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"If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her" (50)

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#21
Feb 8, 2008 1:34 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
KrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA3,978 posts
If a person is single, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with him/her. Not all relationships last forever (thank God). There are too many people that stay in bad/abusive relationships versus killing the bad person, jk.
I'm between relationships. Doesn't mean there's something wrong with me.
Have a great weekend all of u.wave
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#22
Feb 8, 2008 1:41 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
trulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand446 posts
agree.... something (lots) good about me that I won't settle for anything less.laugh
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#23
Feb 8, 2008 3:03 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
lusciousmile: You always say the right things....


laugh wave hug
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#24
Feb 8, 2008 3:06 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
fealicia: Oh I'm sorry I forgot to type the right word..

"IF A PERSON IS SINGLE, IT'S PROBABLY BECAUSE THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM/HER"


Ah, well, that slightly changes things...laugh roll eyes

Everyone's single at one point or another - and as one wise poster commented, it probably wouldn't be a good thing if you leaped uninterruptedly from relationship to relationship. One needs a bit of time for private self-reflection, no?wave Hi, Fealicia!
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#25
Feb 8, 2008 3:07 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
trulymadlydeeply: agree.... something (lots) good about me that I won't settle for anything less.


Hi, Trulymad!wave Does that mean someone would have to be crazy to fall for you?laugh wine
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#26
Feb 8, 2008 3:27 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
jodigirlsfree
jodigirlsfreejodigirlsfreeConway, South Carolina USA48 Threads 1,843 Posts
jodigirlsfreeConway, South Carolina USA1,843 posts
maybe..
a person is single because they divorced ...... due to
one spouse having a terminal illness and to avoid financial burden ... they together reached the decision that divorce was the only reasonable solution for the remaining partner???





sometimes divorce is agreeable to both parties involved and not related to problems within the marriage..sometimes becoming single following divorce is not due one person or the other having something wrong with them...JMHO......jodi....
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#27
Feb 8, 2008 3:51 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
CapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland137 posts
Didn't vote cuz i don't think there's a clear answer to this one!

But I do know that on average a woman finds a single man less attractive than a married man or a man in a relationship>

It's kinda the opposite with men, they find single women more attractive - but only if they're still friendly tho!
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#28
Feb 8, 2008 4:07 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
BornagainBiker
BornagainBikerBornagainBikerThatcham, Berkshire, England UK1 Posts
BornagainBikerThatcham, Berkshire, England UK1 posts
What a load of B.S. I am single through no fault of my own. I have never made unreasonable demands on a partner nor have I been unkind, cruel or violent I just refuse to be changed or moulded to suit I am me and you get what you see.
This, of course, assumes that being an indevidual is not something wrong.
If it is then "Guilty as charged"
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#29
Feb 8, 2008 4:24 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
CapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland137 posts
Personaly I don't think there is anything wrong with single people - provided it's not as a result of them harming others - either physically or emotionally.

I don't beleive people are single by choice - to say so is a state of denial, Maslow's hierarchy of needs states that love is a basic need third to only food and shelter. No man is an island...
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#30
Feb 8, 2008 4:27 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Indyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA18,150 posts
Hell, I know there's something wrong with me.....it couldn't be that 6 billion people are wrong crying
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#31
Feb 8, 2008 4:30 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
jodigirlsfree
jodigirlsfreejodigirlsfreeConway, South Carolina USA48 Threads 1,843 Posts
jodigirlsfreeConway, South Carolina USA1,843 posts
CapeDoctor: Personaly I don't think there is anything wrong with single people - provided it's not as a result of them harming others - either physically or emotionally.

I don't beleive people are single by choice - to say so is a state of denial, Maslow's hierarchy of needs states that love is a basic need third to only food and shelter. No man is an island...


thumbs up laugh
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#32
Feb 8, 2008 6:14 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
Indyfella: Hell, I know there's something wrong with me.....it couldn't be that 6 billion people are wrong


rolling on the floor laughing

I don't know, Indy. Anyhow, don't give up. I'm sure there's someone for you out ther somewhere (and I do mean "out there" - as in, extraplanetary. Some of the abducting space-alien girls, I hear, are quite fetching).laugh wave roll eyes
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#33
Feb 8, 2008 7:51 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Indyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA18,150 posts
Ambrose2007: I don't know, Indy. Anyhow, don't give up. I'm sure there's someone for you out ther somewhere (and I do mean "out there" - as in, extraplanetary. Some of the abducting space-alien girls, I hear, are quite fetching).



But hell....I even have aluminum foil wrapped around my head.....and I can't catch anyone crying
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#34
Feb 8, 2008 8:33 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
ampoule
ampouleampouleNorthwest, Indiana USA6 Threads 118 Posts
ampouleNorthwest, Indiana USA118 posts
I'm assuming you mean that something is WRONG with them? I disagree totally. People might be single for any number of reasons and like someone said at the beginning of the thread, that doesn't make them undesirable. Some people are very particular. I saw a thing on TV today that perhaps women should start 'settling'. I disagree with that also.
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#35
Feb 8, 2008 8:36 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
rwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA8,924 posts
At 42 years old and never married, I suppose I could be viewed as flawed in some way or another (or numerous ways, for that matter). Then again, around here in So Cal, I also have not been divorced for the fifth time.

I like being unique grin
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#36
Feb 8, 2008 8:38 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Indyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA18,150 posts
Women do settle the older they get.... rolling on the floor laughing
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#37
Feb 8, 2008 9:17 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
Indyfella: But hell....I even have aluminum foil wrapped around my head.....and I can't catch anyone


comfort hug

Wait - you did poke holes in the foil, didn't you? THEY like to see your eyes. wow laugh
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#38
Feb 8, 2008 9:18 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
rwantin: At 42 years old and never married, I suppose I could be viewed as flawed in some way or another (or numerous ways, for that matter). Then again, around here in So Cal, I also have not been divorced for the fifth time.

I like being unique


applause thumbs up handshake beer
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#39
Feb 8, 2008 9:24 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
rwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA8,924 posts
Evening Ambrose tip hat
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#40
Feb 8, 2008 9:26 PM CST "If a person is single, it's probably because there's something with him/her"
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
Zarahdublin, Dublin Ireland1,388 posts
I disagree....I am single and enjoy my life totally,
Yes I would share it in an instant if someone I truly wanted to be with come along but I am not really out there searching...
I have travelled extensively for 25 years and seen so many different things that have shaped me for who I am today..I would like to bring to a relationship rather than be in a position to take and I think after all this time I am ready...I am sure he will come along when the time is right...as for in the meantime, I value my friends wholeheartedly..and above all my own sacred time with me
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