Your 16yr old daughter comes to you pregnant.. (62)

oh wait you want breakfast duty when they can use a spoon..........those were some of the best times for me and my oldest..................noone else was up that early(anywhere between 4 and 6)and we'd talk and laugh and have fun. damn ok now i'm gonna go over there and

hahaha

Awwww

don't cry .. not without great reason anyway..

::pokes Amy in the eye::




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The things we do for love

WITCH!!!! you know i have great reason without a poke

:::dons patch pirate style:::

yip yip

:::TWANGS it :::

oh man she's on a roll tonite

Was... im fading fast.. its horrible o'clock.. and I need to get to bed.

awww poor widdle girlie
and i hardly ever see you anymore

I know.. .. Like ships in the niiiiiiiiight


(im eating crabsticks btw- want a kiss?)

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ummmmm have to say i pass..................but ty kindly

hahaha

Right.. now me and my tissues (for my runny nose.. - I'm not SHIP!) are off to bed..

My feet are cold.. the deaf blind cat is on my bed.. I have to clean my lascivious crab stick breath.. and I have to be up in 5hrs..

It's going to take me 4.75hrs to get rid of the crab stick breath

aww poor girlie

ummmmmm good luck with all that talk soon

Claire, I think you'd be too much fun to hang out with in person...lol

In answer to the poll....I don't have daughters, just sons. Realistically, I don't think I'll ever know if they've made me a grandma....

But...
If this was back a few years, when they still talked with me, I'd probably meet with the girls parents & both the kids & discuss the situation and see what we came up with. If she decided to keep the baby, then my son would do what he could to help support the baby and would take his turn in taking care of it.

I will let you do the math, my daughter is 29, I am 46.
her birthday is Sept 25th- mine is Sept 28th.

I would strongly advise her of what drastic changes were going to happen in her life is she was to have this child,
I would also strongly suggest adoption, but in the end it would be her choice after being well informed.

the only good thing about starting so young is that my kids are grown while I am still young.
But was not at all fair to the kids to have kids for parants.

Thankfully I didn't have to cross that bridge. Way before my daughter was 16, around 14 when her first friends at school were getting knoked up and the grandmothers were raising grandchildren, I told her if she got pregant she better make sure the boy could support them, or give it up for adoption, cause I wasn't going to raise a baby, if I'd wanted one I'd have had one myself. We got lucky, she didn't get pregnant in high school.

Then when she was 21 she did get pregnant, and I knew I was going to end up raising it, she was living with the daddy but he was a useless scumbag. She lost that one though, I have to believe it was God's will cause neither of us were in any position to raise a child. I'm just so happy that she has a good husband and a good home to raise one in now, and she's mature enough to handle it.

There's really no way to answer a question like this ahead of time, you never know what you'll do until you're faced with it. You just have to do the best you can.