Hopefully it is nothing major with your daughter Usha. Maybe let us know if it was caused by that herbal drink, if you can? Good information to keep in mine. Thank you.
Pro....I suspect that some....if not all....people just want to be recognized and get attention. In essence, get some sort of feedback from others about their being. I would think it is just a typical human psychological need. If they cannot get it in a positive way, then negative it shall be.
What about when one's emotions become so strong that they override the logical decision making part of the brain?
The reason why I ask this. I heard once, when coming to women....it is said that, "attraction is not an option."
One can assume that when one talks about options, there needs to be a decision made to choose which option. One can also assume that attraction leads to love.
So, if it is fair to say that attraction is needed for love...then I would say that emotions, for some, override the actual conscious decision making process of the mind.
To bring a little seriousness to your obviously lighthearted comment, there technically is nothing right or wrong about anything....it just simply is. When people are out targeting others with ill-will, a little knowledge and healthy boundaries goes a long ways.
It sounds like you might miss the storm a bit. I am guessing the break up was rather recent. But it sounds like the remnants of the storm still exist within. If you are 100% sure that you made the right decision, I would not even concern myself with what the storm is even doing today. It is time to move forward with your life.
Ches...thank you. You might be on to something. It seems as if women who have been done wrong by a man...all of a sudden it is every man that has done her wrong. You know...men are pigs. (I am assuming all men are pigs when that statement is made).
I totally agree with you, that there are some real and decent people to be found out in real life...even over the internet. Unfortunately, this might be the case where one bad apple can possible spoil the whole lot. The consequences of allowing ourselves to become deeply emotionally involved with the wrong person can be huge. That is why it might be important to take things slow and if something don't add up, chances are something is not exactly right. One phone call can do it, but some who are masters at deception, it might take a little or much longer to detect.
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Hopefully it is nothing major with your daughter Usha. Maybe let us know if it was caused by that herbal drink, if you can? Good information to keep in mine. Thank you.