So you are a commitmentphobiac? (198)
time4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 PostsSwissblueeyes: im only afraid of a relationship with a mr wrong.
What have you got againsr chinese men?
time4fun4u: What have you got againsr chinese men?
lol..i know your joking but i said mr wrong not mr wong.. Swissblueeyes: lol..i know your joking but i said mr wrong not mr wong..
Its just me being daft as normal.Hello gorgeous 
time4fun4u: Its just me being daft as normal.Hello gorgeous
hi handsome..
Laura25: Why?
commitmentphobiac? absolutely not, laura! let me just find a compatible partner for me. as soon as i find her, i will marry her within a day..i will deflower her the second day...and on the third day, she will proudly announce her pregnancy
Laura25: Why?
Well, when it comes to the relationships, I have learned to be as committed as the other person is, no more no less:)
Karma10: Well, when it comes to the relationships, I have learned to be as committed as the other person is, no more no less:)
how do u measure that 'no more, no less' thing?
mnowsa: how do u measure that 'no more, no less' thing?
Well, if you are a sensitive bt a practical person, you get that inkling within..how far you should be committed and for what purpose:) It's a simple ratio...and I have learned it frm men only:)
Karma10: Well, if you are a sensitive bt a practical person, you get that inkling within..how far you should be committed and for what purpose:) It's a simple ratio...and I have learned it frm men only:)
wow..ok. i guess someday soon we will read a book titled 'calculated relationship in a simple ratio: 101'
I fear they will die on me, I know it's inevitable, people die.
I know it stems from childhood. When I was 4 years old best friend that I was going to marry was hit by a car and killed.
Fear is fear, no matter how irrational it may appear. At least I know where it comes from, just can't let it get the best of me anymore.
I know it stems from childhood. When I was 4 years old best friend that I was going to marry was hit by a car and killed.
Fear is fear, no matter how irrational it may appear. At least I know where it comes from, just can't let it get the best of me anymore.
invinciblemuse: Nope, I'm not a commitment phobe. All past issues have been resolved, I'm good and ready to go...
Your confidence is very refreshing, Muse.
Hope you are the next CS success story.
I know, a lot would depend on the other party... but still - we usually choose a completable person (meaning *he* won't be a phobe as well).
I might be wrong, wouldn't be for the first time.
time4fun4u: What have you got againsr chinese men?
After two marriages going down the drain, I won't get married again. The only commitment I'll make is to a LTR.
They say the third time is the charm.
They also say, three strikes and you're out. I have no wish to see a third strike
They say the third time is the charm.
They also say, three strikes and you're out. I have no wish to see a third strike
sasyecats: I fear they will die on me, I know it's inevitable, people die.
I know it stems from childhood. When I was 4 years old best friend that I was going to marry was hit by a car and killed.
Fear is fear, no matter how irrational it may appear. At least I know where it comes from, just can't let it get the best of me anymore.
I know it stems from childhood. When I was 4 years old best friend that I was going to marry was hit by a car and killed.
Fear is fear, no matter how irrational it may appear. At least I know where it comes from, just can't let it get the best of me anymore.
yep...u have no right to deprive a man from your love
mnowsa: wow..ok. i guess someday soon we will read a book titled 'calculated relationship in a simple ratio: 101'
I don't think Karma is a calculated person as you imply, Mnowsa.
I believe what she is saying is the same as very common sayings
"relationship should be 50/50" or "relationship is a two way street", etc., etc..
mnowsa: yep...u have no right to deprive a man from your love
Thanks, I'm feeling a little deprived too.
I cant even commit myself to answering this post
Swissblueeyes: im only afraid of a relationship with a mr wrong.
hmmmmmmmmm.... Would you date Mr. Wrong until Mr. Right(er) comes along? Hi Swiss, good to see you.
i'm a prison phobiac
time4fun4u: I cant even commit myself to answering this post
there must be something you are committed to, 4X4?
CS flirting?
plainlyjune: i'm a prison phobiac
You stand no chance for this fantasy to come true, June.I am not afraid of commitment...Like most of the others, it all hedges on finding the right one willing to follow the same path ...It will never work otherwise.....
Karma10: Well, when it comes to the relationships, I have learned to be as committed as the other person is, no more no less:)
That's how it should be (in theory)...
What is you are madly in love with this not-so-committed person?
faded_dino: I am not afraid of commitment...Like most of the others, it all hedges on finding the right one willing to follow the same path ...It will never work otherwise.....
True
Laura25: I don't think Karma is a calculated person as you imply, Mnowsa.
I believe what she is saying is the same as very common sayings
"relationship should be 50/50" or "relationship is a two way street", etc., etc..
I believe what she is saying is the same as very common sayings
"relationship should be 50/50" or "relationship is a two way street", etc., etc..
ok...fair enough. come on ladies! i am here to give my share of 50% to build a relationship. now, i want a lady to share her 50% to build that relationship. so how does that sound?
sasyecats: Thanks, I'm feeling a little deprived too.
hmmmm..perhaps u didn't really ask for it hard enough?
Laura25: You stand no chance for this fantasy to come true, June.
i'm so messed up. 
Raynew1959: After two marriages going down the drain, I won't get married again. The only commitment I'll make is to a LTR.
They say the third time is the charm.
They also say, three strikes and you're out. I have no wish to see a third strike
They say the third time is the charm.
They also say, three strikes and you're out. I have no wish to see a third strike
Ouch, Ray...
As long as both are aware that there is no marriage in a future and both are happy with LTR, I don't see a problem.
Making one's intentions clear is the key (IMO).
Well, I'm not afraid of commitment... The problem that I have is that I seem to be magnet for the losers or screwballs whatever they are call these days.
Laura25: That's how it should be (in theory)...
What is you are madly in love with this not-so-committed person?
What is you are madly in love with this not-so-committed person?
I have simply realized within myself...whatever will be will be, if it is meant to be...dear
..in any case when you run after somebody..they run ahead of you...so it is better to run ahead of them instead...:)
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