Do you prefer to remain lonely if u don't find what u want? (55)
i would prefer to be alone ......
than be with someone and feel lonely.. i done it for yrs and i will never do it again...jmo..
than be with someone and feel lonely.. i done it for yrs and i will never do it again...jmo..
It is difficult to find someone who fully match with you & also It is hard to live alone forever,so what to do?
Find partner whose behaviour is close to you & must be patient at hard time.
Find partner whose behaviour is close to you & must be patient at hard time.
claudya: Which is u opinion?
well....I am alone AND lonely....and being lonely is forcing me to regret leaving my abusive ex...so yes, I would rather be miserable with someone than lonely/happy withoutWhen I cannot find what I want at one store, I simply go to another store..
Happiness67: Having been in a marriage where I felt like the loneliest person on the planet, I'd much rather be alone and lonely - at least you're not being ignored and made miserable! Don't settle for anything but perfection people!!
What role did YOU play?
You are only lonely if you want to be. I read what a certain person writes more than they realize.
I am alone and yet not alone. Just take a walk outside and no longer alone. Did my part in a not so good 2 year relationship. Will not rush if/when it happens again. 
I am alone and yet not alone. Just take a walk outside and no longer alone. Did my part in a not so good 2 year relationship. Will not rush if/when it happens again. HJFinAZ: What role did YOU play?
Why the obsession with blame? You ask that question a lot!
If a person ignores someone, it could just be that they are just on a bad half hour. Doesn't mean the second person is responsible for being ignored.
I love being alone... doesn't mean I'm lonely though...
If youcan't put up with your own self...........How do you expect others to.
patmac: If youcan't put up with your own self...........How do you expect others to.
Very true
rohaan: this has been addressed many times here. I forget the exact saying, but it's something like: "No deeper despair than a lonely marriage". Yes, I would much rather be alone and lonely than with somebody and lonely. Perhaps some people would disagree with me, and for them, they could be right, but one can always get a dog. If not allowed, a parrot of some kind. Anybody out there ever have a person in their life they just wished would go somewhere else? What a hassle. Like freak flypaper, baby! I don't even think room mate situations are very good. Get a studio apartment. There is no palace big enough for two----- trust me.
I agree - horrid to be married but feel totally alone....
won't do it again. This time Mr Right has to be Mr Absolutely Right
If I'm lonely there's a chance that's I've most likely have played a part in being lonely or alone.I've been told that it's the choices that I've probably made throughtout my life is some of the reason that I'm alone right now. I really don't know.
Yes ! By all means I would rather be alone if I can't find what I like. Why would I want to go through that nonsense again. 
gingerb: Why the obsession with blame? You ask that question a lot!
If a person ignores someone, it could just be that they are just on a bad half hour. Doesn't mean the second person is responsible for being ignored.
If a person ignores someone, it could just be that they are just on a bad half hour. Doesn't mean the second person is responsible for being ignored.
I wasn't blaming, I was asking a simple question.
Something so many people do not understand these days.
YES !!!
I WILL not compromise what i truly want from a relationship in the name of LOVE.
I WILL not compromise what i truly want from a relationship in the name of LOVE.
felixis99: I agree - horrid to be married but feel totally alone....
won't do it again. This time Mr Right has to be Mr Absolutely Right
won't do it again. This time Mr Right has to be Mr Absolutely Right
It will be a VERY LONG wait..
You yourself have said something to the effect that men are ALWAYS men..rohaan: this has been addressed many times here. I forget the exact saying, but it's something like: "No deeper despair than a lonely marriage". Yes, I would much rather be alone and lonely than with somebody and lonely. Perhaps some people would disagree with me, and for them, they could be right, but one can always get a dog. If not allowed, a parrot of some kind. Anybody out there ever have a person in their life they just wished would go somewhere else? What a hassle. Like freak flypaper, baby! I don't even think room mate situations are very good. Get a studio apartment. There is no palace big enough for two----- trust me.
I still say there are many that have no concept of love, not even when it is handed to them on a silver platter..
I want what I want, and if I cannot have it...
I want what I want, and if I cannot have it...
HJFinAZ: I still say there are many that have no concept of love, not even when it is handed to them on a silver platter..
I want what I want, and if I cannot have it...
I want what I want, and if I cannot have it...
I agree.I have to admit pat that at one time I've been gulity of wanting what I want and when I didn't I boohooed about.
Violins anyone.
No,I refuse to give up to loneliness.
claudya: Which is u opinion?
Kalimera: Just because a person is alone it doesnt mean they are lonely.
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Yes I want to find what I want and if I don't I still plan on enjoying life to the max. Don't know where people get the impression that if you're not wrapped up in a relationship that you're supposed to be living half a life. No way. I enjoy my own company, and while I would love to share that with someone , if I don't find them - well I still plan to have a damn great life.