sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
Swissblueeyes: I dont think its fair to expect someone to love you no matter if you have zero goals, lazy and dont work or live far away and expect them to pay thousands in airfair to see you or if you dont care about your appearance ect..You have to love yourself first before you can expect someone to love you..Including respect. Just my opinion but thats how I see it.
Thank you..I wouldnt be being honest if I said all I need is just any guy to love me. Im kinda thinking the op assumes all women should be desperate and just take anyone.? maybe Im wrong but that is how his thread sounds.
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
Swissblueeyes: Thank you..I wouldnt be being honest if I said all I need is just any guy to love me. Im kinda thinking the op assumes all women should be desperate and just take anyone.? maybe Im wrong but that is how his thread sounds.
That's how it sounds to me too ! I share the same view, just wanting just anyone to love you is DESPERATION to me and I am certainly not that .
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
wildprotector: ... These days, LOVE is a lonely word. People say they want honesty, loyalty, etc... but if and when they find it, they start asking about his/her age, job, nationality, distance, etc etc..thinhs that are all physical, and have nothing to do with love.
I wish you all love..
Didnt do anything, it just happened, sneaked up on me and wam. Can't explain it
Swissblueeyes: Thank you..I wouldnt be being honest if I said all I need is just any guy to love me. Im kinda thinking the op assumes all women should be desperate and just take anyone.? maybe Im wrong but that is how his thread sounds.
sultryash: but those reasons dont make you unfit to date Dave ! the important thing is to be honest about yourself ...
but that is what swiss is saying ,isn't it?..this is how good men run away, leaving the ground for rich and good looking.. and that's why we have so many heart broken gals
wildprotector: ... These days, LOVE is a lonely word. People say they want honesty, loyalty, etc... but if and when they find it, they start asking about his/her age, job, nationality, distance, etc etc..thinhs that are all physical, and have nothing to do with love.
wildprotector: but that is what swiss is saying ,isn't it?..this is how good men run away, leaving the ground for rich and good looking.. and that's why we have so many heart broken gals
Swissblueeyes: I dont think its fair to expect someone to love you no matter if you have zero goals, lazy and dont work or live far away and expect them to pay thousands in airfair to see you or if you dont care about your appearance ect..You have to love yourself first before you can expect someone to love you..Including respect. Just my opinion but thats how I see it.
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
wildprotector: but that is what swiss is saying ,isn't it?..this is how good men run away, leaving the ground for rich and good looking.. and that's why we have so many heart broken gals
my comment is directly linked to the individual i quoted because i know what he is talking about............nothing to do with what swiss said ..sorry if i confused you
Wrong...all factors decide how we have developed our personalities over the years. How can you say age has nothing to do with love...My teenage years were in the 60's..very exciting time to be witness to a world changing decade. Nationality...my goodness: it is all about culture of each nation. Job...your personal ambitions, desires or lack of desire. Every aspect in one lives plays a role in how we develop as individuals. These things are not physical attributes as in hair colour. All these "things" are the inner soul. It is what makes us tick...I would like to find someone whose soul is close to mine own. Their eye colour is not important. Physically we all have different preferences...we prefer....doesn't mean I wouldn't become interested in someone outside that range. Yes, I want someone whom dresses nicely and care about the personal appearance. etc.etc.etc. But more importantly I want someone with soul.
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