You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
well i would say it depends one what the complications are in the other persons live..if they would interfere with having more then a friendship..then maybe wait..if not ..keep as friend but look else where for a relationship..JMO
Yes I feel if this person wants no comittment, then You only have a penpal, and they clearly told you they arent wanting committment, Then Yes walk on, you seem to be waisting you life at a stop sign, sorry, but been there, done that, You have nothing in my opinion...
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
I would find someone who not only clicked but is "ready" for a relationship..Might end the friendship with the one who isnt ready or just stay friends.
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
I would probably give it about 6 months ...... because in that time you can learn about a person, without the pressure. Friendship is a great base to start a relationship. Sometimes I think we try to rush ahead too fast. As well, though, I'd probably continue dating others - you don't want to put your life on hold because someone else can't make up their mind. It can get complicated and I've had times in life where the last thought was dating ......... so I get where they are coming from. Good luck.
JeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA815 posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
I don't think you can put a number on anything like this. I've no personal experience of anything like this. I have only been involved with men who were totally free. I think that's the best policy. Don't get involved with someone who is not free, body and soul.
Feb 7, 2011 11:45 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
langleygirl: I would probably give it about 6 months ...... because in that time you can learn about a person, without the pressure. Friendship is a great base to start a relationship. Sometimes I think we try to rush ahead too fast. As well, though, I'd probably continue dating others - you don't want to put your life on hold because someone else can't make up their mind. It can get complicated and I've had times in life where the last thought was dating ......... so I get where they are coming from. Good luck.
I think, then you can move on straight
don't believe that that let grow trust, if the other person just still needs time...
but anyway, I just would move on
as if they are not sure about yet, they never will
I forgot to add the part about it being a LDR. We met one time about eight months ago, and we have be on the web cam every night almost for about one and a half years or so.
iamwhoiamyousee, I agree with you, there are complications, and these are probably not going to change anytime soon. She just doesn't want to make plans to have them not work out. Good for her, but damn !
langleygirl: I would probably give it about 6 months ...... because in that time you can learn about a person, without the pressure. Friendship is a great base to start a relationship. Sometimes I think we try to rush ahead too fast. As well, though, I'd probably continue dating others - you don't want to put your life on hold because someone else can't make up their mind. It can get complicated and I've had times in life where the last thought was dating ......... so I get where they are coming from. Good luck.
I know. How about any nice, freaky lady's ( hot of course, in a cool way ) who wants to wait for me until I stop waiting on her let me know and I'll see what happens. I scare myself at times.
hmm move on if its been awhile and its not reciprocated and you told them how you feel fo rme its never gonna be just saying is all i wouldnt waste my time lifes to short
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
When you find the right person, time does not matter.
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