Ok people for you to understand better my situation.
We were 7 siblings one passed away. All of them got married and have children except me. When our parents were getting older and sick I asked for help to my siblings. I was living with my parents and working so I really need it their help. They told me, you are the one still single and living with them.You have to take care of because now they are older. I said ok, but we are seven I'm not their only son I need your help. Their answer was we have our own families and you have no children. This is a family affair and I wanted to share with you people. Now you can see how I feel about my family.
When My brother called me the first time he said, I'm not going to ask for your address. Then next called the first thing he did was to ask me for my address...what a dummkopft I am, I gave it to him.
Lazly, women are better dealing with situations like this. By the way my parents house was sold long time ago. Now I have my own place and he knows it. And I pretty sure he got my cell# from my younger brother.
For the last 20 years he never contacted me until last Sunday. My guess is, now his siblings got married he got divorced and now he is feeling alone. I'm alone myself but I'm not bothering my brothers and sisters.
wafwotam I told my bro, hey I have plans to move to Germany and he said, good we can go together. I thought I was crazy but he is crazier than me. He asked me, how many bedrooms do you have, how many beds. I mean he is completly nut. I won't do a thing like this to a sibling after so many years. That's what really bothering me.
Ok, my question is, Why now? I mean after all those years he suddenly contacted me saying that he's going to move where I live, and he's doing this without an invitation.
Sorry wafwotam, this is true. I know I like to make stories but this one is for real. I don't know how to tell my brother no you can't come to my place.
Thanks to you all. I'm not sure if I have to ask them. It's been long time now. I think it would hurt me more than to make some good on me. Thank you guys for your comments I was looking for some kind of support and you people gave it to me.
Not long ago I started to write lyrics...but didn't know what to do with those lyrics I wrote. I can't read music but I taught myself to play guitar. By curiousity in 2008 I learned how to put together lyrics and guitar chords together. now I can say I write my own songs.
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