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Friday the 13th

K, LK, I am Googling it right now..

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SA,

I really hope it is nothing at all. But, it is hard to think it will be absolutely nothing with how our politics are in termoil as it is and our first snow here dropped over 20" of snow.

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Yes, YSA...Steve Harvey is good for the soul. However, I am watching the Wolf of Wall Street right now...the watered down version on Fox tv.

I did just prepare myself some chicken broth though. I don't know what it was, but I thought of chicken broth when you posted.

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You are a doll YSA.

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Wonderful YSA.


Thank you for sharing. I wonder if that comes with a hot cup of chicken broth.

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Thanks Mr. Loh Key.

We can blame whoever it is that puts a smile on our faces. It is the real damage we need to be concerned about....perhaps.

I honestly think for Christmas this year, I am going to prepare a turkey....for the record...and stuff the living heck out of it with stuffing.

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While I am still at it, I wonder if Robert might be around....or perhaps he is giving a pillow go round...perhaps.

RE: First Blog: 01 Conflagration- Perfection is not human.

Hello TheHem,

I can understand how people grow passionate about their jobs...and that is a great thing for employers. I think that shows employee dedication.

However, I think....and I stress here...I think....

When everything boils down to it...an employee actually belongs to their employer (for the time they are at work).

within reason of course...

You get hired to do a specific job, with a specific job description.

In return, you receive a pay check.

Anything outside of that, is just drama.

Now with that said, each company has their own culture. I don't know your company's culture. But, if there is some sort of conflict or friction going on, do they have somebody you can talk to about that? If so, I would maybe possibly consider that...especially if what is going on is something you cannot be around.

....but....I do notice that you use the word "hate" a lot. ...in reference to how you feel about what is going on.

Hate is a very strong negative emotion.

Anyway, the call is ultimately yours and if you can remove that hate and have a more neutral perspective, maybe things will get better too.

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Did you stick the pencil where she suggested?


Nice Robert. be careful with some of those lassies. She will ask for the George and stick you with that pencil.

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Thank you Usha...you too....be good and take care. Enjoy the birthday celebrating...be sure to spoil her.

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Usha,

I would suggest doing what suits you the best...as I am sure you and anyone else who reads this blog is going to do.

That also includes your bedding practices as well. I am with you in that department regarding being serious about that.

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Merc....

Thanks for sharing.

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Great SA, I read it.

Yes...very similar.


It is interesting the comments.



I don't know...now.

But if a woman has this mentality that "she can be picky."

She is probably right...she can be.

But I wonder at what point she thinks she has no right to be picky anymore.....like after she is in an exclusive relationship...or perhaps married.

Now if she feels trapped in a relationship and she feels she can still be picky....

well, that I would think would cause a conflict with her emotions.






I say this...because I feel a lot of women feel that way....that they can be picky and have every right to be picky.


But anyway, I am getting off the subject. I was actually going to write a blog about this subject. Maybe later.

Thanks SA for sharing that.

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Of course communication in a relationship is important. If something is lacking, that would make a great discussion.

...of course there are many gray areas to everything...

This is just in general.

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Thank you SA. I will check it out.

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Okay SA, I tried to find it but couldn't. :(

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SA,

I used to date a Jill, but I am not Jack.

I will look at your blog....thanks for sharing.

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Usha....being loving is a selfless act of sorts.



By default, anything you desire from a partner should be fulfilled without having this huge list they need to adhere to.


That includes you being completely fulfilled in the bedroom until you can't take anymore.

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Loh Key, I still think you are being low key as in not trying to be identified....nothing about a God.

What do I know.

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Molly...

There must be...but yet I am still single.

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SA,

I am watching that show right now. :)

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*grateful

:)

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Thanks Jim.

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Molly,

That is a good point.

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Oh....and one more thing...

That first example I gave with no job, abusive and such.....


was based off of a true account.


The guy has a silver tongue...

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That is a good point KN about countries not allowing divorce or it being looked down upon. Maybe the problem with marriage long existed before this divorce rate.


Perhaps humans are not meant to be monogamous.

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I am a half empty type of guy.


It is still 50/50.


looking at it optimistically or pesimistically would be a mistake.




...it is true, what can I say.

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KN, it is probably why I am still single after 10 years.

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I agree Molly, it sounds like a normal relationship.

But, somehow we have ended up with a 50%+ divorce rate today.

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For a person to need or want....

that in and of itself is a form of selfishness.



Love...is about sharing with one another.



Yes...there are needs out there...like we need food, water, and oxygen.


But...some people have more needs than that.

Wants on the other hand....

I think those are forms of selfishness



Selfishness within common reason....???.....that can be debatable.