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RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

While you are trying to come up with bad reasons...I just read an article about toxic people. They are usually very confident, well-spoken, and charming. ....just happens to be all the traits women like about men.

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

Yes, be careful if he suddenly wants to get life insurance and shortly afterwards buys a new weapon and plans this "lovely" get away in the wilderness with you.

I am sure he is fine. My ex-gf...whenever she got done watching one of those murder mystery shows....I almost got the sense that she was fearful of me. ...I just think women always think the worse...when in fact a huge majority of men are just fine...same with women...huge majority of them are fine also.

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

Perfect. Why take his word for it. I sure hope you don't have two sons...one being named Melania might be a bit awkward....but cute, I suppose.

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

BTW Ish...you do have a great point of view and not saying it is wrong.

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

CH...you should post some pics of this lovely man.

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

CH....sounds like love to me. I know better than to express my real opinion.

...but actually, it sounds just darling. :)

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

Hello Ish,

She just asked a question....and I just shared my opinion. By no means, is it the gospel.


lol....just joking about the neck thingy.

RE: Soul Mates...WTF is that?

Molly...I would be a little concerned if somebody came on too strong too soon. ...call me paranoid.

a night on the town...

I'lll make sure I stop at a lot of fast food joints on the way out and pack up my suitcase with many mustards..and the ketchup. Make sure the cats are ready to purrrrr.

a night on the town...

Robert,

I still need to make it out by you yet. I think we would have a great time hitting the city. With your charm and my desperate nature, we might just get lucky and not end up behind bars for the night.

a night on the town...

Pepps.


Kiss you where the shining sun does not hit....that sounds like an interesting proposition now. Where could that be? What areas on you does the shining sun not hit. I can think of a couple.

a night on the town...

That is brilliant Pepps. I can fix things. hardware and otherwise...

a night on the town...

Itchy....I must admit...not to my buddy who was with me...but to you and the public here...it was somewhat arousing. That lady had a mystery about her.

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Naw Pepps....just a dollar for my special gulliable lady. ...and only fifty cents for mars.

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You know Pepps, I did hear that. What the heck are women doing at a hardware store? Okay....I know some women know there way around them. But, that does remind me. We have a Menards hardware store...I swear, they must hand pick the most attractive ladies for the cashier jobs.

a night on the town...

Geez Robert....I have been meeting much less creative women than you....and less compassionate. The ones I meet want me gone. I think I need to start taking some notes from the author of the birds and bees....and birds and wasps series.

a night on the town...

Is it that obvious Itch?

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Robert.....just speculation here Robert, I think this lovely lady may have had the same situation going on. Nothing a towel wrapped around your face and a pair of rubber gloves can't cure though.

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On the plus side Robert...what I have noticed, talking with a psycho...there really is no boring chit chat.

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Robert,

To have slept with her....I would recommend a padded room...or something similar, with no sharp objects around.

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spc....she was at a point of not being able to stand still....maybe that was the reason for the rub.

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Molly it was one of those nights.

Robert...I really think you would have loved her. ....you want to talk about not going to sleep.

a night on the town...

The nice thing about my buddy, he is also single and looking to mingle on this site.

what is the point?

Hello Molly,

Yeah. After I reread it...I seen a lot of reference to tea. ....but unfortunately, I am having coffee.

what is the point?

Hello Bloody,

I agree....and so true.

what is the point?

Hello Usha,


I completely agree with you.

Thinking a little more about this situation, the solution to one side of the issue can be easy. As Pat suggested, one blog per day. But to find a solution for what you point out, is much more tricky.

I think the best way to address it is by pointing out the obvious...the less we encourage people to express themselves and engage on the blogs, the fewer people who will participate...therefore...the lower the chance at finding a partner on a dating site.....for all.

After all, we did join a dating site...to make a connection...not repel.


Thanks Usha.

what is the point?

Hello Pat,

I think what you say about limiting a blogger to one blog a day is a feasible solution. If the mods feel there is a need to make some adjustments, they may very well consider that.


...about your photo.

what is the point?

Cap...I do agree. We can choose what we decide to read.


....that, of course, includes myself as well....even when it comes to reading ridiculing blogs.


My concern is for the people who feel that it would be easier to just not get engaged in the blogs of fear of being attacked for their action(s). The more people engaging, the better odds of a dating site succeeding in finding partners for others.

what is the point?

Hello Sea...and welcome.

I am speaking for myself here, it don't bother me to have so many blogs that do not allow comment on the blogs. Again, speaking for myself. However, if others have issues with it, that is fine. Like I mentioned in my response to LJ, I feel that is something that needs to be addressed by the site itself.

Now, would it be more considerate of a blogger to do as you say? I would suppose that would depend on the blogger and blog reader's perspective. The blogger is not doing anything wrong per the site rules...but to ridicule a blogger's blogs in public....I feel is just a defeating deed.

I mean, doesn't it make sense to encourage as many people to express themselves here to increase the chances of finding the proper partner for us? ...that even includes the people who are doing the ridiculing...don't they want a bigger pool to choose from for the proper partner?

Anyway...perhaps the site may make some changes if it really is such a big concern for bloggers to blog many posts. Suppose time will tell.

what is the point?

SR,

I am fine, thank you...I am happy to hear you are doing wonderful as well.

But, to what you say about flooding the board, that is understandable. If a member or members is doing that and the mods are allowing it, then I say it is fine. That is what the blogger wishes to do and evidently the mods are okay with it. Essentially, that is something out of our hands. I suppose one could contact the site and express their concerns about it. The mods do seem to monitor things pretty well and take appropriate actions. However, to make them a public spectacle, thus, having it a possibility of discouraging them and potential new bloggers of expressing themselves....is somewhat problematic to me, just from a reality standpoint. I (we) am/are here on a dating site and the more people that we have a change to engage with, the better our odds of finding a partner...not to mention maybe learning from new perspectives.