How long is long enough to wait ? ( Archived) (33)

Feb 7, 2011 5:33 AM CSTHow long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas, USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts

How long is long enough to wait ?(Vote Below)

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two hours
12
21%
one week
11
19%
two weeks
4
7%
one month
8
14%
six months
8
14%
one year
7
12%
until one of you dies
7
12%
Total Votes
57
You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?


help
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Feb 7, 2011 5:41 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?


Just move on.It's not worth it.
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Feb 7, 2011 5:46 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
iamwhoiamyousee
iamwhoiamyouseeiamwhoiamyouseeanywhere, Bavaria Germany18 Threads 2 Polls 962 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?


well i would say it depends one what the complications are in the other persons live..if they would interfere with having more then a friendship..then maybe wait..if not ..keep as friend but look else where for a relationship..JMO
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Feb 7, 2011 5:51 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
Yes I feel if this person wants no comittment, then You only have a penpal, and they clearly told you they arent wanting committment, Then Yes walk on, you seem to be waisting you life at a stop sign, sorry, but been there, done that, You have nothing in my opinion... sad flower
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Feb 7, 2011 6:01 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
move on dont wait for anyone!handshake
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Feb 7, 2011 6:08 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
wanaaa
wanaaawanaaaVejle, South Denmark Denmark23 Posts
Can't vote on this...two hours is way to long for saying good bye..
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Feb 7, 2011 10:17 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
I would find someone who not only clicked but is "ready" for a relationship..Might end the friendship with the one who isnt ready or just stay friends.
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Feb 7, 2011 10:40 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
it depends on what you want I guess..

if you want a long term thing, and this person is not ready for it now...move on.

but if you are not sure yourself, then wait a while and move on if you feel it's time to move.


good luck.
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Feb 7, 2011 10:43 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Only wait till you are sure or not, if you love them you will wait until all hope is gonegrin angel devil
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Feb 7, 2011 10:55 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
Southmiami1234
Southmiami1234Southmiami1234Tampa, Florida USA9 Threads 175 Posts
Life is short to be waiting .
Moving forward is the best option and that time limit it's up to you.
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Feb 7, 2011 11:02 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
I would probably give it about 6 months ...... because in that time you can learn about a person, without the pressure. Friendship is a great base to start a relationship. Sometimes I think we try to rush ahead too fast. As well, though, I'd probably continue dating others - you don't want to put your life on hold because someone else can't make up their mind. It can get complicated and I've had times in life where the last thought was dating ......... so I get where they are coming from. Good luck.
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Feb 7, 2011 11:32 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
JeanMarlow
JeanMarlowJeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA17 Threads 815 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?
I don't think you can put a number on anything like this. I've no personal experience of anything like this. I have only been involved with men who were totally free. I think that's the best policy. Don't get involved with someone who is not free, body and soul.
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Feb 7, 2011 11:45 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
inkognito
inkognitoinkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads 1,126 Posts
langleygirl: I would probably give it about 6 months ...... because in that time you can learn about a person, without the pressure. Friendship is a great base to start a relationship. Sometimes I think we try to rush ahead too fast. As well, though, I'd probably continue dating others - you don't want to put your life on hold because someone else can't make up their mind. It can get complicated and I've had times in life where the last thought was dating ......... so I get where they are coming from. Good luck.





confused

I think, then you can move on straight laugh

don't believe that that let grow trust, if the other person just still needs time... dunno


but anyway, I just would move on

as if they are not sure about yet, they never will
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Feb 7, 2011 2:54 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
doh I forgot to add the part about it being a LDR. We met one time about eight months ago, and we have be on the web cam every night almost for about one and a half years or so.

iamwhoiamyousee, I agree with you, there are complications, and these are probably not going to change anytime soon. She just doesn't want to make plans to have them not work out. Good for her, but damn ! frustrated
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Feb 7, 2011 2:55 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
langleygirl: I would probably give it about 6 months ...... because in that time you can learn about a person, without the pressure. Friendship is a great base to start a relationship. Sometimes I think we try to rush ahead too fast. As well, though, I'd probably continue dating others - you don't want to put your life on hold because someone else can't make up their mind. It can get complicated and I've had times in life where the last thought was dating ......... so I get where they are coming from. Good luck.



It has been way over six months. blues
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Feb 7, 2011 2:55 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Til you dont want to wait no mo. wine
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Feb 7, 2011 2:58 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
I would probably wait for you Ms.Venusenvy ! wow
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Feb 7, 2011 3:01 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
Mr. Boban is right to in a sense. Bull s9it is nasty business dude. Yucky. But, seems freaky. rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 7, 2011 3:03 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
SuperFreak: It has been way over six months.


Your life belongs to you. The only persons time your wasting is your own teddybear
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Feb 7, 2011 3:04 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
Karma10
Karma10Karma10Budapest, Central Hungary Hungary1 Threads 954 Posts
Ccincy: Just move on.It's not worth it.
thumbs up

I agree
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Feb 7, 2011 3:04 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
crying
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Feb 7, 2011 3:10 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
I know. How about any nice, freaky lady's ( hot of course, in a cool way ) who wants to wait for me until I stop waiting on her let me know and I'll see what happens. I scare myself at times. uh oh
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Feb 8, 2011 3:59 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
Still trying to decide ...moping
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Feb 8, 2011 6:56 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
torley
torleytorleyAuckland, New Zealand17 Threads 631 Posts
SuperFreak: Still trying to decide ...


hmm move on if its been awhile and its not reciprocated and you told them how you feel fo rme its never gonna be just saying is all i wouldnt waste my time lifes to short
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Feb 8, 2011 7:07 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
SuperFreak: Still trying to decide ...
laugh Sorry to hear that but usually when people make excuses it is because they really are not interested..Just move on would be my advise..cheers
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Feb 8, 2011 7:12 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?

Do I left click w/them or right click w/them?confused



laugh
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Feb 8, 2011 7:13 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
SuperFreak: You find someone you click well with, there is a fantastic bond, but that person will not commit to a relationship other than "just friends" until things are less complicated in that persons life. It's always worth the wait if you find someone you like, but how long is too long ?

When you find the right person, time does not matter.
wine
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Feb 8, 2011 7:15 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
Swissblueeyes: Sorry to hear that but usually when people make excuses it is because they really are not interested..Just move on would be my advise..
thumbs up
Reminds me of a book I read;
She's not really into you.sigh
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Feb 8, 2011 7:48 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
Ms.lifeisadream,
You are smart, very very smart. I'll wait. Nuff said ! thumbs up
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Feb 8, 2011 7:50 PM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts
professor I'll wait at least another two hours or so ! rolling on the floor laughing

Just kidding !! I know a good thing when I see it. Besides, All good things are cool...I will wait. applause
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Feb 10, 2011 4:01 AM CST How long is long enough to wait ?
SuperFreak
SuperFreakSuperFreakFreakyTown, Texas USA1 Threads 1 Polls 40 Posts


head banger dancing boogie


wave Goodbye everyone !! teddybear
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