Ash....all we are, are humans. Doomed to be flawed and cannot be what every person we are with dreams us to be.
Not to mention, as we age, we will be showing more and more flaws....on top of the already existing ones we do have. That is inevitable. Not to mention, because we now have somebody living with us...sometimes they find some deep dark flaws within us...that normally the general public does not get to witness.
May I ask, how many have some dark secrets that they would never want to become public knowledge? Now lets say, because you are human, you mess up and develop another deep dark secret...but this time, your partner is there to witness it. That does in fact happen to humans. Are men more understanding of this....more so than women? Or vice versa?
Anyway...just some thoughts about humans being human.
Ash....I am gathering that if a man is the full package for their woman, even after years of being together....and he don't mess up majorly in someway or another...things should have a better chance of running smooth.
Right Sweet, it is not an easy topic to talk about....but, what about the partner who has given their all to the relationship and to the other person? Don't they deserve a chance to change? There are people out there who are willing to change.
Anyway, I completely agree with you Sweet and thank you very much again.
In addition Sweet....the lady can no longer use the excuse....I cannot afford to live on my own; therefore, I am stuck. It is equal rights now....or darn near close in many countries.
or...
I am staying for the sake of the children. That is not true....there are many (especially today) single parents making it work.
Hello Sea....that sounds interesting...and would align with option #2. That is sorta funny, a man(men)...have to include myself here because I mentioned it as an option...but, men have alluded to that option but not a woman yet? Or, have they but just creatively danced around the crudeness of that statement with their own beautifully worded statements?
Okay Merc. I think the unraveling has begun....but is it finished. I think I am understanding what you are saying. Love can get the juices flowing....but not enough to complete the cycle. That....is where things get murky....Merc. :) But.....in order for the woman to be in the mood in the first place, love needs to be in place. I think again. From what I am gathering.
Maybe one of Robert's custom silk-screen pillows? I bet if Robert was around, he could explain to you the importance that the natural body of man is able to achieve with such little effort.....eat a greasy pizza....or....eat a greasy gas station burger....drink a glass of water.
Usha, I would take you as my press secretary and also as my mate. Oops, running mate. I can imagine, men may have greedy tendencies too. Great words by Ghandi.
So true KN. These blogs have taught me a lot about stereotyping all people into certain categories. However, it seems as some women out there need the same perspectives added to their lives.
I have heard this said....is it true?
Remember....women seem to be blaming men...and men seem to be blaming women.Does not that skydiving scenario fit in both cases?