He has to have intelligence first, for me. After all, most of the time people don't post photos. If he isn't intelligent, it doesn't matter to me how honest, loyal or humorous he is. But, alas, even if he is ALL those things and he doesn't appeal to me visually..........it's still all for naught! A very tricky balancing act, this "chemistry thing"!
screenangel: He has to have intelligence first, for me. After all, most of the time people don't post photos. If he isn't intelligent, it doesn't matter to me how honest, loyal or humorous he is. But, alas, even if he is ALL those things and he doesn't appeal to me visually..........it's still all for naught! A very tricky balancing act, this "chemistry thing"!
RIght. But if he or she isn't "loyal" or "honest," for example, what good is their intelligence (unless we're talking about merely the "entertainment factor" in a light relationship)?
Loyalty.. because if they are not loyal to you.. you are honestly not going to find much ot laugh about together.. no matter how good looking they are :)
j_goose: And if you ddn't pick #1, why don't you reply to the less attractive people?
I guess I'm not looking for anyone "loyal" or "honest" who doesn't ALSO appeal to me visually and intellectually. And if I want "entertainment", I turn on the TV....."light" relationships don't have entertainment appeal for me.
screenangel: I guess I'm not looking for anyone "loyal" or "honest" who doesn't ALSO appeal to me visually and intellectually. And if I want "entertainment", I turn on the TV....."light" relationships don't have entertainment appeal for me.
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