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What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Hello DD,

Hmm, that is something to ponder about love and giving it away.

Thank you for sharing.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Xan....


I suppose one can over think it...

and

eventually jump in feet first and give it another whirl.

So...you agree with Robert too???

Robert, that is two of us you have on board.


Good pointing out Xan about the cycle.....seems as if it is easy to get caught in it too.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Robert,

It took me about a day....and possibly a half to admit this to you. I wrote it on my calendar, made some notation of it in my diary, got small tattoo on my inner thigh.... ....okay, the tattoo part is a bit over the top...but yes, I do agree with you.

:)

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Totally agree Robert.

RE: So quiet here...

Hello CH,

Still awake. Are you? :)

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Robert...

That is kinda why I wrote this blog.

Yes....to everything you say.

However, one might be in more love than the other.

One might have a secret agenda.

One might not even know what love is.

But true love....with both people....like you describe...it is true bliss.

tough to find these days, in my opinion

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

and yes GG about LDRs. They are very challenging....can be expensive...can be depressing...but, do work in some instances.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Merc,

I have thought about that too....protecting yourself by guarding your emotions. I wonder if love works that way.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Hello Kal,

That is great to hear about you being able to fall back in love.

But....I question your comment about love only making you stronger....I am assuming that is in reference when you find a loving partner in life. That would be true if you pick right. You are a smart lady, so I do think you have the ability to discern somebody from a toxic nature....to somebody with a genuine heart.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Xan....trust is a huge part of a relationship that you plan on sharing so many things about yourself with....not only your physical self but your spiritual self...your whole being.

....I can relate to your concern and question....

about trust

I believe in the response to EK, I touched on what I feel about trust.

But, I think anyway....to trust again...one needs to understand even more.

Nobody wants to make the same mistake twice only to go through the heartache again (as love offers us)

Therefore, I think to understand...where we went wrong the first time around...or in some cases for some people...the second time around...or third...and so on...

We need to understand where WE went wrong. I think we are very quick to point our fingers at others around us but we fail to recognize where we went wrong. I think a lot of where we go wrong is by not believing the warning signs we see. ....but that is just part of it.... It is said that we, ourselves, are the biggest liars to ourselves.

So...with that said....there has to be a knowledge of what a healthy relationship is. Because, if you genuinely do not know who you can trust or who you cannot trust....you will be only lucky if you find somebody who is trustworthy.

....hmmm....

the power of love
the spell/trance it can put on you
the absence of brain capacity


Now, introducing knowledge and rational brain power to something like that. tough

But, maybe a way to do it.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

gotta run for a few...but will be back

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Hello Usha,

It is nice to see you around again.

I bet you a couple of bucks that I can pick out your serious statements and your not so serious portion(s) of your post.



By the way, I don't know if I could deal with being with a woman who picked her nose in public too.


....but, I think your statement following LaF's lead me into the ending statement I made to her.....and that is about having knowledge when fostering a healthy relationship. In your case, you know yourself well enough to know what you are looking for in a potential life partner. Without that...I would suspect there would be a lot of trial and error....and depending on one's sensitivity, perhaps a lot of heartache.

Thanks for sharing some critical information.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Hello Ek,

Yes, in many cases I think you speak for many singles. Trust is something difficult to hand out again with somebody who has made us very vulnerable.

Vulnerable...

Isn't that something. When we were young and dumb...so innocent. We didn't fully realize what it meant to be vulnerable with love. But after being around the block...the heart's door has become very heavy.

hmmmm

but that beauty of love is still out there....

how do we make the door easier to open?

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

I have to go now Robert. So, after you fall in love and fall out of it....I am going to be asking you this question. Keep that in mind there.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

I wonder Robert....after being with the same person for say like 13 years...I wonder if people don't start thinking about this whole life of monogamy....is that the way it is suppose to be for the human race? Then, they start thinking about nature.

I wonder..

In today's age,

You might be right Robert.

Perhaps that 50% is on the increase instead of decline.

RE: Crazy In Love

I think that is why women call us men dogs...or easy....as in easy to figure out and manipulate.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

remember Robert....non-linear....

the world will no longer operate in straight lines in the near future.

and there is a reason for that

Men are logical

Women...well...not so much...

if women are taking over...


well...

you do the math. :)

So....that might be a good thing too..

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

That might be part of it Robert.


Now women have their own money and don't need rescue from a man in that department.

.....So Robert....

What good can you be to a woman like that?


Perhaps Robert....

You need to stimulate them emotionally?

perhaps

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Robert,

You might be part of the lucky.


....there are some who would be very quick to tell you they should have not gotten involved

....by the way, you and Merc sound like you have similar circumstances.

....then Robert, there are some who are unable to even have the ability to express themselves....as to how miserable "love" can be


....then....there are those who miss out on opportunity because of "love."


....but then....there are those....who found love beautiful


....but

Robert

....the divorce rate is reported to be around 50%

...so

...that means

....flip a coin...

love is either going to kick you in the sack Robert....or rub your sack.

RE: Crazy In Love

nice bump....

Wonder if she will return one day or not.


...anyway, she shares a great perspective on love.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

I think love can be the most beautiful thing a person can experience Merc....have you ever been lost in somebody?

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

& Merc. :)

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

It sounds like you have a big heart Merc.

I am not here to pick apart anyone's comments....they are what they are.

With a heart as big as yours, I bet you any money you will find a man with an equal sized heart.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

...another important thing you raise there Bear...


Do people have time for love?

The internet/smart phones might be taking away precious time spent on love in the past.

What would it take for you to fall in love again?

Hello Bear....how are you? I think with many people...they carry baggage. A lot of that baggage, I would guess, they don't understand it very well. Some they blame on their ex-partner and some...can they blame on themselves? Hmmm....the bottom line, if baggage exists, I would suspect it would be difficult for them to jump into "love" again.

Are the elite/powerful becoming held accountable now?

M4 & CC

Are the elite/powerful becoming held accountable now?

LaF, I agree.

When I was in college and I have heard from others....the saying was, "it is not what you know, it is who you know." .
....wonder how long that will last

Are the elite/powerful becoming held accountable now?

Robert, 4 hours?.......the ladies will be scratching to get to you. I would not share that information on a dating site blog. Actually....very smart of you. I bet you already have 5 new messages from some hot to trot ladies.

Are the elite/powerful becoming held accountable now?

....or AI could take over?

How does a population govern themselves I suppose would be the question I have.

Are the elite/powerful becoming held accountable now?

Of course to top off everything Raph...Saudi with their recent attack on their oil.

and

no...no Usha pics.

She actually has it posted for all us single guys to drool over.