So you are a commitmentphobiac? (198)

Nov 23, 2010 10:58 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
No me....women do seem commitmentphobic towards me though...uh oh

Hey Laura!!wave bouquet
Nov 23, 2010 11:00 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Ambrose2007: I'm not commitmentphobic, either, but it would require an act of god to make me commit to anyone (perhaps making it an act of Dionysus would improve my chances?).
laugh wave

Nice seeing you Jeff. Hope you are well my friend.
Nov 23, 2010 11:02 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
mbcasey: No me....women do seem commitmentphobic towards me though...

Hey Laura!!


Wrong women.

Hello, Ken wave



teddybear
Nov 23, 2010 11:13 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Laura25: Wrong women.

Hello, Ken
laugh

No, I was the wrong man...laugh sigh

Oh well, back to the stag line....dancing
Nov 23, 2010 11:14 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
JAN_is: I believe I am. Everything I choose to do I commit myself fully to make it work, whether it´s relationships or work.

To prove my point, I was married for 25 years, then divorced, and remarried a year later, though that turned out to be taking commitment a bit too far as we divorced again after a year!

I don´t like to get things wrong, so I try to put heart and soul in whatever it is I´m trying to achieve. Perhaps that´s not always such a positive thing to do though.


That's one serious commitment, Jan.

Impressed.

I have two friends (a couple) who were married to each-other (and divorced) 3 times. Not a low-life type of people - both educated, very intelligent and gorgeous-looking.

Couldn't live together, could live without each other... dunno

And they had one child in the midst of it all (in a first round of marriage laugh laugh )
Nov 23, 2010 11:15 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
mbcasey:

No, I was the wrong man...

Oh well, back to the stag line....


Don't believe it for a sec.
Nov 23, 2010 11:19 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Im sure that one day i will be won round..grin
Nov 23, 2010 11:24 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
scottyburd: Im sure that one day i will be won round..


I am sure it will happen and when it does, the guy will be lucky to have someone like you...hug
Nov 23, 2010 11:25 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Laura25: Don't believe it for a sec.


You are just too kind beautiful lady!!teddybear
Nov 23, 2010 11:27 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
mbcasey: I am sure it will happen and when it does, the guy will be lucky to have someone like you...


Ken wave

Thats a real nice thing to say,right now a 24/7 relationship frightens the life out of me..laugh
I hope all is well with you..bouquet
Nov 23, 2010 11:31 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
scottyburd: Ken

Thats a real nice thing to say,right now a 24/7 relationship frightens the life out of me..
I hope all is well with you..


Good thing about relationships is you can set the pace. Something nice and slow in the beginning so you get use to being around each other and see how weird you both are...laugh
Nov 23, 2010 11:33 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
mbcasey: Good thing about relationships is you can set the pace. Something nice and slow in the beginning so you get use to being around each other and see how weird you both are...


I agree with you there laugh hug
Nov 23, 2010 4:38 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
Hiya Laura! wave Long time since I've been on. Guess I have to say I'm not worried about commitment since I became engaged this past Saturday. grin Hope everything has been sunshine and roses for ya!wine
Nov 23, 2010 4:43 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
woody636: Hiya Laura! Long time since I've been on. Guess I have to say I'm not worried about commitment since I became engaged this past Saturday. Hope everything has been sunshine and roses for ya!


I don't know you but mes felicitations.

C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S!
Nov 23, 2010 4:48 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
equiya: I don't know you but mes felicitations.

C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S!



Thx! wine Met her on POF. Got lucky!
Nov 23, 2010 4:51 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
woody636: Hiya Laura! Long time since I've been on. Guess I have to say I'm not worried about commitment since I became engaged this past Saturday. Hope everything has been sunshine and roses for ya!


How wonderful!! applause cheering

The best news I've heard on CS in ages!

Congratulations. wine

So very happy for you, Woody. For both of you - whoever the lucky lady is. thumbs up




W O W grin


yay
Nov 23, 2010 4:52 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
woody636: Hiya Laura! Long time since I've been on. Guess I have to say I'm not worried about commitment since I became engaged this past Saturday. Hope everything has been sunshine and roses for ya!


Congratulations Woody. I remember you from way back. wave
Nov 23, 2010 5:02 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
Laura25: How wonderful!!

The best news I've heard on CS in ages!

Congratulations.

So very happy for you, Woody. For both of you - whoever the lucky lady is.

W O W


Thx Laura! Fate, luck, whatever; not going to question it. Just enjoying every single minute!
Nov 23, 2010 5:03 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
Thx Jan! Yeah, remember you too. Hope everything has been great in your life. wine
Nov 23, 2010 10:11 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
thewall2: A woman in my case..lol

Why ...you don't think I can be loveable?


I think you are lovable, Wall, but I don't know you all that well,

hence I make no assumptions...


wave
Nov 23, 2010 10:13 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
woody636: Thx Laura! Fate, luck, whatever; not going to question it. Just enjoying every single minute!


Grab it and don't let go. thumbs up


grin Good luck to you, guys... heart wings heart wings
Nov 23, 2010 10:19 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
cristina: No, just need a guy who can come up with more demands than mine. Kinda organized, structured, boring yet active. Know what I mean?


uh oh no....



laugh laugh Yes, I know what you mean, Cris, you need a guy which doesn't exist in nature... tongue


hug
Nov 23, 2010 10:23 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
mbcasey: Nice seeing you Jeff. Hope you are well my friend.


Hey, Ken! hug Hanging in there, buddy, hanging in there. heart wings
Nov 23, 2010 11:45 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
woody636: Hiya Laura! Long time since I've been on. Guess I have to say I'm not worried about commitment since I became engaged this past Saturday. Hope everything has been sunshine and roses for ya!


Woody!!!! Great news about your engagement!!yay

Almost as good as the Bear's 7-3 record....laugh

Great to see you again and I wish you the best...handshake
Nov 24, 2010 12:39 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Laura25: I think you are lovable, Wall, but I don't know you all that well,

hence I make no assumptions...




ONLY WHEN THINGS GO MY WAY...which is not often.wave
Nov 24, 2010 12:54 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Laura25: Hmmmm... interesting. It's usually commitmentphobics who are prone to such self-destructive behavior -- walking out on their partner.


Isn't that the truth! Or asking every day if you've changed your mind yet blues (like they can't see that you're not changing your mind and, on the contrary, are very much enjoying being with them) and due to that not giving their heart to you (what if you DO walk out on them, eh?).
Nov 24, 2010 1:19 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Well, When I am 50, and Havnt met My Lifetime Mate Yet, What are the odds of finding Her Now????

Well I guess their is still time, I am Only Half Way thru Lifedancing grin
Nov 24, 2010 9:52 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Well, When I am 50, and Havnt met My Lifetime Mate Yet, What are the odds of finding Her Now????

Well I guess their is still time, I am Only Half Way thru Life


Amen wine
Nov 24, 2010 9:55 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
UpYourViva
UpYourVivaUpYourVivaBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK7 Threads 387 Posts
people say i'm scared of commitment, but I really can't commit to that idea...........banana banana
Nov 24, 2010 10:02 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
LuvTravl
LuvTravlLuvTravlIndianapolis, Indiana USA44 Posts
Gosh...the way I see it...if we're afraid of commitment, we're thinking too much about tomorrow. We all know that life is right now. Nothing else is guaranteed. Funny we still do this even though many of us have been through divorces, other loss. All we have is right now and you can only commit in the present tense.

At least that's what I believe....
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