do work..the key ingrediences are trust,commitment and communication besides the love. And yes sooner or later one of will have to move but that you do in a normal relationship too, unless you keep two house holds.
onemoretry63: Yes can work and do work..the key ingrediences are trust,commitment and communication besides the love. And yes sooner or later one of will have to move but that you do in a normal relationship too, unless you keep two house holds.
I'm so agree with your opinion about the key ingrediences.. wish I'm lucky with my LDR..
Like everything else it requires a bit of work.
What is good for one is not necessarily good for another,but it can and has worked.
What is good for one is not necessarily good for another,but it can and has worked.
MeryChen: Oh, that Nijmegen guy? That's fine, he just has a niece that very pretty and he send me her picture.. and he planned to give me a Visa to Holland to visit him at this June.. we have talked about that, pray for me.. How about you? Haven't found one even for LDR? Pray for you also, sweety..
Ooops, why we talk on forum? Hmmm.. it's OK, this a thread for LDR
Ooops, why we talk on forum? Hmmm.. it's OK, this a thread for LDR
Ooops now I am confused - so.....Nijmegen back on
Maybe you can visit London enroute? I'll meet and greet ya jeepers: For me, it seems hard enough to mantain a short distance relationship. ( not that I've had any in a while )
I would think a LDR would be impossible.
I would think a LDR would be impossible.
What was I thinking that day ??
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