What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor? (48)

Feb 20, 2008 4:41 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
screenangel
screenangelscreenangelOrange Park, Florida USA7 Posts
He has to have intelligence first, for me. After all, most of the time people don't post photos. If he isn't intelligent, it doesn't matter to me how honest, loyal or humorous he is. But, alas, even if he is ALL those things and he doesn't appeal to me visually..........it's still all for naught! A very tricky balancing act, this "chemistry thing"!dancing
Feb 20, 2008 5:49 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Loyaltyinnocent
Feb 20, 2008 5:56 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
HONESTYhug
Feb 20, 2008 5:57 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Again, all these traits (in the whole package) equally matter.

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When i don't respond to less attractive (to me) people, i'm obviously doing them the favour of not getting hurt.

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Feb 20, 2008 5:57 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
without honesty then you have nothingwave
Feb 20, 2008 5:59 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Correction:[/size]
Again, all these traits (in the whole package) equally matter.

wine

When i don't respond to less attractive (to me) people, i'm obviously doing them the ultimate favour of not letting them get hurt.

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Feb 20, 2008 6:00 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
Ask Gillylaugh peace laugh
Feb 20, 2008 6:01 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Irishman1: Ask Gilly



I ask you professor
Feb 20, 2008 6:03 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
jaywill2013: 2,5,3,4,1 in that order of importance oh and somtimes y


Okay. 1) Looks, 2)humor, 3)intelligence, and 4) honesty.dunno laugh
Feb 20, 2008 6:05 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Ambrose2007: Okay. 1) Looks, 2)humor, 3)intelligence, and 4) honesty.


Nice arrangement there...wink


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Feb 20, 2008 6:07 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
twinself: A healthy mixture of 1-5...plus confidence. Not an easy combination to come across.. but not impossible to find. Never say Never!


Hey, Twin! NEver thought I'd see your enigmatic but stunning visage here! Welcome!wow wave laugh
Feb 20, 2008 6:09 PM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
screenangel: He has to have intelligence first, for me. After all, most of the time people don't post photos. If he isn't intelligent, it doesn't matter to me how honest, loyal or humorous he is. But, alas, even if he is ALL those things and he doesn't appeal to me visually..........it's still all for naught! A very tricky balancing act, this "chemistry thing"!


RIght. But if he or she isn't "loyal" or "honest," for example, what good is their intelligence (unless we're talking about merely the "entertainment factor" in a light relationship)?

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Feb 21, 2008 11:27 AM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
A bit of all
Feb 21, 2008 11:50 AM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
QuietStormF
QuietStormFQuietStormFSouthern Ontario, Ontario Canada25 Threads 610 Posts
Loyalty.. because if they are not loyal to you.. you are honestly not going to find much ot laugh about together.. no matter how good looking they are :)
j_goose: And if you ddn't pick #1, why don't you reply to the less attractive people?
doh doh
Feb 21, 2008 11:52 AM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
lusciousmile: Nice arrangement there...


You know me, Luscious. I like to emphasize relationship fundamentals.wink roll eyes
Mar 8, 2008 12:29 AM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
screenangel
screenangelscreenangelOrange Park, Florida USA7 Posts
I guess I'm not looking for anyone "loyal" or "honest" who doesn't ALSO appeal to me visually and intellectually. And if I want "entertainment", I turn on the TV....."light" relationships don't have entertainment appeal for me.
Mar 8, 2008 12:36 AM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Tiffanie: A bit of all


A great quote.

On any given day, the beautiful balance of just a bit....
Mar 8, 2008 12:39 AM CST What's most important, good looks, honesty, loyalty, or humor?
Rebgore
RebgoreRebgorecircle pines, Minnesota USA1 Threads 80 Posts
screenangel: I guess I'm not looking for anyone "loyal" or "honest" who doesn't ALSO appeal to me visually and intellectually. And if I want "entertainment", I turn on the TV....."light" relationships don't have entertainment appeal for me.
I agree with you. I need the magic and laughter.applause wave head banger
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