So you are a commitmentphobiac? (198)

Nov 22, 2010 10:47 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
sasyecats
sasyecatssasyecatsCarroll, Iowa USA15 Threads 3 Polls 1,263 Posts
mnowsa: hmmmm..perhaps u didn't really ask for it hard enough?


You may be right.
Nov 22, 2010 10:47 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
mnowsa: ok...fair enough. come on ladies! i am here to give my share of 50% to build a relationship. now, i want a lady to share her 50% to build that relationship. so how does that sound?


Ok, make fun all you wish,

but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?

And if you would, would you be happy?

hmmm


grin


popcorn
Nov 22, 2010 10:49 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Karma10
Karma10Karma10Budapest, Central Hungary Hungary1 Threads 954 Posts
Laura25: I don't think Karma is a calculated person as you imply, Mnowsa.

I believe what she is saying is the same as very common sayings

"relationship should be 50/50" or "relationship is a two way street", etc., etc..


You got me:)thumbs up wine
Nov 22, 2010 10:49 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
mnowsa: commitmentphobiac? absolutely not, laura! let me just find a compatible partner for me. as soon as i find her, i will marry her within a day..i will deflower her the second day...and on the third day, she will proudly announce her pregnancy


cool


grin Cheers! cheers
Nov 22, 2010 10:50 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Karma10: I have simply realized within myself...whatever will be will be, if it is meant to be...dear..in any case when you run after somebody..they run ahead of you...so it is better to run ahead of them instead...:)


laugh laugh


head banger
Nov 22, 2010 10:52 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
robsantiago15: Well, I'm not afraid of commitment... The problem that I have is that I seem to be magnet for the losers or screwballs whatever they are call these days.


That would be most of us... laugh uh oh help















(j/k)
Nov 22, 2010 10:53 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Karma10
Karma10Karma10Budapest, Central Hungary Hungary1 Threads 954 Posts
Laura25: Ok, make fun all you wish,

but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?

And if you would, would you be happy?


Everyone knows that somethings you don't have to say but just feel, how it's suppose to be..and how it's going...:) so that is how it goes with this 50-50 comment..honey.professor conversing wine
Nov 22, 2010 10:53 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
sasyecats: You may be right.


ok..kool! now please get on your knees and ask for some love from me.blushing
Nov 22, 2010 10:53 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA11 Threads 713 Posts
Laura25: Ok, make fun all you wish,

but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?

And if you would, would you be happy?
Why not a 3-way? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 22, 2010 10:54 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
plainlyjune: i'm so messed up.


You?? I don't even know how to react to this statement, June.

Would *LOL* be OK? dunno
Nov 22, 2010 10:56 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
robsantiago15: Why not a 3-way?


Hmmmm...

Let me sleep on it... laugh
Nov 22, 2010 11:03 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Laura25: Ok, make fun all you wish,

but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?

And if you would, would you be happy?


ok..this is how i look at it. i am not really going to jump into a relationship after making any calculation. I will go into a relationship with a very positive frame of mind, meaning i will do everything to make this relationship successful, and that if my partner will also TRY her best to do the same. Now, if i find that she is falling short, i will simply think that she just can't do any more than what she has offered or done. In other words, i am not going to STUDY about her inabilities/failings, but rather i will study about her contribution no matter how 'little' it may be. I will approach this whole relationship thing in terms of no two person are equally capable , and one will always fall short of the otherhandshake
Nov 22, 2010 11:04 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Karma10
Karma10Karma10Budapest, Central Hungary Hungary1 Threads 954 Posts
Laura25: Hmmmm...

Let me sleep on it...
thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep sleep
Nov 22, 2010 11:06 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
sasyecats
sasyecatssasyecatsCarroll, Iowa USA15 Threads 3 Polls 1,263 Posts
mnowsa: ok..kool! now please get on your knees and ask for some love from me.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 22, 2010 11:08 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
I'm makin NO promises to any woman ever again ! doh talk to hand
Nov 22, 2010 11:09 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Laura25: there must be something you are committed to, 4X4? CS flirting?
I am committed to tracking you down,taking you in my arms and making passionate love to you!

Whos a flirt?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing bouquet teddybear
Nov 22, 2010 11:09 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Karma10: Everyone knows that somethings you don't have to say but just feel, how it's suppose to be..and how it's going...:) so that is how it goes with this 50-50 comment..honey.



50-50,confused

I think 100-100 is the best...why give half when you can give all?teddybear
Nov 22, 2010 11:11 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
I would not go so far as to say I am commitment phobic, but, I would say that any of us that has been in a failed relationship before will exercise more caution and be more mindful and careful in the future.

I believe in living in the here and now, don't dwell in the past and am willing to give another person a chance, if I didn't I'd be a hypocrite and not ready to welcome someone new into my life.
Nov 22, 2010 11:13 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Laura25: So you are a commitmentphobiac?


No, not phobia for commitment.

hug
Nov 22, 2010 11:14 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
Hello Darling Laura, i read your thread this morning, but still be busy then cant reply your thread, i will read it carefully, then reply you, just like to say to you " hv a good day, luv darlin very much ", laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing bouquet hug wine grin smitten
Nov 22, 2010 11:15 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
lifeisadream: No, not phobia for commitment.
Beautiful picture.bouquet
Nov 22, 2010 11:19 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
time4fun4u: Beautiful picture.


Thanks 16! (4X4)
Happiness is in that picture, from my son's wedding party.

hug
Nov 22, 2010 11:20 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
angel
Nov 22, 2010 11:20 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
lifeisadream: Thanks 16! (4X4)
Happiness is in that picture, from my son's wedding party.
You look proud and radiant.Good luck to himbouquet
Nov 22, 2010 11:25 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
time4fun4u: You look proud and radiant.Good luck to him


Mr. Kind and Handsome.

I took a shower that is why I look radiant grin
and Proud I am for my children, always.

Thanks for your wish to my son, he is really happy with his great and lovely wife, they both are.

wink
Nov 22, 2010 11:26 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
lifeisadream: Mr. Kind and Handsome.

I took a shower that is why I look radiant
and Proud I am for my children, always.

Thanks for your wish to my son, he is really happy with his great and lovely wife, they both are.
bouquet wine
Nov 22, 2010 11:31 AM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
My record/past speaks for itself..professor
Ladies,
I have NO problem with committing ..
hell.. married and divorced five times..
If a gal looks at me right..
Doll-Face you got yourself a husband..hug
nahhh.. committing is not a problem for me..
it's the sticking with it that I have difficulties..moping

nerd ---SoldierByte---typing
Nov 22, 2010 12:07 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
Laura25: Why?
who?
meee?
just lazyyyyyyyyyyy
hug
bouquet
Nov 22, 2010 4:28 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
SoldierByte: My record/past speaks for itself..
Ladies,
I have NO problem with committing ..
hell.. married and divorced five times..
If a gal looks at me right..
Doll-Face you got yourself a husband..
nahhh.. committing is not a problem for me..
it's the sticking with it that I have difficulties..
---SoldierByte---


laugh ...records don't lie professor - a real deal.


Incurable romantic? grin cheers
Nov 22, 2010 4:28 PM CST So you are a commitmentphobiac?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
jvaski: I'm makin NO promises to any woman ever again !


thumbs up

Promises-promises... wink blushing
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