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Thanks L.L. ....so true. As many think, and I do agree, the reaction to their negative actions will most likely come back to them.

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....and SR, as Keepers just pointed out....we are encourage to choose our friends wisely.

There are many different insightful things that can be spawned from here when coming to the existence of our lives. Again, I think. But as time progresses and hopefully people's opinions are shared, we will see.

Maybe as you say SR...this blog is not worth sharing...you might be right.

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SR, I agree. How could anybody allow people like this to be close enough in their lives to be friends. Unless of course, they themselves share the same values. I think....anyway.

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Kn, your advice is so simple in theory....and very much the way it should be. But.....

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Excellent Georgie. :) Here it is Rosie Palm, and her five daughters.


So, by not exposing anything about money, a man is suppose to organically gain attraction and be able to get away with taking her to McDonalds for lunch.....and if she is super special, maybe dessert at a service station with a small packet of ketchup?

Certainly great advice though Georgie. Nice to see you around. :)

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Berry.....hello.

Another recommendation for the reading of body language, and perhaps verbal cues and a quick little nibble on my ear?

I do agree, body language....including just general proximity can be a clue.





thank you

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Hilo....hello.

Nothing can be any further from the truth....just ask any woman. What is it that I heard....the second marriage of a woman is for money? That cannot be.

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RainB,

I do agree. That is not a good time, right after a divorce. So, you recommend us men to become maybe not so much mind readers, because body language interpreters will suffice.

Good advice though Rain...seriously.

We all have to survive/tools.

Nice Robert....but even nicer Keepers. (and not because she is a woman Robert).

a husband and wife story

Hello Ken,

Thanks for sharing a history I really was not aware of. That one girlfriend you had that wondered why you didn't hit her.... Yeah, I wouldn't really know what to say also. So, I gather you would say that what happen in this blog story is not all that uncommon.

I suppose that divorce was not so easy of an option back in those earlier days. My thoughts would be, if either spouse is not happy with what the other is doing, it is either time to talk and communicate about things, or time to back the bags. I don't think anyone owns anyone....but, like you mention, the earlier days that was not the case with men supposedly owning their wives.

Again Ken, great story and info.

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Robert,

That lady sounds pretty cruddy. You do her a favor and not feed her that service station burger...then she uses it against you in the end. Granted, not to your face, but to your back.

Robert, you might have to write another book about all these women who done you wrong. You are a tough man.

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oops Star....*mental disorder you said.

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Okay Star, as I read further in your last comment, you believe it has nothing to do with her depression. ...more of a personality disorder. Okay. That is understandable.

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Star, I totally agree with your clarification about depression. I think if the wife was on her depression medication and drank alcohol...there might be an issue. But....I don't know enough about depression to know what sort of path it leads to in the end with a toxic relationship.

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Keeps, I missed your comment about drinking like a fish when younger. I can certainly relate to you with this...and even in your current state of not drinking anymore. :)

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Keepers...thanks for the additional comment about hobbies and groupies. ....and secrets.

You know, I do have another blog idea...that has certainly struck me when I heard them talking about it. It does have to do with men.

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Hello Robert,

As Ash has identified, you might have discovered the underlying issue with this whole incident. A hobby. Carving is indeed a beautiful hobby. You might have stumbled on your life's calling.....directional suggestive purpose provider.

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Keeps....

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Legs,

When I first read your comment, I immediately went to my recollection of women I have known for a long time. There is a small handful that have not went off the deep end. But, when I think of the women I do know that have went kinda out of left field, it seems from my recollection that alcohol is a common factor.

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Star,

Regarding your second comment. You might be right, about a misdiagnosis here. Perhaps a somewhat lengthly stay in a mental hospital will help the experts/professionals discover more accurately her mental state and therefore help her with appropriate treatment.

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Thanks Ash for sharing your video. I will be watching it shortly. I hope your new job goes well for you.

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Hello Star,

The mentioning of depression in this blog has served its purpose, in my opinion. Again, I am no doctor...but I am thirsty or hungry for understanding. I am not sure I outright assumed that depression caused the threat on anyone's life. I mentioned it because it was a condition she was suffering from...that was made aware to me. Out of the drive for understanding, I thought it may be worthy of stating here. What I have heard in the past was mixing medication associated with depression is not a good combination with alcohol. Could that be the underlying cause of all of this? I don't and did not know when initially writing this blog. In addition, if I understood your following response, you state that it might be possible that the abnormal events could have stemmed from depression.


Your assessment of her being in a mental hospital instead of a jail does make some logical sense to me. However, I am certain I do not know the whole story here. As I mention, this is only the story from the husband's side. I am sure that the wife has her story...and the authorities who has her behind bars have theirs. Maybe there is something that warrants her being in jail? Who knows, as things unfold further along....like after the court appearance, they may determine that she does indeed need a mental evaluation from a hospital.

Regarding dangerous women, true. Of course there are dangerous men as well. You hit the nail on the head with your closing statement, regarding being careful with who people get involved with and trust. In my opinion, we are living in a different world than 20 years ago. The establishment of trust should carefully be done....given certain types of environments. What I mean by this, somebody who you already know while growing up, or receives many positive reviews from personal friends take less time to establish trust with. However, some complete stranger from a city a person just moved to...or even over the internet...it may take longer time to establish trust.

You mention that this blog is not the nature of women...as I am trying to present. I guess somebody can look at it that way, that I am trying to present this as the nature of women. However, that is not what I am doing here. I am asking if this is the nature of women. I think I ask is it the nature of not many women, most women, or all women? I do know it is the nature of some women....because the event I shared in this blog did in fact happen and was conducted by a woman....therefore, some women have this nature.

I was not thinking about your situation when writing this blog. In fact, your situation never even crossed my mind when writing this.

Thank you.

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Hello Keepers,

A hobby seems to be covered in her area.....going to bars and picking up random guys. I wonder if that could qualify as a hobby? When you bring up a hobby....why? Do you suppose that would be a distraction to her mind running wild?

Remaining quiet while suspicions are in the air.....soon to follow will be kisses and making up. I know this will sound like I have an issue with women....again. But, I have heard that women do not let go or forget about events of the past. So, depending on what these suspicions developed from....or (you mention insecurities)...other negative feeling develop from, is it likely that a woman will not forget? And...on top of it start kissing and making up?

Regarding the groupies, my friend has been in a band for several years and when he met his wife, he was in the band. If groupies were an issue, one would suspect that should have been thought about before she married him.

I just seen a band recently play. The guitarist's girlfriend or wife was right there with him playing. There were some women moving in closer to him, and she just simply stood nearer to him as he played. Apparently she understood the nature of women with band members...in particular her guitar player. (I know...saying that last sentence makes me sound like I have an issue with women). ....or Keepers, what did you mean when you brought up groupies??

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Merc,

You could very well be right on. I have never heard anything about bi-polar, but that could explain a little more.

Thank you.

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Hello Merc,

Let's hope we might be able to prevent something from extremely serious from happening.


It might be....(and I am no doctor here)....but, it might be that the wife was on her depression medication and was drinking alcohol. I have heard it is not a good idea to mix the two.

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Hello Star,

Why in jail, I guess I was not totally complete with the story. She was chasing him down inside and outside the house with the knife. He managed to lock the door and call the police. In the meanwhile, she was stabbing the knife through a door (not sure which one...believe it to be an interior one) and when outside put the knife through a glass door.

I am assuming that there was adequate evidence to collaborate his story and he wanted to press charges. As far as I know, there is court scheduled in the future.

The question, I feel, addresses the potential discovery of the nature of very few women, some women, or most women. The intention was to either hear, or not hear, stories of similar incidences.

From the stories, or lack there of stories, people could then conclude for themselves just how serious this issue is. I feel sometimes the evidence speaks for itself...and I do not have to say anything....because, I don't like telling people how to think.

The bottom line, what has happen in this one story I have shared, is a serious issue...as you mention...and being mindful of this matter cannot hurt somebody. In my opinion

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So Ash....are you saying you are a plastic knife lady as well?

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....good too. Note to Robert...don't give some women that set of knives.

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I will let Robert know about the video too. Or, am I suppose to watch this video? I am guessing that Robert would also recommend a box of condiments with that truck.

I am hoping Robert watches the video and lets me know if I should watch it.

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happy bye bye to you Ash.