You're right, molly, people aren't good at seeing themselves as others see them. I'm actually grateful for that, I don't think I could handle seeing myself through the eyes of others.
I once heard of identical twins who were internet pen pals for years without realising who each other was. It only started because of how much they had in common. Fact is often stranger than fiction, you couldn't make this stuff up, could you?
I do apologise, ekself, but the popularity of my blog is beyond my control but I'll do what I can to let it sink. It's just unfortunate that the very act of telling you that will send it back to the top again.
If this is you, it's time to have a rethink.
Don't mention it, diova.I'll keep an eye on you and as soon as you step out of line I'll paste it up in a blog, so you'll see it. Along with everyone else.