I have never got that, how can you find anything if you dont look for it? Its easy for people to have something already to be all "oh stop looking,thats what I did" rubbish if they had stopped looking they would still be single.
I havent been looking for years and certainly nothing has found me.
I dont believe in the someone for everyone nonsense and tbh think far to many people waste to much time focusing on this rather than enjoying what they have.
I never understood the expression "true love" either, I mean surely love is love.
Some people meet a partner for life and some dont.
And I think "Fairytale of New York" is the WORST song ever (I actually want to throw radio out the window when it comes on) but it is constantly makes number one in all time greats lists.
Serend I was a catholic when I read the bible, I believed what it said before I read it, so I was going to it with an open mind,then as I read the realisation came to me that it was all nonsense, to far fetched to actually be true, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders when I realised it was all lies and made no sense so I didnt have to even try live my life by what some fictitious story book said.
I never felt as happy as I realised I am responsible for my life and how I live it not some none existing god, I found it easier to relate to my children as I new I didnt have to carry on the lie that has been told to me over the years, worked out great for them they got extra study times when ohters where doing religious classes.
I have read the bible, I still have a beautiful gold Leatherbound copy in my house, I have read it to my children and will read it to my granchildren, they all know is is simply a book with some storys in it.
We fill in each new birth in it, and each marriage, christianing etc.
RE: An Arab
Nah its called a UB40 tan