Do you prefer to remain lonely if u don't find what u want? (55)
claudya: Which is u opinion?
Just because a person is alone it doesnt mean they are lonely.
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Kalimera: Just because a person is alone it doesnt mean they are lonely.
Sorry ,I was referring at partner by life.
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claudya: Which is u opinion?
Yes.
I would prefer to be happy and alone, than to be in an unhappy relationship.
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Pete31: Yes.
I would prefer to be happy and alone, than to be in an unhappy relationship.
You have right to be lonely in two hurts more.I would prefer to be happy and alone, than to be in an unhappy relationship.
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Voted Yes. Better be on my own surrounded by good Friends, then in a relationship where I'm not happy just not to be on my own. Unhappy relationships can turn in Hell sometimes.
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Kalimera: Just because a person is alone it doesnt mean they are lonely.
Right on Kali.........
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claudya: You have right to be lonely in two hurts more.
this has been addressed many times here. I forget the exact saying, but it's something like: "No deeper despair than a lonely marriage". Yes, I would much rather be alone and lonely than with somebody and lonely. Perhaps some people would disagree with me, and for them, they could be right, but one can always get a dog. If not allowed, a parrot of some kind. Anybody out there ever have a person in their life they just wished would go somewhere else? What a hassle. Like freak flypaper, baby! I don't even think room mate situations are very good. Get a studio apartment. There is no palace big enough for two----- trust me.------ This poll is Archived ------
dvx_76: Voted . Unhappy relationships can turn in Hell sometimes.
Ya think?
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I'd much rather be lonely alone then with someone and still lonely.
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Do you prefer to remain lonely if u don't find what u want?
Single, yes.
Lonely, no.
Single, yes.
Lonely, no.
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claudya: Which is u opinion?
Sure do, that's why I am single. It's no fun being with somebody who does not make your heart sing. In fact, it feels even lonelier when you are with somebody just to be with somebody who does not connect with you. I've found being single can be a wonderful thing if the time is used efficiently to understand yourself better and finding meaning in your life that does not place a strong emphasis or infatuation with having to have a partner.
Being single does not necessarily mean that you are lonely. It's all a matter of perception and adapting. That is my experience.
Having said that, I'd love to have a girlfriend to experience intimacy and share my life with, but my happiness does not depend on it.
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StressFree: Sure do, that's why I am single. It's no fun being with somebody who does not make your heart sing. In fact, it feels even lonelier when you are with somebody just to be with somebody who does not connect with you. I've found being single can be a wonderful thing if the time is used efficiently to understand yourself better and finding meaning in your life that does not place a strong emphasis or infatuation with having to have a partner.
Being single does not necessarily mean that you are lonely. It's all a matter of perception and adapting. That is my experience.
Having said that, I'd love to have a girlfriend to experience intimacy and share my life with, but my happiness does not depend on it.
Being single does not necessarily mean that you are lonely. It's all a matter of perception and adapting. That is my experience.
Having said that, I'd love to have a girlfriend to experience intimacy and share my life with, but my happiness does not depend on it.
Very well said, SF!
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claudya: Which is u opinion?
Sure do, that's why I am single. It's no fun being with somebody who does not make your heart sing. In fact, it feels even lonelier when you are with somebody just to be with somebody who does not connect with you. I've found being single can be a wonderful thing if the time is used efficiently to understand yourself better and finding meaning in your life that does not place a strong emphasis or infatuation with having to have a partner.
Being single does not necessarily mean that you are lonely. It's all a matter of perception and adapting. That is my experience.
Having said that, I'd love to have a girlfriend to experience intimacy and share my life with, but my happiness does not depend on it.
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I prefer to remain alone than being with someone just for the sake of having a partner...but Im not lonely..
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Ooops...sorry for the double post. Stupid CS malfuntions
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I have to freely admit that I went through the male mid-life crisis of the fear of being alone forever and I made an error in judgement in settling for someone that I had a feeling wasn't right for me, but I was willing to try...to save this inherent fear of being alone.
I will NOT make that mistake ever again and will remain 'lonely' - although I prefer the word ALONE - if that is the way it turns out.
I will NOT make that mistake ever again and will remain 'lonely' - although I prefer the word ALONE - if that is the way it turns out.
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StressFree: Ooops...sorry for the double post. Stupid CS malfuntions
I figured you just repeated it because I said it was well-said...
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I TOTALLY AGREE!!
I am alone most of the time..but Im only lonely once in a while!
I am alone most of the time..but Im only lonely once in a while!
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claudya: Which is u opinion?
(1) You're erroneously assuming being single equates to being lonely. When one is desperate, that's the worst time to look for a relationship. You'll end up with someone who takes advantage of you.
(2) Even if someone is miserable, it's better to be single and miserable than be married and miserable. Single people don't have to deal with divorce, acrimony, or arguing about money, property or child custody.
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sweetowen: I figured you just repeated it because I said it was well-said...
Yeah-yeah sweetowen!
Thanks for the compliment and I know you share the same view sweety
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K_rational: (1) You're erroneously assuming being single equates to being lonely. When one is desperate, that's the worst time to look for a relationship. You'll end up with someone who takes advantage of you.
(2) Even if someone is miserable, it's better to be single and miserable than be married and miserable. Single people don't have to deal with divorce, acrimony, or arguing about money, property or child custody.
Having been in a marriage where I felt like the loneliest person on the planet, I'd much rather be alone and lonely - at least you're not being ignored and made miserable! Don't settle for anything but perfection people!!(2) Even if someone is miserable, it's better to be single and miserable than be married and miserable. Single people don't have to deal with divorce, acrimony, or arguing about money, property or child custody.
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I would remain alone...yes. But I am far from lonely...
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NebraskaNubee: I TOTALLY AGREE!!
I am alone most of the time..but Im only lonely once in a while!
I am alone most of the time..but Im only lonely once in a while!
What you said Nebraska!
We all get lonely sometimes but it helps to enjoy your own company first, then other peoples' then if we're lucky, Claudya. we find a special someone
sometimes when we least expect it
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No, I prefer to keep looking...
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Of crosyyyyyy
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I would prefer to be along than to settle I am so worth the wait and so I will wait for someone that feels the same loneliness is just a feeling that we will have to fight from time to time 
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OUTRAGEOUS: I would remain alone...yes. But I am far from lonely...
That one
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claudya: Which is u opinion?
i hope the OP meant 'alone' cause there's a difference between lonely and alone :)
I would definitly prefer to be by myself in terms of relationship, instead of having a bf/partner just for the sake of it.. I love me for who i am, with my flaws and virtues. My guy should complement me and not to complete me :)
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