mnowsa: ok...fair enough. come on ladies! i am here to give my share of 50% to build a relationship. now, i want a lady to share her 50% to build that relationship. so how does that sound?
Ok, make fun all you wish,
but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?
mnowsa: commitmentphobiac? absolutely not, laura! let me just find a compatible partner for me. as soon as i find her, i will marry her within a day..i will deflower her the second day...and on the third day, she will proudly announce her pregnancy
Karma10: I have simply realized within myself...whatever will be will be, if it is meant to be...dear..in any case when you run after somebody..they run ahead of you...so it is better to run ahead of them instead...:)
robsantiago15: Well, I'm not afraid of commitment... The problem that I have is that I seem to be magnet for the losers or screwballs whatever they are call these days.
but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?
And if you would, would you be happy?
Everyone knows that somethings you don't have to say but just feel, how it's suppose to be..and how it's going...:) so that is how it goes with this 50-50 comment..honey.
but tell us - would you stay in a one-way-street relationship?
And if you would, would you be happy?
ok..this is how i look at it. i am not really going to jump into a relationship after making any calculation. I will go into a relationship with a very positive frame of mind, meaning i will do everything to make this relationship successful, and that if my partner will also TRY her best to do the same. Now, if i find that she is falling short, i will simply think that she just can't do any more than what she has offered or done. In other words, i am not going to STUDY about her inabilities/failings, but rather i will study about her contribution no matter how 'little' it may be. I will approach this whole relationship thing in terms of no two person are equally capable , and one will always fall short of the other
Karma10: Everyone knows that somethings you don't have to say but just feel, how it's suppose to be..and how it's going...:) so that is how it goes with this 50-50 comment..honey.
50-50,
I think 100-100 is the best...why give half when you can give all?
I would not go so far as to say I am commitment phobic, but, I would say that any of us that has been in a failed relationship before will exercise more caution and be more mindful and careful in the future.
I believe in living in the here and now, don't dwell in the past and am willing to give another person a chance, if I didn't I'd be a hypocrite and not ready to welcome someone new into my life.
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
Hello Darling Laura, i read your thread this morning, but still be busy then cant reply your thread, i will read it carefully, then reply you, just like to say to you " hv a good day, luv darlin very much ",
My record/past speaks for itself.. Ladies, I have NO problem with committing .. hell.. married and divorced five times.. If a gal looks at me right.. Doll-Face you got yourself a husband.. nahhh.. committing is not a problem for me.. it's the sticking with it that I have difficulties.. ---SoldierByte---
SoldierByte: My record/past speaks for itself.. Ladies, I have NO problem with committing .. hell.. married and divorced five times.. If a gal looks at me right.. Doll-Face you got yourself a husband.. nahhh.. committing is not a problem for me.. it's the sticking with it that I have difficulties.. ---SoldierByte---
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