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Lee,

No damage has been done. She is mid 20's, with 2 children already.

You know...if a person would follow the Bible to a T, being with a divorced woman (in most cases), is in fact committing adultry.

I think she might be more interested in drinking alcohol and just going with the flow of the wind.

Money was not talked about that much.

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That does make a lot of sense...there has to be the process of trust built and established. To me it is suspicious when you are in the trust building process and the person you are communicating with wants you to be unconditionally trusting.


Thanks Keeper.

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KN,

Thank you for adding the male aspect into things. However, I have never heard a single male friend of mine mention a thing about that stuff...but, I can imagine, it does happen.

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Usha....about likes and dislikes changing. What do you think? Does a woman's likes and dislikes change with the wind?

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Keepers....that is kinda interesting you mention luck. I think now days a person needs a little more luck than the old level of luck back in the days.

Thank you.

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Thank you Sweet. I am glad you liked it.

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Thx Blue for sharing your situation.

As any beautiful woman, I am sure you will find that you have many options.

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Keepers....so, things are calculated.


Molly....That is sound wisdom.

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Lee,

I have only known her for about 3 months.

You know what I think....and feel. I sincerely believe that she thinks she can do better for a man than the one she was married to. Maybe one of her close friends or even her mother put that thought in her mind. However it got there, it is now becoming a reality. If she discovers she cannot do better, she knows the man she left will take her back with open arms. So, in reality, she is really out nothing....but now she has the option of looking for greener grass.

My advice to her was....this is a good time to do some self reflection, determine where things went wrong, and figure out where she wants to go from here.

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Legs, I suspect you are right. I suspect that she really does not know what she wants. But, I suspect she does know that she does not want to be in that relationship. There is no amount of communication that can fix a relationship when a woman knows it is done for her.

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Molly,

I can only go by what she said. But, I agree with what you say.

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Wave, no.

I have only known her now for about 3 months....and nothing in the relationship form, other than friends. But, her non-verbals spoke volumes, and now speaking louder.

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Hmm...who knew with this blog I could have been on to something Non.

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That image looks pretty dangerous Ash.

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TY all....greatly appreciate the female and male perspectives.

Have to sleep now....good night.

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Keepers, I think I might be bringing more drama to things than what is real. Perhaps, I just like a little imagined drama?

But, the blog statement here is for real though...at least from what I was told.

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Ash....interesting. With your statement, her mentioning her divorce process to me was an indirect message of her availability.

I will. Good little thing to pay attention to.

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Keeps,

I have only been with one woman all of my life, for 13 years. I don't think I get bored all that easily. What you say sounds very logical, but I am not so sure it describes me. Maybe I am the one who brings boredom?

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Ash,

Wise of you to say. Even when she was married, I suspected something was up....the up was exactly what is going on right now....the divorce.

Her upbringing was not exactly stable....and in my opinion, that is critical.

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Yes....I might think, but I would like to know. About bored...hmmm....I am curious. Why would you say that? Not saying you are wrong though.

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Sorry. That seems to be my m.o.



Does that popcorn come with motor oil?

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No Ash.....just wondering if my thoughts of can we be an item be realized as something real.

But....dreaming is fun too.

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Keepers...she was married and in the process of divorce now. No bullets....no reality to the mental m**turbation.

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...well, the advice was for men....and the blog for both men and women. I am a simple man.

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Keepers, that is what she told me. She was divorcing her husband because she was supporting him and her family for 5 years, while he had a part time job. He finally got a full time job for the last 2 years....but she says, his previous work history still was bothering her....and was enough for her to divorce him.

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It sounds like a simple scenario....but, really......is it?

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It would be easier though if she was taking me. There was a time I had to literally push her out of my face because she was married....only tonight she tells me she is in the middle of a divorce.

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Ash, I think I might be a baby. I need to grow a pair....I think.

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Ash,that is why I ask.

I don't know nothing about nothing.

However, I think I might.

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Thanks Keepers....nothing like sharing that with the world.