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Mar 28, 2011 9:26 PM CSTHow If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
eagfly
eagflyeagflyLiege, Belgium8 Threads 5 Polls 44 Posts
eagflyOPLiege, Belgium44 posts

How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?(Vote Below)

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3
4%
Better say enough is enough
38
45%
pull on till reaches at the brink of relationship?
6
7%
keep silent
4
5%
Say at one point Good bye
29
34%
She might be in an affair parellel so she is hyper
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6%
Total Votes
85
It is some time very strange to experince woman, who get temperamental and abusive to a man who is comitted. Is she in a parallel affair to shut down present relationship? or temeperamental behaviour is common?
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#1
Mar 28, 2011 9:35 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE
NAKEDMUDPEOPLENAKEDMUDPEOPLEunknown, Wisconsin USA27 Threads 7,370 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLEunknown, Wisconsin USA7,370 posts
It could be a health issue. Mental or physical, she should get a checkup.
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#2
Mar 30, 2011 3:10 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Why would you stay with someone who is temperamental and abusive?
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#3
Mar 30, 2011 3:17 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
maryrachelle: Why would you stay with someone who is temperamental and abusive?


similar to any abusive relationship.
you make excuses for them,
keep telling yourself they will change, etc.
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#4
Mar 30, 2011 3:21 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
pikengren: similar to any abusive relationship.
you make excuses for them,
keep telling yourself they will change, etc.

Then that's their choice to remain in such a situation.
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#5
Mar 30, 2011 3:33 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
maryrachelle: Then that's their choice to remain in such a situation.


i suppose.
but those kinds of relationships don't usually start out that way.

i think it is such a gradual conditioning,
that years go by,
and suddenly the abusee wonders,
how the heck did i get here?

if the abuser tried pulling that crap
towards the beginning of the relationship,
the abusee would be like,
i'm outta here.
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#6
Mar 30, 2011 4:05 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
LouiseDreaming
LouiseDreamingLouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK2 Threads 493 Posts
LouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK493 posts
Patmac and Godsgift, I'm with you, but I'm thinking we are being 'experimeted' on.....
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#7
Mar 30, 2011 4:14 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
ColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK996 posts
The truth is that if you are too caring,considerate,tolerant and understanding to a partners moods then they will take advantage of it until you can not take any more.
Some people are incapable of conducting a civilized relationship for long.
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#8
Mar 30, 2011 4:32 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
maryrachelle: Why would you stay with someone who is temperamental and abusive?


I wouldnt make it past a first date with someone like that dunno
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#9
Mar 30, 2011 4:59 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA1,345 posts
People can become abusive for many different reasons and there are many reasons why someone might stay. Generally the abuser has isolated the victim so much the person feels there is no option other than to stay.

Saying and doing things to undermine the victim's self-esteem and self-worth, is how an abuser makes the victim dependent on them for everything.

I've been in the position of an abusive relationship in the past, I stayed for awhile thinking I could make it better by being better myself, but it wouldn't have mattered if I was perfect--I was never going to be good enough.

Today, knowing what I know and having been through the things I have, I will not hesitate to run for the hills if I see one slight red flag that could lead me to believe someone could be abusive to me...and I'll never allow myself to be unduly victimized by anyone ever again.
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#10
Mar 30, 2011 5:08 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
lilmamma71: People can become abusive for many different reasons and there are many reasons why someone might stay. Generally the abuser has isolated the victim so much the person feels there is no option other than to stay.

Saying and doing things to undermine the victim's self-esteem and self-worth, is how an abuser makes the victim dependent on them for everything.

I've been in the position of an abusive relationship in the past, I stayed for awhile thinking I could make it better by being better myself, but it wouldn't have mattered if I was perfect--I was never going to be good enough.

Today, knowing what I know and having been through the things I have, I will not hesitate to run for the hills if I see one slight red flag that could lead me to believe someone could be abusive to me...and I'll never allow myself to be unduly victimized by anyone ever again.


thumbs up
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#11
Mar 30, 2011 5:11 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
Im kinda suspicious as to what would be making her so "tempermental" hmmm
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#12
Mar 30, 2011 5:12 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
venusenvy: Im kinda suspicious as to what would be making her so "tempermental"


Im also wondering what your definition of tempermental is hmmm
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#13
Mar 30, 2011 5:31 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
ColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK996 posts
venusenvy: I wouldnt make it past a first date with someone like that

Most people who are "like that" do not show their true personalities until they feel as if they have gained enough loyalty from their partner.
Only the really stupid would not be able to get through a first date without giving an indication.
The advantage of online dating is that we have the option of getting to know people to some extent before having a date to get a good idea of who your meeting.
But to my mind too many rush in and do not take advantage of that.
I think that it is one of the few advantages of online dating.
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#14
Mar 30, 2011 5:45 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
Actractorguy
ActractorguyActractorguyTims Ford Lake, Tennessee USA26 Threads 7 Polls 2,089 Posts
ActractorguyTims Ford Lake, Tennessee USA2,089 posts
I will just say this. I lived it for 18 years. Took that long to realize it was a dead end road. I tried to tough it out for my kids but in the end it was literally killing me. Nothing physical but being held prisoner for that long not able to have friendships and any time apart will kill you.

I know the signs and how to run now. I think that's the reason I will do my best to not get married again. I can love someone again and all but hope they understand that as of now marriage is completely out of the question.

peace cheers
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#15
Mar 30, 2011 5:56 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
whitec
whitecwhitecNowra, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 265 Posts
whitecNowra, New South Wales Australia265 posts
If this guy has a brain at all he would just leave , no one should have to put up with this kind of a person , just leave , and you will see what it is like to live life again, just try the single life you will love it yay
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#16
Mar 30, 2011 6:35 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
omgamike
omgamikeomgamikeElkins, West Virginia USA1 Threads 122 Posts
omgamikeElkins, West Virginia USA122 posts
venusenvy: Im also wondering what your definition of tempermental is


Venus,

Five out of seven years I was married to a woman who nagged and criticized every single day of the week, week in, week out. After five years of it, I left. I later discovered that she had been "going through the change", and that it was a hormonal thing.

Would the outcome have been different had I known about it sooner? Probably not.

Hormonal changes can definitely allow a woman to be considered "temperamental"!

Don't know if that helps to answer your question. It is only MHO.

Mike

dunno dunno dunno
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#17
Mar 30, 2011 8:29 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
WitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA4,344 posts
eagfly: It is some time very strange to experince woman, who get temperamental and abusive to a man who is comitted. Is she in a parallel affair to shut down present relationship? or temeperamental behaviour is common?


A lot of times the male in the relationships is a hostile creep who constantly sneak attacks the woman to make her look crazy if she reacts.

If the woman is abusive for no good reason then maybe get marriage counseling, couples counseling or get away while you still can.
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#18
Mar 30, 2011 9:27 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
SCatlyn
SCatlynSCatlynBrecon, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5 Threads 2,166 Posts
SCatlynBrecon, South Glamorgan, Wales UK2,166 posts
ColonelBogey: Most people who are "like that" do not show their true personalities until they feel as if they have gained enough loyalty from their partner.
Only the really stupid would not be able to get through a first date without giving an indication.
The advantage of online dating is that we have the option of getting to know people to some extent before having a date to get a good idea of who your meeting.
But to my mind too many rush in and do not take advantage of that.
I think that it is one of the few advantages of online dating.
I agree with all of your post, and most esp. the last part.
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#19
Mar 30, 2011 10:21 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
felixis99
felixis99felixis99simplicity, Ohio USA139 Threads 2 Polls 13,363 Posts
felixis99simplicity, Ohio USA13,363 posts
pikengren: similar to any abusive relationship.
you make excuses for them,
keep telling yourself they will change, etc.


everybody has times when they are tempremental -

like I have had a couple of pretty drastic shift changes for work & it's got me a little grumpy - especially late in the evening -

so how do we know when tempramental becomes abusive?
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#20
Mar 30, 2011 10:25 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
felixis99: everybody has times when they are tempremental -

like I have had a couple of pretty drastic shift changes for work & it's got me a little grumpy - especially late in the evening -

so how do we know when tempramental becomes abusive?


the op said tempermental AND abusive. grin
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#21
Mar 30, 2011 10:26 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
felixis99: everybody has times when they are tempremental -

like I have had a couple of pretty drastic shift changes for work & it's got me a little grumpy - especially late in the evening -

so how do we know when tempramental becomes abusive?


When it affects Others
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#22
Mar 30, 2011 10:26 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
DeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium2,705 posts
there is only one answer to this question:
Run like hell away from her because life is too short to waste.
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#23
Mar 30, 2011 10:33 PM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
DeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium2,705 posts
well I would not care to answer the question how and when she became temperamental and abusive I just don't care why.
I can't stand violence whether it is physically,mentally or emotionally.I simple don't care and I would leave.
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#24
Mar 31, 2011 8:43 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
LouiseDreaming
LouiseDreamingLouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK2 Threads 493 Posts
LouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK493 posts
HotrodLarrys: Heres The Saddest Thing!

I dont think I have ever in My Life been with a Woman that ISNT, Verbally or phisically abusive,
I Even went to Germany and dated someone from another Country, and she was Even Worst, and She is still there! And I remain single, because In 50 Yrs. (cant find) a Woman who could convince me differently (and I am Not that Hard to please) and That is a Total Digust!
So Yes, I Do agree with the OP, that Many Men are abused from Women....


That is very sad HotRod! sad flower
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#25
Mar 31, 2011 11:03 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
A Big Problem is that it has been bred and passed into about 3 generations Now thru the Children, and the Problem has been Hidden, and now it is only the affect that Lingers, and Nobody can see the Source of the problem, or where it started at, seems the world is Blind, so Why is it that I can see it so Clearly?sigh

Or is it that Nobody will admit it?


Like our Political Offices today Say,

What Happened?help

Yes thats how Sad the World has declined, that people cannot even see what looks them in the face...hmmm
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#26
Mar 31, 2011 11:14 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
inkognito
inkognitoinkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads 1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
HotrodLarrys: Heres The Saddest Thing!

I dont think I have ever in My Life been with a Woman that ISNT, Verbally or phisically abusive,
I Even went to Germany and dated someone from another Country, and she was Even Worst, and She is still there! And I remain single, because In 50 Yrs. (cant find) a Woman who could convince me differently (and I am Not that Hard to please) and That is a Total Digust!
So Yes, I Do agree with the OP, that Many Men are abused from Women....


wow wow wow

LMAO rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


I think you smoked too much weed the last time rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#27
Mar 31, 2011 11:17 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
inkognito: LMAO I think you smoked too much weed the last time


Yaman! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up smoking
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#28
Mar 31, 2011 11:17 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
inkognito
inkognitoinkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads 1,126 Posts
inkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany1,126 posts
venusenvy: Lordy Lordy OMG!!


Oh nah nah scold

you just misunderstood him wine

like once at another thread... laugh
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#29
Mar 31, 2011 11:18 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
FinestWine
FinestWineFinestWineSomeWhere, Nebraska USA58 Posts
FinestWineSomeWhere, Nebraska USA58 posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: It could be a health issue. Mental or physical, she should get a checkup.
Shes very unbalanced..needs HAPPY PILL...Go see a good Doctor..thumbs up
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#30
Mar 31, 2011 11:20 AM CST How If A woman is always temperamental and abusive to a man who is honestly comitted to her ?
FinestWine
FinestWineFinestWineSomeWhere, Nebraska USA58 Posts
FinestWineSomeWhere, Nebraska USA58 posts
I agree with Larryapplause
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